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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Graphics Competition: The Best Logo Designer On Nairaland by VESTA: 10:59am On Oct 16, 2009
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Our projects emphasize not only aesthetics, but usability. In order for your message to get out there, people have to want to read it. Confusing web sites with mystery navigation, printed pieces that look like they were frustrated, do nothing to transmit your message. Carefully constructed materials and sites do.

Important: The primary besiness of a company determines to some extent how the logo will look. Not just the name.

Business / Re: Cost Of Incorporating A Ltd Company At CAC by VESTA: 11:18am On Oct 30, 2007
Period !

I love your reply - no side talks.
Meanwhile, the CAC site is open to all.
Family / Re: Christian, 15 Years Old And Desperate For A Baby! by VESTA: 1:44pm On Apr 23, 2007
Softee, if you're as desperate as you want to make me believe, I am recommending a Motherless Babies Home for you. They would be glad employ someone like you, and you would equally be 'mother' to so many who would really appreciate you.

I can readily recommend one or two homes to you if you tell me where you live. I wish you happy 'motherhood' in that regard. I'll pray ofr you.
Business / Re: Starting Up A Consulting Company by VESTA: 4:52pm On Apr 09, 2007
Just watch before you leap. Nigerians always believe they can do it on their own even when a professional advice is needed. They hardly meet a consultant, though it's bad. So, 'look well before you leap'

Good Luck.

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Family / Re: Must I Marry Her Because Of Pregnancy? by VESTA: 4:23pm On Mar 17, 2007
I am still around. She is presently giving me more reason to doubt her; to doubt our compatibility. will give you detail soon.

Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Young Creative Designers Wanted by VESTA: 3:12pm On Mar 17, 2007
I'm interested, qualified and ready for the job if the pay is OK. Meanwhile, I shall be sending my resume. Thanks for the opportunity.
Business / Re: Muslims Reject New Naira Notes: No Arabic Inscription by VESTA: 11:10am On Mar 10, 2007
, see the mentality. They're lucky that Christianity sees thing from a different view. Or do they think that the presense of arabic laguage was not noted with emphasis by the Christian world in other old notes? By the way, is arabic language in any way a recognised language in Nigeria?

Next, someone would suggest even RASTERFERIAN language on the notes. They should just mind their words/languages if the do not want the rest of us to uncover so many Islamic things that should not be at Aso Rock etc.

For the last time, such should not be mentioned again if we say we are ONE NIGERIA.
Education / Re: Madonna University by VESTA: 2:16pm On Feb 23, 2007
Madonna University is good but nothing from the best. It could produce professors, but it could as well be rated the last.

Truely speaking, it do not deserve the name UNIVERSITY. You need a visit.

It is just the truth, and since the school is MORE THAN RICH, they deserve the best and that is why I need to stop here untill you visit.

Best in your search.
Family / Re: Must I Marry Her Because Of Pregnancy? by VESTA: 1:47pm On Feb 23, 2007
Still appreciate the love you all have to care to reply to my posting.

I wish to clear some issues raised so far (not necessarily in self-defense) but for a better understanding of the issues.

She really played a doubtful role at the beginning, but when at last I noticed that the story is true, I resolved not to continue with priesthood. Though I had many options, even assistance to travel abroad for priesthood (which is possible), my conscience could not allow me, especially when I remember the INNOCENT babies. I resolved that even if we would not live together, I have to make myself available for those babies, and take good care of them, hence the engagement ring,

Then, I gave her ring later to reasure her that I do not want to count on the past. But it seemed that she can't be patient enough for me. Though I never lusted for her at the begining (I had the first sex due to her excessive demand - I'm sorry to reveal - and the charged environment), I did try my best to make her feel like a woman, now avoiding sex at all cost.

I believe love is patience, but she is trying to prove me wrong, hence my latest worry. She know I do not, and have never chased women arround. And the circumstances of the beginning of our relationship is best known to her.

Now, I am planning to marry her if she is TRUELY for me, or I would remain SINGLE, but a nice FATHER to my babies. Afterall, I deserve more strict measures for losing my self control which I have kept SINCE BIRTH.

I may seem to be revealing too much but it is just as a result of the kind of confidence you have given me by your honest replies. Besides, they are for my, and our good. I believe too that at least one person could learn from my experiences so far.

Thank you all, and always remember to pray for us still. I'll keep you informed.

See you.
Family / Re: I Need Ur Advice As Touching Marital Issue by VESTA: 1:44pm On Feb 14, 2007
you've got your life to live, and not your parents': chose a wife for yourself. But try to convince your people, not necessarily force them as their blessings would help. , and prey for God's direction. Best wishes.
Family / Re: Must I Marry Her Because Of Pregnancy? by VESTA: 1:38pm On Feb 14, 2007
A problem shared is half solved, they say. For the first time, I am beggining to recover since I introduced this problem of mine.

However, I promise to let those of you who spent your precious times reading/replying to my problems know the end of the story whenever it shall be.

As I have long ago taken the blame of sleeping with the mother of my babies for the first time, I wouldn't want to go into the detail of how it happened. Whatever it was, a set of twins (which is blessing indeed) came out of the affair, even though we did not plan it so. , and it all happened when I my papers to the seminary (Missionaries) just arrived, hence the shock. Besides, I never lusted for her, and still believe I can stay single (unmarried) if it so please God. Whatever it will be, I have promised to let you know.

Still expecting more word. May God Bless and provide for you all.

See you.
Family / Re: Must I Marry Her Because Of Pregnancy? by VESTA: 8:01pm On Feb 08, 2007
I'm grateful for the responses so far.

Actually, it is not that I can not marry her. It is that I have the fear that if she is not in this condition, she would have decided otherwise. Besides, I believe in the test of time, which will equally help me to be fully prepared.

In fact, many things she said in her last visit tells me that she has something up stairs, . And I have to sacrifice all I can even if for the sake of the babies.

I will call bach. Thanks.
Family / Must I Marry Her Because Of Pregnancy? by VESTA: 1:25pm On Feb 07, 2007
We started well about 2 years ago and after 4 months into the relationship, she told me she was pregnant for me. Her people said the only option was marriage and I was not psychologically and otherwise prepared for that. And I said NO.

Truely, I loved her, but from day one, I told her I was not in for marriage. She equally made me know her people would not allow her to go beyond her locality for marriage (we are not from the same state, and she is of the poeple that consider themselves to be superior). We settled for just serious relationship until the news of mixed feeling. Besides, I am an anti abortionist and I did everything to protect the babies (twins: boy and girl) the much I could.

I was working and she had graduatd (27 year old). So I found it difficult to believe it was just a mistake. Besides, there is no doubt about the perternity of the babies: they are my carbon copies! Though her people would not give me an access just because I did not aggree with them, I had been in constant contact with my woman.

The issue is that I have tried to let anybody who cares to listen that I would take care of the babies and the mother, and would also marry her (the mother of my babies, you know!) but she had wanted it to be with immediate effect. And she seems to be tired of waiting. I had suffered shock from the news of the pregnancy which made me to make expensive mistakes in my business and told her that I need time to recover psychologically and financially but she would not understand.

Two days ago, she returned my engagement ring after spending the weekend in my house. She left with a PROMISE to DEAL with me and even my family, claiming that I do not love her and would not marry her. I had visited her where she is doing her NYSC on several occasions where she addressed me as her HUSBAND.

, and our babies are now sixteen (16) months old. What do you think is the cause of her latest action? Where have I gone wrong? What do you expect me to do? Could it be she met someone with a 'better' promise during last Christmass period?

Thanks for having time to read from my CONFUSED heart.

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