Always trust her.. But dont always believe her...

I understand your point... But you seem inexperienced... (I am sorry to say that)....

Now lets start...

Guys have a description of girls they will know can only provide sex... Like the ones who are used to leggings, so much makeup, bumshots and all that..
then think of girl who wear mostly skirts and blouse and never allow an inch of their bodies to be opened.... Men see this girls as marriage materials...

Other than blaming guys that they made girls gold-diggers... Blame us ladies, that got no self - control and no say...
We depend on men since our bodies can make them go wild... We do so much to please them so that they can give us money to buy irrelevant things (big phones that we can barely operate, plait hair styles that we remove in the next how many weeks)...

All this things presents that picture in front of men... There is this guy that was dating a lady I know and he was spending on her without asking for sex... Until his friends brought him back to his senses.. (He had already spent more than #100,000 on the girl and for what.... buying bags, shoes, makeup, cream, recharge cards and subscriptions)... are those not irrelevant..

So sissy, instead of blaming men.. Blame yourselve and try to build youselve...

Men now know how to play the game.... So you can blame them for playing smart

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Life has good and bad, ugly and beautiful...

And so does the nairaland romance section... I have been able to see some real question arising from Relationships and been able to see some funny but stupid posts... All the same its part of the fun...

You cant expect people to be serious all the time... You have a choice to choose what you want to read... And you can ask you own questions.....

I like the Romance Section the way it is... I will say...

I got to meet some insane people ....... lol

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

You are threading on broken bottles...this is a situation that calls for spiritual advise...

Better go to a pastor or elder in the church... Because even though I give you a great advise and it works out for you... That lady may one day hand you over to your enemies... (Just like Delilah did to Samson)...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

reel14:


good advice my sister, but whats their, all this girls are just complicated. who knows what would become of her tomorrow?
me and my ex started very well, even when i didnt have. things went sour when she left for service as i stated earlier. cant risk putting my eggs in a basket again. all i need is for mary to stay out of this. but others will feel the heat

i've come to realize that being a good guy doesnt bpay off. players eat the best of the fish while they leave the kanda for us. NEVER AGAIN will this happen

Seriously you didnt tell me you were a good guy...

Well I totally advise against that.... Good guys are only important for marriage .... while the bad boys that make our hearts feel alright... But if you are both then there is no way you girlfriend or wife can ever cheat on you.

The thing is that Nigerian guys think that being a bad guy means having 10 girlfriends.. or only caring about the girl kitty cat (as you said)....

but there is more to being a bad guy that we ladies just love...

I can't teach you... that you have to understand and find out yourself... Remember to change your personality (I mean to perfect it)....

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

lol... Are you serious?

First of all you need to change your entire personality..... some girls actually like shy guys but it might not be this one.....

There are skillls used in gisting ladies... no matter how beautiful or rich they are.. but this skills are not for the shy guys.....

But if you want to change your personality completely and win this bae... I recommend you stop reading love novels and searching how to make a girl like you on Google...

Instead I want you to visit this link www.nairaland.com/Ilengend.... Although what the person in this link says is exaggerated, if you have a mind of your own you will understand how to win any girl

Remember the dorminant guys get to keep the girl... While the lesser ones will look on forever

Haha... You dont have any good intentions towards...

The easiet thing to do is just to tell her straight to her face and break her heart and tell her why you are breaking with her (if you guts will allow)... I believe this will help her learn how to avoid guys like you in the future and be able to judge guys she sees approaching (so in the end you will teach her something meaningful).

I would have advised you to stay with her and let her teach you how to love and trust again. but it seems like you mind is made up....

but still it would have been best if you had stayed with her..... You don't know if a disease awaits you with another runs girl....

Stay Healthy , Stay Wise

I love what you do its kind of cool... Some girls just see guys like a bank account or employment opportunity which is bad...

But please never marry a woman that would mostly pay the bills.... Or you could spend your life washing plates, cleaning the houses and begging for sex instead of the other way around... Marriages are completely different from dating relationships

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

There are Business Centres/Cyber Cafes/Computer Centres where you can work for a salary of more than #20,000 naira pay (I have worked in such a place before) ... Then after months of accumulating something good (money) you can establish something for yourself... Like a computer training center .... Or centers in which you teach student how to design and create website or more...

Can u type fast, do you know corel draw, excel, Ms word, power point... if you dont better go and learn.. Because they are jobs looking for you but you are like a ghost to them...

If you choose to stay at home and wait for white collar jobs that will pay you #100,000 naira a month..You can keep waiting....

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

And Excuse me who is cc lalasticlala?

I understand your point quit well ... But remember that most of the times you are referring to things that happened in the old testament...

Did you rememeber Mary Magdalene she was the first person to see Jesus... (I mean she was a female and not a male and the first person to see Jesus)
Do you Remember Deborah, she was a female judge in the Bible and she did a miraculous thing in those times...

Now think of Mary the mother of Jesus (Why did God need a woman to give birth to Jesus and yet he did not need a man's sperm to create Jesus)

So do you think?

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mr2kay:
I told him too

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