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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Richy4(m): 1:47pm On Sep 18, 2019
Internet... It doesn't forget so easily .. That's why the 'harmless crooks' here always open a new account just to paint themselves holy and nice each time they want to post a story that touches.. just to avoid what OP is going through right now from Nairaland CID.. smiley ..

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Fortune109: 4:44pm On Sep 18, 2019
Pathetic

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:11pm On Sep 18, 2019
You should have mentioned if you confessed your crimes to your wife, and brother before his death or not, so that people will know how to advise you.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by ahnie: 7:21pm On Sep 18, 2019
Richy4:
Internet... It doesn't forget so easily .. That's why the 'harmless crooks' here always open a new account just to paint themselves holy and nice each time they want to post a story that touches.. just to avoid what OP is going through right now from Nairaland CID.. smiley ..

Lolz

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 7:30pm On Sep 18, 2019
Thank you ,, I didn't confess to my wife or my brother about my niece . My brother was stabbed in the nightclub where he went to drink with friends. I have seen some people here reminding me of my past which it is painful , hopeful that my wife has not read it yet or else it will make things worse. I just want her to be home with us, myself and the kids are missing her every day. The house feel so empty without her



LilMissFavvy:
You should have mentioned if you confessed your crimes to your wife, and brother before his death or not, so that people will know how to adviqse you.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 7:31pm On Sep 18, 2019
sinaj:
Wife please come back and sort it out with hubby in the hospital, church and bedroom please embarassed


Thank you so much
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by akinade28(f): 8:01pm On Sep 18, 2019
Vincent88:
Thank you ,, I didn't confess to my wife or my brother about my niece . My brother was stabbed in the nightclub where he went to drink with friends. I have seen some people here reminding me of my past which it is painful , hopeful that my wife has not read it yet or else it will make things worse. I just want her to be home with us, myself and the kids are missing her every day. The house feel so empty without her




Nobody is perfect, everyone has made a mistake at one point or the other.
Even if you hid your mistakes from your wife for now, what of if she finds out in the future, it will cause greater damage to the kid, your wife, your marriage and yourself.
If your wife truely love, she might forgive you.
Your misfortunes might be because you are covering and hiding your mistakes.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:02pm On Sep 18, 2019
If your wife or her family members are spiritual, then they may have been told In a church that you are the cause of her childlessness, tho they may not know exactly how the fault is yours. Probably that could be the reason you are tagged a ritualist.

At this point in your life, you must be strong and face whatever comes up, she may come back to you, or she may not. Get a nanny to help with the kids if you can't cope alone.

Not everyone who read your previous/current posts blame you, I felt sad and broken going through your posts, especially seeing that you were just 17yrs when your sister in-law began seducing you, and it took you two years to fall into the temptation. I'm so sorry, I can imargine what you went through in her hands, and of course your brother would never have believed you if you told him.

I am convinced it is karma playing a fast one on you, a wife who genuinely loves you may listen to you and forgive you, especially since you committed the evil due to pressure and at a young age, that's why you should have confessed long ago. Unfortunately, your brother is dead. After the burial is over......if your wife returns, go on your knees and confess, make sure you lay emphasis on your age and the torments you went through. She will be mad, but ''may''forgive you. If she dosent return and you remarry in future, go on your knees and tell your new fiancee. It is best you confess and set your self free. I once heard about a nanny who used to beat the baby under her care, if the baby poo she takes the poo and smashes it on the child's mouth for the child to eat, baby would cry cry and become sick. To cut the story short, this nanny later married but was childless for many years, till a word came for her in church, she confessed and was set free. I would like to modify my post when you are done reading, I don't like sounding spiritual in the family section. I advice you pray and get closer to God, God will help you.
Vincent88:
Thank you ,, I didn't confess to my wife or my brother about my niece . My brother was stabbed in the nightclub where he went to drink with friends. I have seen some people here reminding me of my past which it is painful , hopeful that my wife has not read it yet or else it will make things worse. I just want her to be home with us, myself and the kids are missing her every day. The house feel so empty without her



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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by GHoJes: 8:31pm On Sep 18, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
If your wife or her family members are spiritual, then they may have been told In a church that you are the cause of her childlessness, tho they may not know exactly how the fault is yours. Probably that could be the reason you are tagged a ritualist.

At this point in your life, you must be strong and face whatever comes up, she may come back to you, or she may not. Get a nanny to help with the kids if you can't cope alone.

Not everyone who read your previous/current posts blame you, I felt sad and broken going through your posts, especially seeing that you were just 17yrs when your sister in-law began seducing you, and it took you two years to fall into the temptation. I'm so sorry, I can imargine what you went through in her hands, and of course your brother would never have believed you if you told him.

I am convinced it is karma playing a fast one on you, a wife who genuinely loves you may listen to you and forgive you, especially since you committed the evil due to pressure and at a young age, that's why you should have confessed long ago. Unfortunately, your brother is dead. After the burial is over......if your wife returns, go on your knees and confess, make sure you lay emphasis on your age and the torments you went through. She will be mad, but ''may''forgive you. If she dosent return and you remarry in future, go on your knees and tell your new fiancee. It is best you confess and set your self free. I once heard about a nanny who used to beat the baby under her care, if the baby poo she takes the poo and smashes it on the child's mouth for the child to eat, baby would cry cry and become sick. To cut the story short, this nanny later married but was childless for many years, till a word came for her in church, she confessed and was set free. I would like to modify my post when you are done reading, I don't like sounding spiritual in the family section. I advice you pray and get closer to God, God will help you.
You gave him the whole truth as it is, why are you ashamed/afraid of sounding spiritual somewhere?

Op your wife's family already found out you are the cause of your wife's problem but don't know exactly how. Confess because continual silence will cause problems still even with another wife. What you did is grave, you led your brother to an early grave and damaged others too. God is only being merciful and giving you time because you were young and pushed into evil but you were old enough to run from evil, Joseph was not as old when he fled, so you see you had no justification but your redemption lies in confessing and you must restitute by taking care of your brother's kids no matter what.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by donigspain(m): 10:07pm On Sep 18, 2019
Consider RHESUS FACTOR!!!

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Daviddson(m): 11:16pm On Sep 18, 2019
I disagree with those of you talking about karma when the OP made it clear in his other thread that it was the brother's wife who seduced and practically threatened him into sex with her. Though that doesn't totally mean he's innocent, it's wrong to say he's experiencing retribution. Notwithstanding, this is obviously a spiritual case.

What this young man needs is deliverance and salvation.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by rOsy247(f): 1:02am On Sep 19, 2019
kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).

FBI wehdone sir

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by bjbjbj: 4:10am On Sep 19, 2019
Your pass sins are the one hurting you for having a kids with your elder brother wife.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by bitingcool: 4:41am On Sep 19, 2019
pocohantas:


Lol. Nairalanders and investigative journalism

grin

I hail d guy

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by bitingcool: 4:43am On Sep 19, 2019
Your wife never born her own. You carry 3 children+ 1 wey U born for her to nurture? You want to add death to her childlessness?

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Richy4(m): 8:04am On Sep 19, 2019
Daviddson:
I disagree with those of you talking about karma when the OP made it clear in his other thread that it was the brother's wife who seduced and practically threatened him into sex with her. Though that doesn't totally mean he's innocent, it's wrong to say he's experiencing retribution. Notwithstanding, this is obviously a spiritual case.

What this young man needs is deliverance and salvation.

cheesy his Brother's wife threatened him with sex? He should have abandoned his shirt too like Joseph in the good book and ran way... Does that ring a bell? .. smiley

On a serious note, in my my opinion, This got nothing to do with spiritual. He only needs peace in his heart through change of thought.. in a situation where there are means , a good specialist doctor can diagnose what the problems are.. Only when there are no means that people resort to tagging everything to spiritual..

U remember in Nigeria every poor old woman is always a witch.. If she's the type that suffers amnesia and mistakenly goes out and couldn't figure out where her house is... Oh!! She's coming back from witchcraft meeting. Some will claim they saw her flying down the road. . . for me that's how this OP's case sounds... Ignorance from the side of the inlaws

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by CaptainMitch: 8:33am On Sep 21, 2019
Happy birthday fine girl
UyaiIncomparabl:


Ode
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 2:12pm On Sep 21, 2019
kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).


Chai. Sisisioge. Inside life. lipsrsealed
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:50pm On Sep 21, 2019
CaptainMitch:
Happy birthday fine girl

Thank you Captain.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by CaptainMitch: 8:11pm On Sep 21, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


Thank you Captain.

Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by OlawaleBammie: 1:01am On Sep 22, 2019
Omojudy:

I wish I could talk to her. I very much understand. I have had 8miscarriages before I got a diagnosis. My ex in law’s accused me of being cursed, spirit husband etc. while all we needed was to find the medical solution. Sending you kind regards.

Yeeeehhh!!!








Madam abeg u strong, aaahhhh

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by cenaman(m): 7:12pm On Sep 22, 2019
OK
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Emilokoiyawon: 7:12pm On Sep 22, 2019
cry cry cry cry cry
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by godonzoki(m): 7:13pm On Sep 22, 2019
All U guys needed to do is see a Dr after d 1st and 2nd miscarriage. It could be a rhesus factor causing the miscarriages

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Macon1212: 7:14pm On Sep 22, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

Amend your way there's no smoke without � fire
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by happney65: 7:15pm On Sep 22, 2019
You people should stop advising the OP..Dude was fuccccking his brother's wife at a time and even had a baby by her..He deserves whatever happens to him..

Idiot fellow

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 7:15pm On Sep 22, 2019
This op has no shame

Even at 19 years you were morally down to sleep with your brother's wife even having a child.

May God forgive you.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by aAK1(m): 7:16pm On Sep 22, 2019
Hb
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by midnighter(f): 7:16pm On Sep 22, 2019
kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you

shocked

Kai!! I remember reading this thread around that time!

So this is that very man! Cheiiiiiiiii

It's like i will be spying on future hubby to see if he's a nairalander to prevent heartbreaks

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by midnighter(f): 7:18pm On Sep 22, 2019
Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense undecided
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier smiley

so are you trying to say that the phone you bought her made her to be normal
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by deltateam: 7:18pm On Sep 22, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

Its not about begging her but about finding spiritual solutions to the problem.

Locate a strong church to conduct deliverance and liberation. It could be a curse, witchcraft or something.

You can't blame her. 4 babies gone and unaccounted for. Better find solutions now!

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