@ pollock

where did you get the stats please refer me to your source

my man if she is already in the relationship and she has the guts to tell you so, please move on you with your life, dont be fooled there are so many single beautiful ladies out there

I would marry anyone that i love irrespective of age and other things. my girlfriend is three years older than me but we love each other to bits. We are not going to let a stupid thing as age f***ck up our hapiness.

i yearn for the time where there will be no war and the time where the world will be a global village, no poverty, where people are willing to share the little the have, no boundries to separate countries, where diversity is appreciated, where being a nigerian or south african doesnt matter, where being black or white is irrelevant.

When you can marry anyone whether they speak yoruba or xhosa; a place where we can be free of hatred of one another. When all these happens such will [size=8pt]LIFE[/size]

I suspect that this guy could be a Nigerian trying to play pranks on us. Black South african are not very knowledgeable intellectually.

@ Planner


I did not want to be drawn into this debate cause it takes us nowhere but that a very misinformed statement ypu just made.

on a lighter note what is the use of braging about nigeria this or south africa that like these forumwill make any difference. Why cant we just love one another and stop this hating. fact of the matter is that no country live in isolation and there is the bad and good in every country. so please , ya'all let it go. its not worth it.

my hands, i dont know why but my female friends always compliment me on them

Stay out of it, its not your fight its theirs, dont get involved cause if you do, believe me they wont me be impressed

Y on God's earth is anyone exchanging words with this Mpele guy. Isnt it obvious the guy is one of these drug addicted, xenophobic southafricans.

Read through his posts and you would agree with me that his IQ level is well below that of an average Nairaland poster.

And by the way, y is the average balck southafricans so intellectually dull?




Mpele is not black, so please dont generalise, not all of us are as ignorant

there we go again attacking each other, eish it could have been anyone, maybe they didnt even know he was a south african

@ poster

my man is it worth it? are you willing to put your family and wife through this pain if they were to find out. You just want to betray your beautiful wife emotionally just because of good old sex? Why don't you turn those lusty feelings you have for the other woman towards your wife to see if it won't work?

Do you know that your relationship will never be the same if you do this? How would you feel it if it was the other way round?

Damn men like you really make me mad. Do you have any idea what men like you cost us( The good ones)? yeah you guessed right partners who struggle to trust us cause they think all men are the same. Clean out your act, its not worth it.

@ poster


you are watching too much movies my friend

@ poster

Don't call the girls, the problem is with him not them. And please don't ever think its your fault he is behaving this way.Men can be jerks sometimes, but not all are. Sit him down and explain to him how his behavior make you feel. If he does not change please leave him cause chances are that he does not respect you.

These kind of men are the ones who contribute on making our lives miserable. These kind of men make it impossible for us(good guys) to be fully trusted by our girlfriends cause they tend to believe all men are jerks . When are we men gonna improve. i have noticed that its very rare to meet a woman who does not have men issues and its so sad.

there is nothing you can do my darling, just be yourself and hope he won't stray, but if he loves you he won't.

I normally hear women blaming themselves when their men stray. The truth is that no amount of beauty or loyalty on your part will prevent your man from looking somewhere else. The thing is men are different from women. Most women would cheat because their partners are not there emotioanlly and all, but Most men will cheat even if you are miss world, great in bed care for them and all but they will steal cheat not because they dont love you, but because they cant help it. Lets just hope your man does not fall in that category.

before you attack me this is just my opinion  

@ BRASH

wrong i have never been to soweto

@ iceland

what kind of english is it you just used, i did not get a thing you just said

@ poster

what the dictionary say about a virgin: A person who has never had sexual intercourse, or sometimes, one who has never engaged in any sexual activity at all

it doesn't say a person who had sex without condom or some form of protection. So sorry to bust your bubbles but the truth is you aint a virgin brother

taking responsibility of your actions is a good thing. be a good man and love your wife and your baby

Just be yourself and love and treat her the way you would like to be loved and treated. you will be just fine.

there was a mistake when you were created you were supposed to come to the world as a dog

just because he has the potential of becoming the first Back American president? com on Africa lets drop the slave mentality.

@ busy body


you just wont forget about the xenophobic attacks will you. Bad things happens everywhere so please forgive and forget

@ whitelexi

my intelligence is way better than yours nigger. you are the one who is shallow. you claim your ego is stronger come on the way you responded showed otherwise. Unlike you i can admit when someone is right irrespective of their genders. try it you will spare yourself some high blood pressure.

We men should stop making excuses for our stupid deeds and act responsibly.

@ ujojan

girl i like you, im yet to see a girl so inteligent like you on this forum,


now go on and knock off those stupid male egos.

When you are cursed- you are cursed, its like you guys helped us get democracy and said "Thou shall pay by not ever beating us in soccer"

come on guys aren't there some honest nigerians who watched the game, rivary apart we out played nigeria at every department, sometimes during the game i even started to believe in your juju

on a serious note, your golkeeper is one of the best golkeepers in the world, its a pity that Black golkeepers are underated, but he literally stood between s.a and victory. he derserve to play on the highest level

@ brush or Brash


dude, you got a wicket sense of humor . you honestly think at this age im still riding a bicycle, come on dude you can do better than that

@ Brush

you are one angry guy. loosen up

do you have an ant-virus? im not saying its the cause but some anti-virus can slow your computer big time