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Romance / Re: Seeking Advice: Bridging The Gap In Our Sexual Relationship*l by Zhunnurayn(m): 10:06pm On Jan 06
dierich:
Good afternoon, Nairaland community. I'm seeking your guidance on a sensitive issue affecting my marriage. My wife and I have been married for almost four years, and we have a beautiful three-year-old son. She's a wonderful partner - young, caring, and hardworking.

However, our sexual relationship has become a point of concern. As someone with a high libido, I've struggled to adjust to our differing sexual needs.

The Issues:

1. Frequency: We rarely have sex, averaging about twice a month. Sometimes, we go an entire month without intimacy.
2. Duration: Even when we do have sex, it's often brief, lasting around 3-5 minutes. Reasons is because she cum within that time range while I'll still be active for 30mins
3. Initiation: Sex usually happens when my wife is in the mood or during ovulation.

My Concern:

This year, I've made a commitment to myself to remain faithful and not cheat on my wife. However, our differing libidos have led me to reconnect with an ex-partner who shares my sexual appetite. Being with her makes me feel satisfied, and I often find myself wishing I had that same connection with my wife.

My Request:

I'm not looking for excuses or justifications for infidelity. Instead, I'm seeking advice on how to address our sexual mismatch and strengthen our relationship. I've taken good care of my wife, and she's happy and content in our marriage.

Please Help:

How can I overcome this challenge and find a more fulfilling sexual relationship with my wife? I'm committed to our marriage and want to ensure that our differing libidos don't drive us apart.

Embrace Islam and peacefully remarry a second wife, that will give you peace of mind and satisfaction

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Romance / Re: Seeking Advice: Bridging The Gap In Our Sexual Relationship*l by Zhunnurayn(m): 10:05pm On Jan 06
elmagnifico411:
So sorry I can’t help u. I’m in a similar situation here.. married for 9yrs with 2 wonderful boys. Sometimes there could be no sex for a month sef.. this last December that just went by, it was just two times. I have talked and talked, and stopped talking sef. U only get it good when she comes around, I mean when she initiates it. If not, I get to write and write before getting laid. I have helped myself out sha.. currently in a relationship with a single mom who’s got her own apartment so I don’t get to pay hotel bills and shiii.. even slept over on Christmas Eve. See ehn, right about now, I don’t even feel any guilt, though I’m being cautious. If she ever finds out, I’ll apologize and move on. I don already seal my mind.

Embrace Islam and peacefully and legally marry her as a second wife....that will give you peace of mind and satisfaction

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Family / Re: Why Are Step Siblings Always Like This! by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:37pm On Dec 22, 2024
I'm from a polygamous family of four wivesbut we are united by love. In fact people think any of my stepmoms as my mom cos of how much they Care for me..I'm more closer to some of my step brothers than my full brother.. of course internal rift and politics may slightly exist but it's difficult to assess who is who as it's very rare

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Food / Re: See How I Prepared This Goat Head (isiewu) With Bitter Leaf (video Pictures)leaf by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:27pm On Dec 02, 2024
Mariangeles:


Rabbits should never be eaten.
It should be a crime to kill and eat such cute angelic creature.

I mean, how does one kill a rabbit? undecided

Woke animal right activist spotted
Properties / Re: How Did You Deal With Cockroach by Zhunnurayn(m): 12:39pm On Nov 28, 2024
Love800:
Okay. Hope the cat wont inflict injuries on you while you are sleeping in the night!

How do you handle the poo? So the cat will be pooing in your bedrooms, parlour, kitchen!

And what will the cat eat. How will you feed it?

As I said cats are very neat, they only poo. far away on the sand and bury it.. just expose them to that training as a kitten by keeping it around a sand area for few days..
Again I said cats are safe, they only cuddle but never inflict injuries in someone. About feeding, just give them any food on a plate. Sometimes give them meat too.
Properties / Re: How Did You Deal With Cockroach by Zhunnurayn(m): 1:31am On Nov 28, 2024
Love800:
Okay.
But where do they actually stay in the home?

Will you construct something like a little home(cage) for dem?

Nope.. cat's don't need all of that, they randomly lie down anywhere they deem comfortable and neat within the house..
But when you first get a kitten tie it in the compound and feed and pet it well for few days after which you lose it and it will always consider it a home.
You might construct a house for the cat, he may end up using top of your wardrobe or squeeze himself between cushion chair's, and never even use the cat house ;Dvery unpredictable creatures
Properties / Re: How Did You Deal With Cockroach by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:18pm On Nov 26, 2024
Love800:
The cat will live with you in your bedroom and parlour?
Lol yes cats are very safe and clean. They don't need expensive care just feed them and pet them and allow them to roam freely in the house. You will say goodbye to cockroaches rats lizards and even reptiles like snakes will keep off..
By the way cats are friendly companions

Properties / Re: How Did You Deal With Cockroach by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:05pm On Nov 26, 2024
Love800:
The cat will live with you in your bedroom and parlour?

Lol, yes cats are very safe and clean pets. They don't even need expensive care, just feed them and pet them let it roam freely. You will say goodbye to cockroaches, rats, lizards and even reptiles like snakes won't dare enter your house.. cats are friendly companions too

Properties / Re: How Did You Deal With Cockroach by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:00am On Nov 25, 2024
Get a cat
It's presence is a danger warning to all sorts of unwanted insects and rodents

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Religion / Re: Man Calls On Jesus As Cat Enters His House (Video) by Zhunnurayn(m): 4:56pm On Nov 17, 2024
saintkel:
That name Jesus is d most used name on planet earth....even Muslims n other religion use that name

Yeah yeah, you don't need to stress even Muslims because Muslims are believers in prophet Jesus just as we believe in prophet Muhammad. It's a misconception that we are against Jesus, which in Islam is tantamount to disbelief.
But my question is why do Christians in some regions don't use Jesus as a name. I have only seen a french person named Jesus.
Foreign Affairs / Re: US Election: Why A Candidate Could Have Highest Votes But Still Lose by Zhunnurayn(m): 12:22pm On Nov 05, 2024
Whobedatte:
I think a multicultural and ethnic state like Lagos and Abuja should be a deciding factor in Nigerian election s subsequently.
These two are consists of highly educated Nigerians
You must win at least one of these two to be declared a winner.
Democracy is a game of numbers but it still faults in a way where a state or states where the majority of its people are not educated at least minimum of secondary education get to decide the polling result because of large population.
This just my opinion

Humans from time immemorial have been having leadership irrespective of their educational status. The constitution defines government's primary responsibility as providing well being for the whole people not just educated people.
So non educated people have equal say with the most educated people in democracy..by the way who said western education is a criteria for having a good sense of judgement to selecting leaders.

N.B the so called educated Lagos and Abj voted a man who on countless occasions publicly made inciting statements backing a terrorist group.. calling for a religious war. A man under whose 8 year reign as governor built not a single school, and poverty index increased.
Romance / Re: I Am Still Not Sure About What To Do About My Life. by Zhunnurayn(m): 10:04am On Nov 02, 2024
Drop your number, I for one will reach out
Celebrities / Re: Police Uniform: Verydarkman Detained In Custody After Honouring Invitation by Zhunnurayn(m): 12:48am On Nov 02, 2024
omooba05:
Uniform wey don cast, Even portable and small doctor is using it as rag in their various home presently.. Police sef dey form steeze ontop their Halloween cloth

There's licencing for movies under fair use laws, that's why you see things like acknowledgednts, citations and copyrights in the movies you mentioned. The Nigerian police are not daft .as to go after someone for the very thing that others violate. Stop castigating your government just to sympathize with a clueless non entity who violated the law.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Iran Executes Jamshid Sharmahd After Years In Captivity by Zhunnurayn(m): 9:45pm On Nov 01, 2024
Akwamkpuruamu:
Iran too de do......


Dem get luck say no be Israeli dem kill, e for dd bloody. Germany fit forget but not Israel

You are an idiot, stop making yourself sound a fool on public forum.
Just few weeks ago Iran killed Israelis on their own soil heaven did not fall.
Which one is a greater offence, this is just a prisoner on their own land.
Hate Iran and Islam but be rational and stop disgracing your lineage
Foreign Affairs / Re: Ballot Boxes Set On Fire, Stolen And Thrown In Gutters In US Election by Zhunnurayn(m): 3:51pm On Oct 29, 2024
viodemus:
This is the effect of Crump. [s]The most useless American to ever be president.


[s]He will help you to disgrace and destroy you.

oh I will give Israel free hand, so that he can disgrace their president and the whole Jews in public, and then start a division between them and white Europeans.

When it comes to his white race, he acts like he likes them and wants to help them, only to disgrace them and be groping their wives, because he is insecure that there are more whites more intelligent than him.


He is a maniac. I don't find his antics funny anymore, ever since Jan 6 2021. If mike pence did not stand on principle that day, Who knows, USA the great might have been in an all out civil war today. But I am grateful that God is greater than the devil.


America will not go back to a period of blatant insanity and lies. If it was not crowd size, it was another childish or dangerous actions.

The criminal is not fit to run as a McDonald's supervisor, not to talk of running a great nation like USA the great.


with that said, kamala and walz have their work cut out for them. They have to manage inflation, be innovative, be creative, create and expand jobs, educate the populace, and keep world peace and prosperity. These are no small feats. But they are the best suited for the task ahead. Mr chaos the criminal will be worse.




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The trash you wrote is best cancelled
Foreign Affairs / Re: Ballot Boxes Set On Fire, Stolen And Thrown In Gutters In US Election by Zhunnurayn(m): 3:50pm On Oct 29, 2024
viodemus:
This is the effect of Crump. [s]The most useless American to ever be president.


He will help you to disgrace and destroy you.

oh I will give Israel free hand, so that he can disgrace their president and the whole Jews in public, and then start a division between them and white Europeans.

When it comes to his white race, he acts like he likes them and wants to help them, only to disgrace them and be groping their wives, because he is insecure that there are more whites more intelligent than him.


He is a maniac. I don't find his antics funny anymore, ever since Jan 6 2021. If mike pence did not stand on principle that day, Who knows, USA the great might have been in an all out civil war today. But I am grateful that God is greater than the devil.


America will not go back to a period of blatant insanity and lies. If it was not crowd size, it was another childish or dangerous actions.

The criminal is not fit to run as a McDonald's supervisor, not to talk of running a great nation like USA the great.


with that said, kamala and walz have their work cut out for them. They have to manage inflation, be innovative, be creative, create and expand jobs, educate the populace, and keep world peace and prosperity. These are no small feats. But they are the best suited for the task ahead. Mr chaos the criminal will be worse.




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The trash you wrote is best cancelled
Politics / Re: Hisbah Clears Auwal Sankara Of Misconduct by Zhunnurayn(m): 9:49pm On Oct 23, 2024
Kukutente23:
So what does sharia provide as remedy for tarnishing a married man and woman's reputation?

To public declare the alleged innocent and 80 lashes of came to the accusers for their crime. And further recognize them as liars whose future allegations will not be taken
Education / Re: Lion Kills Handler At OOPL Zoo, Management orders investigation by Zhunnurayn(m): 6:02pm On Sep 29, 2024
HenryWilliams:
That's the result of too much eye service and overzealous behavior.
Why would guests come after opening hours and coerce you to feed lions?
So you can't correct them?
Then you now fed the lions without observing safety protocols just to show off to the guests..
It's good..
Now you're dead..
Happy now?

Very cold
Romance / Re: The Most Protected Secret In The World. by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:51pm On Sep 25, 2024
okoroemeka:
that the Egyptians are clever there is no doubt but the notion of them having advanced knowledge maybe questionable,it maybe advanced in their time but nothing to compare with what we have now,it is on record that Egypt was invaded and colonized by the hyskos in the seventh dynasty bc,and this invading hyskos defeated the Egyptians by using two things previously unknown in Egypt,the horse and the chariot.if they are so clever like you think they are how do they not know how to build a wheeled vehicle.
The pyramids was accomplished with nothing more than brute human strength,pulleys levers and an imaginative thinking,also your theory about cameras existing in the pre historic times may also be flawed,there are numerous eye witness account from the conquistadors that invaded the ancient incas mayans and the Aztecs,no record of a camera device also explorers like Marco polo went from Venice to shores of the china sea and Burma without seeing or documenting an instrument like the camera,even in feudal Japan they kept records,even the twice mongol invasion of Japan in 1274 was carefully documented and recorderd by court historians,this people keep records and preserve images by paintings and sculpture,the support technology like the moulding and grinding of lens that will help to make a camera was not available until the 12,the century,of most mysteries and conspiracy theories in the world today the answers could be found in the most unlikeless of places,the Vatican secret archives,this heavily secured vault has 83 kilometers of shevels packed with more than 80,000 texts,100,000 letters and numerous seized inventions, devices,secret books, secret correspondence that span almost 1000 years

Well well, not a conspiracy theorists but one thing is certain, the ancient Egyptians had a technology far beyond what our history tells us. The pyramids are not just mete structures built with human labor and pulleys and levers.
Research on it, each block weighs around 20tonnes, 20k kilograms!!! How do you do that with wooden pulleys obtained back then and lift it one above other up to around 150 metres, above all with laser like smooth Precision cuts. Will they do that crude cutting files? The top of the pyramid is one quarter of an inch off center, after placing 2million plus blocks, what a precision!!! Even modern technology architecture is yet to achieve such feat. Again there's a proven theory by Nikola Tesla that the pyramids in could possibly have generated electricity by vibration or solar energy (can't recall) it's in coinciding parameters with distance of the sun, and facing true north. With all this we will be very unfair to say our ancient people have nothing of advanced technology. But I don't buy thing of conspiracies. We can say something happened that reset the advancement and it was lost in history

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Education / Re: A Nairalnder Just Got Admission To Dental Surgery! by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:49pm On Sep 08, 2024
Healthrelatedjo:
Congratulations!

Thank you thank you uce
It's been a long ride wink

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Education / A Nairalnder Just Got Admission To Dental Surgery! by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:03pm On Sep 08, 2024
Hip hipp hiipppppp........

I have finally been granted admission to Bayero University of Kano to study dental Surgery. It's a dream come true for me. I was in top of the world. I felt fulfilled and happy.

I greet all the dental Surgeons across the country, students of dentistry on this forum and all aspiring students of this noble field.

The journey ahead is great, I need your advice on scaling through medical school.

#NairalandRoyalCollegeOfSurgeons

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Education / Re: Dentistry And Dental Surgery As A Career In Nigeria by Zhunnurayn(m): 5:59pm On Sep 08, 2024
Hi everyone
Zhunnurayn is finally a student of BDS at the Prestigious Bayero University of Kano
Hip.hip hip

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Foreign Affairs / Re: In Dubai, We Don't Go To The Gas Station; It Comes To Us: Dubai Man Shares(pix) by Zhunnurayn(m): 11:03am On Sep 04, 2024
EdiskyHarry:
Nigeria has all it takes to be like Dubai, but due to useless leaders elected due to tribalism and religion has tendered the country completely useless.

How can Nigeria be Dubai when a single local government in some states is more populated than the whole UAE. It's an unfair comparison. They have resources to cater for a small population, we have the resources too but for a population with exponential power of theirs
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Hiring Writers For Romance, Werewolf, And Mafia Novels by Zhunnurayn(m): 10:28pm On Aug 29, 2024
Interested
How's the pay
Literature / Re: What's Your Favourite Novel Of All Time by Zhunnurayn(m): 10:45am On Aug 24, 2024
Theama:


Wow... much appreciated, thank you.

Maybe anything concerning his wife (I think Fatima is her name) or the princess(Sheik's daughter)?


Yes his is Fatima, but a fellow slave girl like him . The princess fell for him but he instead loved Fatima..She was freed along with him and they went back to his home together and had a child in the end. While The princess later married Ahmad, another prince from shettimas hometown.

... reminiscing on the good ol' days wink

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Literature / Re: What's Your Favourite Novel Of All Time by Zhunnurayn(m): 5:10pm On Aug 21, 2024
Theama:


Yeah, Seems I got the title wrong(it's been long)


You've read the return?

Yes I read the return..He once again reunited with his friend Al Atiku, when he paid Shettima a visit in his village. Shettima resolved to fight against slavery and declared war on shehu Minchika the Great Slave adealer. After some time, the Shaeik Gatma died too, Alatiku took over and decided to end slavery on the camp.. Workers were given choice with salary.
...a very fine novel
Literature / Re: What's Your Favourite Novel Of All Time by Zhunnurayn(m): 12:35pm On Aug 21, 2024
Iagos:


Please do you have soft copies of the following books? African Nights entertainment, the children of Ananse. I would do anything to read those books again

I have the hardcopy of African nights entertainment

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Literature / Re: What's Your Favourite Novel Of All Time by Zhunnurayn(m): 12:19pm On Aug 21, 2024
Theama:
I don't have a particular favourite.

Maybe I'll pick like

1) Mother's Choice

2) The Slave Child.

I never got to fully read the part 2; The return of the Slave Child.

Do you mean the boy slave
Of shettima Gattama?

I once read its return can't find it anymore

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Health / Re: Admission Admission Admission: Lily College Of Nursing Sciences by Zhunnurayn(m): 2:23pm On Jul 29, 2024
Lilyhealth:


Duration is 3 years...for Fees kindly say hello on our *WhatsApp:* 09168341910

Can we pay on behalf of our guardians to guarantee admission?
Health / Re: Admission Admission Admission: Lily College Of Nursing Sciences by Zhunnurayn(m): 2:22pm On Jul 29, 2024
AguluLiar:
No private institutions should be allowed to run medical courses, be it nursing, pharmacy, medicine or medical laboratory tech.


In Kano alone I can't count the number of private medical institutions.... especially nursing own
Literature/Writing Ads / Need A Youtube Script Writer by Zhunnurayn(m): 9:32am On Jun 14, 2024
I need a YouTube script writer urgently for news niche. Send me an email or drop your WhatsApp number.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Two Indians Recruited By Russia Killed In Ukraine by Zhunnurayn(m): 10:18am On Jun 12, 2024
Beazysledge:
not fct but through telegram I don't know how safe this site be but I fit send u link through dm

Send me the link please, accept my email request.

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