Hi Nairalanders, I'm new here, male and female pls help make my time on here interesting.
Thanks bosses

Reasonabledoubt:


That’s not harsh actually. From the post you put up, is he not self centered and irresponsible?

Or because he is your father that term can’t be used to describe him?

When you bring your issues to a public forum you have given the public the right to voice their opinions.

I have read the regular African advice for reconciliation
, and how it’s the devil’s manipulation that people are giving you here.

But the truth is, a responsible man will not leave his children to starve to even if he hates their mother.

Your father doesn’t love you and your siblings, I won’t bring your mum into this, because his behavior towards her tells it all.

You guys shouldn’t waste your emotions on him, move on with your life, and when it’s time for traditional marriage if you like pay your dowry to him in the name of father, when he hasn’t earned that title.

Make something of yourselves and support your mother, then do your future children a favor by marrying a good and kind man.

Forget all this he must be God loving story, if a man is first of all kind, he will not be able to watch another person suffer.

Your last two paragraphs makes lot of sense , that's the best OP can do

This is deep actually, but people have said it all in the comment section, I just hope everything changes for good for you both so you can live a all round happy life ....sex no be playing matter o

Lol, funny and true in some ways

Jumbus31:
5 ways to make your wife happy
1. Give her money

2. Give her money

3. Give her money

4. I said give her money

5. Give her more money. And thank me later

Lmao ���

I can't help but break down while reading posts like this , I mean how on earth could a father be so mean to his own fruits and the wife he got married to, I'm happy for you sis , sure you will take good care of your mum and siblings. I bet you don't wanna hear my story also , it might make you hate men even more, and as regards being raised by a single parent, maybe it's all about predestination as some people will say.
All the same we thank God for life , here we are doing great stuffs that even children that got the best parental support couldn't do.

Honda and their interior designs always lit, make God bless person

He's just another attention seeker