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Religion / Re: Some Songs Dedicated To Blessed Virgin Mary.....please Add Yours Too! by zitel(f): 7:04pm On Aug 15, 2013
Hail Mary,
full of grace, the lord is with thee,
blessed are you among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus,
Holy Mary mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour our death; AMEN.

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Family / Re: Help Me Get Over My Sister's Death by zitel(f): 4:30pm On Oct 28, 2012
@mourningsister, sorry for ur lose bt my dear you wil never get over it, I would be lying if I told you that you would.
But with time you will heal "you will never forget" but you wil heal.
there will always be a void that is deep inside of you and that void will be your sister.
Things in life just happen that's out of your control. You can wish a million times to have that one moment back and think to yourself "if I had to do all over again, I could have done something different". Truth is you can't have that back and you know that. So you have to start looking on the outside instead of dwelling on the inside.
Example: you need to remind yourself that this isn't your fault and this was out of your control. It's a horrible thing that has happened. But it did happen and you must never "forget" but you must move on to live your life.
Life is no fun when your not living it to Enjoy it.
You ve to learn how to live without her but think about it, she would want you to go with your life don't you think? Do you think she would want you to get upset every single day of your life and living with regret? I doubt sad sad
Life is sweet it's worth living, life can be great. You are blessed to be here so grab life and go on with all it's worth.
Do what your sister would have wanted you to do, go live and enjoy your life. lipsrsealed
Family / Re: Debrief, cotton101 and those that came out alive. Got A Few Questions For You. by zitel(f): 11:40pm On Oct 25, 2012
women are really suffering angry angry cry

wen I was very young, my father use to beat my mom lyk crazy, he even beats her in front of his siblings lipsrsealed
if she doesn't serve him his dinner on time, she gets a very sound slap.
there was atime she came back late from church, my father flogged her with our T.V wire.
he beats her if she tries to hide part of her salary from him.
it was sooo bad, it traumatized us " the children" whenever we hear his car horn we run into our rooms.
we were so scared of him. on one fateful day, he was beating her and she ran to the kitchen, pulled out a pestle n hit him on the head. they were both hospitalized bt after that day the beating stopped. my mom and Dad are still happily married, my dad is now a changed person, he plays and joke with us. at time my friends envy my very close relationship with my dad.

F.Y.I my mom is now a tigress, she doesn't take shyte from anyone. Even my husband dey fear her oo grin grin

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Family / Re: Debrief, cotton101 and those that came out alive. Got A Few Questions For You. by zitel(f): 11:40pm On Oct 25, 2012
some men are really wicked angry angry angry angry
Music/Radio / Re: Is Tonto Dikeh's Song That Bad? by zitel(f): 4:42am On Oct 18, 2012
nipeks001: I used it as start up tone 4 my nokia.As i on the phone,the two hands no gree shake again.


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Family / Re: Nairaland's Cutest Baby Contest by zitel(f): 9:36am On Sep 14, 2012
^^ what a beauty kiss kiss kiss
Fashion / Re: A Size 14 by zitel(f): 11:39pm On Apr 18, 2012
wow!!!!!!! u look amazing kiss kiss kiss
keep it up wink
Family / Re: Would U Allow Your Mother In-law Live With You After Your Wedding Day by zitel(f): 4:01pm On Mar 24, 2012
NO!!!!!!! THEY CAUSE TOO MUCH WAHALA
Romance / Re: He's A Lot Younger by zitel(f): 2:58pm On Mar 15, 2012
age doesn't matter in love and affection, but the important thing is, are u sure about his feeling? does he feels for u as same as u do? if so, then go for it. hope u will enjoy. good luck.
Family / Re: The Fear Of The Unknown by zitel(f): 2:25pm On Mar 15, 2012
Karma, ahhh. We sow what we reap... We reap what we sow! We reap what we sow. The law of cause and effect. And we are all under this law. grin grin grin
Family / Re: Lack Of Romance & Intimacy In My Marriage by zitel(f): 2:11pm On Mar 15, 2012
Romance doesn't come naturally to many guys. they are told from an early age to be strong, don't cry, take it like a man.....i.e. to hide their feelings.

Keep yourself in shape. Go for a few runs every week, so he stays interested. I don't know if you do or not but make sure you don't neglect your own physical self.
Wear a light perfume in the night and just a long t shirt with no bra n panties.go to his bedroom. seduce him. Initiate sex'. Cuddle him. Kiss him. don't be shy And you will see the spark developing into a raging fire.try to (Switch it up and be creative in bed smiley , that should wake him up.
also Try doing things like sexy role play. Hopefully that spices things up

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Romance / Re: Lack Of Romance & Intimacy In My Marriage by zitel(f): 2:04pm On Mar 15, 2012
Romance doesn't come naturally to many guys. they are told from an early age to be strong, don't cry, take it like a man.....i.e. to hide their feelings.

Keep yourself in shape. Go for a few runs every week, so he stays interested. I don't know if you do or not but make sure you don't neglect your own physical self.
Wear a light perfume in the night and just a long t shirt with no bra n panties.go to his bedroom. seduce him. Initiate sex'. Cuddle him. Kiss him. don't be shy And you will see the spark developing into a raging fire.try to (Switch it up and be creative in bed smiley , that should wake him up.
also Try doing things like sexy role play. Hopefully that spices things up
Family / Re: Would U Accept Him Back by zitel(f): 12:18pm On Mar 15, 2012
NOPE!! Guys like this wont change...they have anger issues and will take it out on any1!!
You might think that he has changed at some point, but once time goes by, and you get in an argument or irritate him- you'll realize that he hasn't changed one bit.
If you marry him, its only going to get worse. He will never ultimately change. It will get better for a little while, then he will hurt you again. And every time he will hurt you worse and worse until you're lying to EVERYONE in your life about how you got that cut, or that bruise, or how you broke your arm.
if You marry him then you're dumb and naive. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Family / Re: How Do One Get The Husband To Pay For His Children's Welfare After Seperation. by zitel(f): 12:01pm On Mar 15, 2012
If he's such a deadbeat that he won't support his children willingly, go to court and have support ordered.
Family / Re: Little Children's Annoying Habits. by zitel(f): 1:12pm On Mar 14, 2012
I think it is a matter of perspective.
Children (especially young ones) won't have fully developed their social skills, and may react in a different way than perhaps you would expect. Most young children won't understand how to behave properly (although you could argue that this is a fault on their parent's behalf) and often they won't understand that they can't always have what they want.
If you don't have the understanding and patience to realize this, then you will find them annoying and they will probably find you to be mean.
Romance / Re: She Keeps Talking About Her Ex by zitel(f): 8:01pm On Mar 13, 2012
This girl is playing head games with you. She may not intentionally be doing that, but in the end it’s happening. It is completely unfair on you, not to mention very cruel.

Right now she is being very self fish.

If she still has feelings for this other Arrow, you will never be able to change that no matter what you do or how hard you try to.

If I were you, I’d be breaking it off with her until she can decide who it that she wants.

If she chooses him, let her go. It will hurt very much, but why should you always be second best for someone who doesn’t respect or appreciate you ?

If she chooses you over him, make it absolutely clear that there is to be no more contact with him ever again.

Her relationship with him is toxic to you.

Something will eventually give, so do something about it now so that it doesn’t end badly.

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Romance / Re: Need An Advise by zitel(f): 7:51pm On Mar 13, 2012
try confronting her in person about it..that way she cant make up an excuse to hang up or whatever.
something doesnt seem right though that she is doing this. obviously people talk more in the beginning of their relationship and it dies down some..but not to the point of not wanting to talk barely at all.... you have to ask her about it and if she doesn't want to talk to you about it you need to decide whether to break up with her or not, it's tough man i know but you gotta do it.
Fashion / Re: Please Help My Knuckles Are Very Dark And I Am A Light Skinned Girl by zitel(f): 7:38pm On Mar 13, 2012
Try rubbing your knuckles with a mixture of pure lemon juice and table salt. The salt acts much like a pumice stone and the lemon juice will help to lighten the skin. However, you'll have to do this regularly (a few times a week) to see/maintain results.
Family / Re: HELP! Save Me From My Family Lawyers by zitel(f): 4:11pm On Mar 13, 2012
If you don't trust your lawyer not to lie and steal from you, you probably should not have that lawyer.
If you believe the lawyer has stolen your money, contact the local bar association and file a grievance. lawyers get disbarred for stealing clients money.
Note, however, the lawyer is entitled to be paid for his services. What was your agreement with the lawyer?
Family / Re: Help! My Husband Wants Me To Change My Name From Ndidi To Sinmisola. by zitel(f): 12:30pm On Mar 12, 2012
sorry i meant to say first name.
its still ur choice, if u dont want to change ur first name then don't change it. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Family / Re: Help! My Husband Wants Me To Change My Name From Ndidi To Sinmisola. by zitel(f): 11:41am On Mar 12, 2012
You should do what you want to do. Secondly, YOU'RE the one who has to go by the name.
Not wanting his last name has nothing to do with how much you love him. It has to do with keeping your individuality.
If he loves you enough to marry you then it shouldn't be a problem.
I think it should be totally your decision, not his.
You are married, not imprisoned. If your personal identity is important to you, then he should respect that from his love for you. kiss kiss

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Family / Re: Nl Mothers, Pls Help My Baby by zitel(f): 6:30pm On Mar 11, 2012
thank u moms, i really appreciate all ur advise. may god bless u all
Family / Nl Mothers, Pls Help My Baby by zitel(f): 7:39pm On Mar 10, 2012
hi mothers, i  need your help. my 2yr old daughter sucks her thumb.
she recently started school and her teacher complained that she's not attentive in class,
and does not play with the kids in her class and that she sits in a corner and suck her thumb.
her teacher advised me to stop her from sucking her thumb. but she cries anytime i try to stop her.
what do i do? how can i stop her from sucking her thumb without hurting her? thanks

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