Politics / Re: Fubara Breaks Silence On Appeal Court Ruling On Lawmakers by XXCASH: 8:13pm On Jul 05 |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: New UK PM, Starmer, Unveils Cabinet Appointments by XXCASH: 8:09pm On Jul 05 |
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Religion / Re: Why Do Nigerians Become Less Religious When They Travel Abroad? by XXCASH: 2:10pm On Jun 23 |
uche87:
Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based journalist. Easy. Govt over there provides solutions for most of their problems 2 Likes |
Properties / Re: Top 10 Biggest Estates In Nigeria by XXCASH: 4:51pm On Jun 22 |
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Politics / Re: My Enemies Now Sleep With Eyes Open – Fubara by XXCASH: 4:48pm On May 16 |
richiemcgold: Wike talks too much
Funbara too is now doing the same
Both of them are using the same weapons -- you blast me, I blast you.
Like play like play, 4 years will be rounded up with little or nothing to show for it in terms of developments and good governance. Difference is its part of Wike's personality but not Sim. So he looks silly making all the noise On development, Good for us Rivers people. I voted for Tonye Cole as it was clear then that Wike would be overbearing as usual and things could likely going to end this way. I warned so many people For once, let the followers/voters take responsibility. Its not everytime we blame leaders |
Politics / Re: Pressure Mounts On Some Aspirants To Withdraw Ahead Of APC Governorship Primary by XXCASH: 5:47pm On Apr 20 |
ussv: Why can`t we practice actual democracy in this country? Is primary not supposed to be all comers affairs? why pressure someone to withdraw? Cos its alien to us. We can't practice what we don't understand |
Politics / Re: Atiku's Next Move To Clinch The Presidency. by XXCASH: 5:47pm On Nov 22, 2023 |
zoedew: Atiku's next move is to get all opposition parties into a merger to form ONE BIG POLITICAL PARTY so he can be fielded as its Presidential candidate.
How well can he succeed at this? Nonsense next move. People that can't remove Wike from the PDP. It's a big shame And I was one of Atiku's biggest supporter. Seriously dissapointed |
Romance / Re: Vladislava Galagan: Is She The Most Beautiful Bodybuilder In The World? by XXCASH: 7:49pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Infolenka: Her name is Vladislava Galagan. She is a 26 year old Russian bodybuilder
I actually think if she didn't go into body building she would be one of the most beautiful women in the world. But even with a masculine body she is still sexier than many women I know. Terrible. Why can't she just remain as a fine girl. What's all this rubbish muscles 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Supreme Court Judgement Is Disappointing, Concerning - PDP by XXCASH: 9:38pm On Oct 26, 2023 |
nairalanda1: Show is over. 2027 is around the corner. Get ready.
The opposition loses when it is divided. That is one lesson it took Buhuhari 3 elections to learn. Even 2011 election, the man gutted the opposition, and formed his own party, and there we are. Same for Peter Obi...gutted PDP, and asa result, APC won.
Yes, APC won because PDP was divided. If you want to abuse me, fine. You would be sounding like the CPC supporters who abused all and sundry in 2011 when their man lost again. Person wey wreck the ANPP to become president, yes, e go work.
Personally, I no like PDP or APC, or LP. But APC needed to be voted out, and PDP was the only viable party left that could do it. And Obi, like Buhari in 2011, wrecked that chance.
Anyway, the problem is, Nigerians do not learn from their mistakes. Apparently Obi is so perfect, he cannot lose. Same thing Buhari suppoprters were saying years ago
Anyway, we need a united oppositon in 2026. Not thisone where X is on one side, Y is on the other. Wisdom. Well said Will the so perfect Obi agree to collaborate. Very funny people that dont understand anything. I also wanted APC voted out but like you rightly said. Obi messed it up. Wike started it by refusing to allow PDP micro zone but Obi finished it completely |
Politics / Re: ‘LG Chairmen Use Good Vehicles’, Senate Defends Purchase Of N160m Suvs by XXCASH: 8:58pm On Oct 24, 2023 |
kiddkash: I don't pity a single Nigerian especially when they complain about anything in the society One of the best comment I have read in recent time We Nigerians are hypocrites. Dont listen to the complain, they only do so cos they are not eating Are these people not suppose to represent us. That is, each and every one in this country has a rep there but we rather sit here and complain. Sighs*** 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by XXCASH: 7:36pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2: seems like she came from well to do family, she's not use to "that kind lifestyle".
you knew what you signed up for
well there two things here , you either stop trying or you up your game . Well summed up. Good man |
Family / Re: Married As A Virgin, Married For Love Yet..... by XXCASH: 12:35pm On Oct 14, 2023 |
preshpraiz: It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.
My whole world is crumbling. I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations.
I came from a good, not so rich home but my parents were so hardworking.I had a good moral upbringing, went to tertiary institution and graduated with good grades.
While in school, I never had a boy friend though I had a lot of "chykers", never went clubbing, didn't socialize much.
Few months to the end of my NYSC, I met my husband. We got talking and boom, I fell in love with him. He is my ideal man....he doesn't drink nor smoke, gentle and soft spoken.
He wasn't earning much but it didn't bother me. I believe in working hard and growing with my man.
Now my regrets... * The "angel" I married has refused to get a job after losing the last one during COVID 19.
He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals.
I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no.
I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep.
Now our rent is due, no money. I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all these.
When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now. I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house.
Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio
First of all, the assumption that you married a perfect man was wrong. Nobody is perfect and you didnt see his flaws. Its a lesson so take it as such Secondly, as long as he is not violent. You must continue to appeal to his sense of reasoning so he can change. Try a little more, dont give up yet. Finally, you must note that no marriage is perfect. I have been married for close to 20yrs I can tell you that from experience. Do all you can to find a solution before giving it a quit. Unless you have a violent home, raising kids alone is definitely a no no I must add this, dont be jealous by those you see. There is no way your sacrifices wont pay off. Just your ideals growing up that kept you without flirting could have a positive impact on your kids Success in marriage is not how large you live but what you make out the kids you have. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: My Uk Visa Was Rejected, What Did I Do Wrong by XXCASH: 12:26pm On Oct 14, 2023 |
Saviourplease: Hi House,
I am billed to attend a company sponsored training in the Uk by the end of the month but my VISA application was turned down for the reasons attached. How do I handle this and improve my chances in my future applications? Your company is ready to spend 7X your monthly salary for a 5 days trip. The thing shock me too. Sorry, I dont believe that too and I see why they rejected it If you simply applied for a visitor's visa showing you can sponsor it, that will be better than this. |
Politics / Re: No Hope For You At The Supreme Court – Umahi Advises Peter Obi by XXCASH: 6:36am On Sep 10, 2023 |
CharleyBright: Oga Dave Imahi, Biko eat your cake quietly, but let it not choke and humble you too soon ( cos it eventually will).
And let me ask you, if Tinubu had lost at the Tribunal, what would have been your advise to him? You would have told him he shouldn't appeal? Atiku is also heading to supreme court, why haven't u advised Atiku not to do same? Peter Obi name kee u there!!
Though I don't see the supreme court upturning Tinubu, but let Atiku and Peter Obi go and contest the judgement again.... At least that aspect that say INEC has liberty to determine how it wants to transmit result. That is unacceptable.
I went to vote because the electoral law mandate INEC to transmit results electronically, and INEC told us severally they would transmit electronically. No corrupt rag-tag judges should turn the rules upside down and drag our electoral process backward.
So you mean the results were not transmitted electronically. Have you checked Irev to confirm this 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: NNPP Crisis Worsens As Kwankwaso-backed Faction Expels BoT Chair, Others by XXCASH: 6:02pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
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Politics / Re: Gen. Murtala Backed Coup Against Gowon For Appointing Igbo Man NNPC DG - Clark by XXCASH: 5:58am On Aug 27, 2023 |
Penguin2:
And that makes you more knowledgeable of, and an authority in, history than Pa Edwin Clark that has been around for more than 8 decades and participated in the making of the history you have been taught? Read and study people, dont shape your thoughts by what one person says. Open your mind and try to be objective, you will be shocked by what you can see But feel free to also remain like this. Thanks and bye on this |
Politics / Re: Gen. Murtala Backed Coup Against Gowon For Appointing Igbo Man NNPC DG - Clark by XXCASH: 8:48pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Penguin2:
Who taught you the history you know and how did you know it’s authentic? I'm not sure how old you are but I have been around for more than 4 and 1/2 decades. So please dont ask me silly questions 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Gen. Murtala Backed Coup Against Gowon For Appointing Igbo Man NNPC DG - Clark by XXCASH: 8:10pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Penguin2:
You are a Kalabari man and you don’t want to know your history? The right history?
If you read the piece, you would see that the said Igbo man for whom a coup was led against Gowon was from Kalabari.
The implication is that these guys know you are, and see you guys as Igbo, but you have been fed rubbish which you have held onto, erroneously, for far too long.
Now you are mad that someone is trying to set the record straight? Which history, the one that suits his narrative I know when to listen to someone 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Gen. Murtala Backed Coup Against Gowon For Appointing Igbo Man NNPC DG - Clark by XXCASH: 6:15pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
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Family / Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by XXCASH: 2:37am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verokeena: Good afternoon Nl family Please pardon my epistle
My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .
What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)
Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)
When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..
He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..
I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..
The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number
I don't just know what to do...
Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him My dear, I have been married for over 15 years and you must understand that men have ego issues. That's why he is depressed To start with, I dont know how many kids you have but that doesn't sound like a good environment to raise them. I'll suggest you go to take them and stay with your parents/family for a while. It will take the special grace for him to forgive, you can go over once a week to prepare meals the week. Your husband needs to spend sometime on his own. He needs to reflect and think properly for now |
Business / Re: FG Mulls Redenomination Option To Stabilise Naira by XXCASH: 6:28pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
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Politics / Re: El-Rufai Absent At His Son, Bello’s Wedding (Photos) by XXCASH: 8:04pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Acekidc4: E be like say guyman no put hand for this Second wife thing oooooo!! Was looking for your profile pic so I fit report you to your wife ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: What Advice Do You Have For A 35 Year Old With No Job, No Skill, No Wife . by XXCASH: 10:59am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life. Please advice him I get angry when I see messages like this For crying out loud, he should put his sh*t together and get something doing. There is no way he is not interested in something. Otherwise he should be my guest. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Obi: Failure To Electronically Transmit Results Nullifies Presidential Election by XXCASH: 9:42am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Okoroawusa: Peter Obi and his supporters are yet to show us how he won the 2023 election...yet he wants Tinubu's victory nullified under frivolous claims. That's all. I lost my respect for him the day he said he won and will prove it. Scam scam scam, that's all PO has. And I use to support him o, good thing I saw through him months to election 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: What Is That Thing You Want To Stop But Always See Yourself Doing It Again by XXCASH: 10:44pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
blazepascal: What is that thing you have tried to stop for a long time, but you still see your self doing it. Smoking. 30yrs now and I still cant stop I will by His Grace 6 Likes |
Career / Re: ₦200,000 Minimum Wage: FG To Take Decision Soon by XXCASH: 4:47pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Depriest2020:
For federal workers, state can choose what they can pay. Even at that, not possible If they can do 100k, that will be great |
Career / Re: How Can A Single Guy Manage ₦25k Salary In Port Harcourt? by XXCASH: 11:58pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: Comments can come in now Na to just hang himself. 25k.... what madness |
Family / Re: When Is The Best Age To Give Sex Education To Your Child by XXCASH: 8:01am On Jul 16, 2023 |
DaBogu: I wish to ask this question to know if I am on the right path. I am a kind that believe parents should start teaching their children at age of 14 and above about the danger of having sex at a tender age.
Sometimes ago, I received the most brutal disgrace of my life. I have this neighbor that has two daughters. The eldest is 15 years old while the other one is just 12 years old.
So there was a day I was teaching them about the danger of having sex at all and of course at such tender age.
In the course of our conversation, their mother walked bye and she started yelling at me and raining all sort of insults on me. She was like, what sort of nonsense am I teaching her children, what kind of rubbish is that, my children are young and yet you are teaching them rubbish, for your info my children are young and they don't know anything about all the rubbish you have been saying, never and never in your life talked to my daughters in your life.
I was disgraced but was later rescued by my brother who instructed me to apologise to the woman.
Now, the question is, does enlightening our children who has attained the age of 13 and above about the danger of sex portends any danger. And when is the right age can one start teaching his/her children about the calamity of sex ?
Please, Matured responses.
Thank you in anticipation I see responses and notice that most people see sex education mainly about sexual intercourse. Wrong There are different levels of sex education and you should start as early as possible for both the Male and female child E.g From 6years, your child should be taught about the need to keep her private parts private From 9years, they must know what to look out for in predators. Uncle, Aunty etc. From 12years, they should start to understand the dangers intercourse. From 16years, teach them safe sex and emphasize the importance/benefits of abstinence After this, they are adults so you got nothing on them anymore. Just your prayers and presence is all you can give Finally please note, it's not in your place to teach other people's children about this. So you were wrong doing that 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Our Shops Will Be Demolished Because Igbo Didn't Vote For APC — Alaba Shop Owner by XXCASH: 8:24pm On Jun 17, 2023 |
JAMO84: After, una go say Dem hate Igbo
Many non Igbo houses have been demolished, to avoid collapsing, e reach una turn, una turn am to politics and tribalism. I have stopped listening to them. Just ignore 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Emefiele: DSS Uncovers Planned Campaign Of Calumny Against Government by XXCASH: 8:22pm On Jun 17, 2023 |
Pandev: we're enjoying your wailing ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) More than ever. I'm really enjoying the wailing 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N100k Monthly Job In The Village Or N150k Job In The City by XXCASH: 12:48pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Trekkin: 100k salary per month in the village OR 150k salary per month in the city. give reasons please Guy, are your village people after you Why should one take an offer in the village when compared to one on the city with so many opportunities that can come up in the city. Unless you are about to retire 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Senate Approves Tinubu's Request To Appoint 20 Special Advisers by XXCASH: 5:37pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
MRDEE01: 20 special advisers? fair enough.
I just hope he does away with Ministers of states I agree but dont forget he needs to have all 36 states represented in the cabinet and not as SAs. So that would be difficult without minister of state. |