So my divorced cousin has been through a series of committed relationships since the crash of his marriage. He moved into a neighborhood barely six months ago after breaking up with his last fiance almost a year ago.

He met a girl in her mid twenties who is about fifteen years younger and they hit it off as friends. The younger girl lives on the same street within an estate with my cousin. Two months ago she told him she was pregnant and refused to get rid of the pregnancy and she is planning to move in with him because he apparently lives alone in a duplex while girl shares a three bedroom apartment with her mom and brother.

She is not working and my cousin says he can already feel the pressure and entitlement from her family. Part of what led to the crash of his marriage was that his ex wife's sister lived in the same estate with them and kept meddling into their affairs. He sees the same pattern especially considering that what led to his first marriage was pregnancy.

He has other children who are currently outside the country and he is responsible for their upkeep and thinks this new girl who claims she cannot stress herself is all about what she can benefit from him. He is looking for ways to stop her from moving in with him even if he will continue to be responsible for the unborn child

Jennylove21:
He should consider the following

Following?

lanre9ja:
He should just marry her

He’s scared because things go bad when she is around and he does well when they are not in good terms and she is away

Hi all

So I called my cousin to check up on him yesterday since it’s been a while I heard from him. So in the course of our gist I asked him about his girlfriend who he’s been dating for about two years and practically lives with him now.

He resigned from his good paying job about a year ago to focus on his business and he appears like he’s doing well but when he opened up me, I was a little puzzled about the things he revealed

The lady he’s been dating is a pastor and they’ve been sleeping with each other but he said most of the time when she’s in his house, his business practically grinds to a halt and that he experiences his biggest breaks and successes whenever they have a misunderstanding and she’s away for days. He said he’s experienced the same scenario like 6 times since quitting his job. As a matter of fact, his most remarkable success was achieved when she was away (following a quarrel) for three weeks.

He’s not the type that goes to church but the recent spike in his business when she was not away for about a week and the sudden downturn since she returned about two weeks ago has got him thinking again.

He’s quite confused and I told him I’ll pray and get back to him though I don’t even know what to pray about. Has anyone experienced anything like this before and what did you do about it? Does who you’re with affect your business fortunes?

Hmmm. Thanks for all the advise. I was wrong but there's nothing happening again. Although I used to talk to him fondly about my boss and things in the office which I'm sure makes him not want to trust me. My boss was also at my wedding and he gave us presents and cash which he is aware of.

What can I do now? The trust is gone.

Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

Olaolufred:

A PROOF THAT THE OCCUPIER OF ASO ROCK IS WHAT THEY CALLED HIM.

I WAS AT TARKWA BAY AND TRIED TO SEE THE PROGRESS OF THIS ILLUSTRIOUS PROJECT.

MEN, IT IS MEANT TO SAVE OUR COASTLINE.

WE MUST NOT POLITIZE EVERYTHING. THOUGH WE KNOW THAT IS WHAT FG UNDER JONA IS KNOWN FOR.

BUT, LET US BE SINCERE WHEN IT IS CLEAR ENOUGH.

Spot on bro

I wonder why some people will just sit hundreds of kilometers away doing nothing and frustrating the efforts of those that do just to drag the performers down to their mediocre level