Adekunlegold9ja:
I am really not yet at the level I should be financially, emotionally and physically.

I am very low in confidence right now.

I have never had sex before. Even at 26 years old. And this is a genuine decision(I have had numerous ladies try to tempt me for sex which I didn't oblige to)

Tho I started out talking to girls at 22years. Had one lady I so much loved but we broke up.

At 24 I got attracted to a another so called good girl, christian and church goer. I didn't ask her out because I thought it was the mistake I made with my first girl.

I was friends with her till I observed she's no longer close. I asked her out but she said no.

But still got ever closer, then I lost my job 2020, she became distant


Now here's the issue with this second lady I think because she knows I love her and she has been manipulating me. It's not like she's asking for financial assistance but she's been doing some things that do not make sense.

I asked her out again late last year and what made me ask her out again was when she called me and said I should talk to her mum also when I didn't contact her over a long period of time she said she missed me and a whole lot of other rubbish she did.

That made me ask her out which she declined. She said she really loved my personality and expected that I asked her out when we first met early 2020 but I didn't , She said I only chat her and never say I love her.(that was January this year)

Okay I realised she never loved me, though it was difficult I moved on.

Then she chatted me that a friend of hers need a job. That I should help her if there's any vacancy. I love helping people.

So when there was a vacancy I sent the link to her.

A week later.she called me and told me they didn't give her friend the job. And she herself got the job.

I was surprised by this. Because she has a job that pays better than this job in this my current company and besides she never told me she wanted to quit her job
She resumed here and have started her usual manipulative way of behaving.

How do I handle her. I don't want her to derail me again like she did in the past.

I am never gonna ask her out again she's not the only lady in the world and beside I think she likes me but she doesn't want to date me. Which I have accepted.

I am a very shy guy, I don't have much friends and really low in confidence now financially.

I have not been able to talk to another person.
And it's not even advisable for me to even ask any lady out now.

But I am always thinking about this manipulative girl.

I will recommend you read Dr. Robert Glover's books.

Use zlibrary.org website to download the books.

Note: I am in no way a political fanatics, I have no interest in Politics and hardly a supporter of any of the presidential candidates.

If you've seen the book "The Godfather" by Mario Puzo, Don Corleone who is described as the godfather, is the nearest thing to a mastermind from the novel.

I believe Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu is the godfather of Nigeria Politics and the best strategist in Nigeria political clime.

Love him or hate him, he is just too great at Politics.

If I am to get into Politics and I have to pursue endorsement, I will seek it from the Jagaban.

Obj, Ibb and the rest can't be compared to Bat, when it comes to their individual influence in politics.

Talk of loyalty, he commands it more than anyone else.

Talk of political sons and daughters, he has more of it and they're top gun.

He enthrones and dethrones.

This man should be a case study in Political science in Nigeria Universities.

Does he has his flaws? Big Yes.

I think his name should go down in history as Nigeria's political giant ad godfather.

Ciscogod:
Declare lagos another country

Sincerely, Sanwo gee nor one rest.

Everything has to be in place so that he can bag the second term...

When I look at Lagos, I dey shame for Delta.

Tinubu the Jagaban of Lagos and his boys, Dem dey work.

Ibori the odidigbogbo of Delta and his boys, Dem don loot us dry.

JasonScoolari:
I don't patronize prostitute....


One cold morning, waking up with a boner, I decided to put on my TV and listen to MTV base so I can listen to good music while I prepare for work... As I stood there with my boner waiting for DSTV to load, NEPA in their usually manner take their light. So I dropped the remote in annoyance and went straight to the bathroom to have my shower.

I noticed that my "Tiger" is not going down when I put on my underwear, so I had to look for my jeans which I never planned to wear and put it on just to cage him.

The spirit of konji was not pleased with the way I imprisoned Tiger and making his awkward standing ovation on a Monday morning visible, so the spirit of konji promised to deal with me. I dashed out of the house heading to the junction to enter Keke that would take me to the ever busy PTI junction at Warri. I stopped one and entered, then another lady flagged the Keke down heading to DSC round-about, this lady was not putting on bra, (86.25% of Warri girls hate bra) breast was standing erect while her nipples were sharp, almost piercing the white crop top she was putting on.

I looked away from the morning temptation and concentrated on some guys shouting at one Hausa bikeman. Konji had other plans to disgrace me that morning, as another lady stopped the Keke and entered from the other side making me to be at the middle of them. This one was heavily blessed in her behind and also her chest as those two twins on her chest were shining like 2baba's head.

Tiger was struggling to escape, stretching himself to be freed, but I pin it down. Then the first lady came down at DSC round-about, paid the Keke man and left... We stopped at PTI junction as I was about to pay my money before those notorious Almajiri children attack me to beg, I noticed one young girl standing close to me with her breast touching my back trying to greet the Keke driver, stimulated all the hormones in my body. "My God"

I got to the office and that was when I saw konji face to face pointing at me saying I will suffer today. Rukky my colleague came to greet me in an unusual manner by hugging me from behind and telling me that she will come to my area today to collect my electric blender.... So many evil thoughts flashed into my big head as I watched her shake her not too big ass to the changing room.

When I got back home, thinking of all the things I have seen today, I quickly put a call across to one of my friend to help me get pork meat so I can add it to my empty stew.... That was when konji whipped me at the back of my neck to call Rukky, she picked and told me she can't come because she was invited for one church program.... I searched for ladies contacts on my phone, called some of them, but as usual, the "I nor fit come today" was the reply... By this time, all my eyes start to pepper me, body start to hot like who get high fever...

I don't patronize prostitute's, and guy man need to cast the evil spirit of konji out of my body.. I went outside, then a call came in; "Bros you dey house? I dey come now"


You know what that means!!!

That was how konji ran away.

From where did you board the Keke going to pti? Okuokoko or Ebremede/Ugbomro express.

Those almajiri children for pti junction opposite gbagi plaza, mostly the girls, Dem can disturb die.

budaatum:
I blame their mothers for letting their fathers mistrain them. If the mothers had trained their sons themselves to respect women they would not have turned out as pigs like their fathers.

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On Training:

A child can be properly trained at home but still turn out to be the opposite and vice versa.

Note: this points to the fact that there are more factors that can influence a child's character, that goes beyond just the home training...

On Respect:

I believe the case here is not whether the female gender is respected or not, I believe if those ladies wanted respect, they would know well to select the men they open their legs for.

It boils down to the men's EGO, self respect and core values.

Don't just heap blames on parents, some factors are beyond their control despite their effort.

Peace...

smi2021:
Am following closely.. I already got 2 plots I intend to build on. Maybe in 2024 sha because I just finished paying for the plots from my commission as a real estate agent. For now I want to relax before I start saving up again.

I sent you a mail, let's talk more on real estating.

Preciousgirl:


Thank s

Men are dogs In deed

Thank God man is your Father, brother and husband.

So you took your time to marry a dog,

and you were form from the sperm of dog,

Matter of fact, a dog is currently bedding you and filling you up with his sperm.

What does all these make of you?

My friend was dating a girl, whom he later found out was cheating on him.

He ended their relationship and blocked her on all platform...

Subjectively, I think blocking her was a mistake.

What would I have done differently?

First, I understand that the male and female inter-relationship is a game, so my discovery of her cheating nature won't deter me from playing the game, but with care.

So I will;

1) Cut spending money on her.

2) Drastically minimize calling and chatting with her.

Hence: reduce my investment in her.

3) Call her to come only when I want to offload my cream or Bleep her whenever she comes around.

4) Have other girls see her with me, because girls will most likely get down with a guy who other girls are getting down with.

5) Having her around while pursuing other game, will give me the abundance mentality, instead of the opposite...

Peace...