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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by frozen70(f): 1:55am On Sep 23, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

Waooo, pls go to the family and clear yourself that you are innocent of all accusations on her

Check your sperms count and see if your sperm counts are still strong enough to form babies because miscarriage occurs if the fertilisation is weak or poor

When she comes back, both of you have to practice close relationship, especially from you to give her peace of mind

As for your late brother's family, you can get a rented apartment for his wife so that your wife will be comfortable in her own house

Go to prayers together and have one heart

I appreciate the way you cried out, don't let ego pin you down

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by obillyj(f): 2:01am On Sep 23, 2019
So sorry about that. Please both of you should go for real genotype test. Let them check your rhesus factors. It could be that both of you have incompatible rhesus factors. It is the major cause of miscarriages. Unfortunately many don't know about it and blame it on witchcraft.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by obillyj(f): 2:09am On Sep 23, 2019
If your wife rhesus factor(RH)is negative eg A- and yours is positive, she can take in the first time n give birth but if this incompatibility is not discovered on time before she gives birth, it will alter her genetics that future pregnancies will result to miscarriage. If she hasn't given birth for u before,find out if she has done abortion before. Reason is that if she did abortion for a man whose RH doors not match hers then she is in for constant miscarriage. It can't be reversed but there's an injection she would be given to help her.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Strick2875: 2:20am On Sep 23, 2019
i think u killed your brother INDIRECTLY because if u had inform your brother when she started seducing u, he would have divorce her or keep his eyes wide open instead of letting sit in a marriage of fraud, only to find out in a hard way only 3 out of 10 men will remain standing in that situation
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Strick2875: 2:22am On Sep 23, 2019
obillyj:
If your wife rhesus factor(RH)is negative eg A- and yours is positive, she can take in the first time n give birth but if this incompatibility is not discovered on time before she gives birth, it will alter her genetics that future pregnancies will result to miscarriage. If she hasn't given birth for u before,find out if she has done abortion before. Reason is that if she did abortion for a man whose RH doors not match hers then she is in for constant miscarriage. It can't be reversed but there's an injection she would be given to help her.
u right i belive u are a doctor and can help refer him to a good reputable clinic

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Yorubabyblood: 3:35am On Sep 23, 2019
only broke mem cry when their wife are gone but the rich don't because they can get another of her type in minutes
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by gbagyiza: 5:47am On Sep 23, 2019
generationz:
Well, this public apology means nothing. I have seen men who crawl on their knees in public to beg their wives only for her to return and keep chopping beating.

If your wife's family called you a ritualist then
that is a serious allegation.

Of a truth, you shouldn't be bothered about getting her back first but clearing your name.

Go to God in prayer and ask him to vindicate you, if you are innocent.

When this happens, no one will tell your wife to return.

If God vindicates him, the wife no gets shame to return back. This is a pure betrayal. If it was the other way round, that the man's family are suspecting her to be d cause of the problem, this man could have received a compilation of insults from you all. But because it is opposite. Men r in serious trouble when it comes to marriage.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by ImaIma1(f): 6:29am On Sep 23, 2019
Vincent88:
Thank you ,, I didn't confess to my wife or my brother about my niece . My brother was stabbed in the nightclub where he went to drink with friends. I have seen some people here reminding me of my past which it is painful , hopeful that my wife has not read it yet or else it will make things worse. I just want her to be home with us, myself and the kids are missing her every day. The house feel so empty without her





"The kids"?

So you have your brother's whole 4 kids with you? That's not an easy task for your wife. Plus she is still trying to conceive. May God help you both

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by ImaIma1(f): 6:38am On Sep 23, 2019
Daviddson:
I disagree with those of you talking about karma when the OP made it clear in his other thread that it was the brother's wife who seduced and practically threatened him into sex with her. Though that doesn't totally mean he's innocent, it's wrong to say he's experiencing retribution. Notwithstanding, this is obviously a spiritual case.

What this young man needs is deliverance and salvation.


He didn't have to give in. There is always an option. And he even engaged in it for years.

There is always cause and effect. His past actions against his brother cannot just evaporate. It will definitely have an effect. Marriage is meant to be a sacred union and sleeping with someone's wife, whatever the situation, is a very serious issue.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Bimboshow: 6:56am On Sep 23, 2019
Exactly what I though too.it may just be cervical incompetence. All they just need to do is cervical cerclage for once the pregnancy is 3 months.so that she can carry it to term and she should not stress herself during pregnancy.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by benratigan3(m): 7:14am On Sep 23, 2019
kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).
the elder brother of Mr Vincent first narrative still died? ah this life.he is free to claim his child now.
I smell foul play too in d mans death and d wife knows
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by mapet: 8:10am On Sep 23, 2019
silverkings:
The miscarriages might be medical problem. Una go hospital?

1.My tots exactly.
2. A family that can make such accusation and take their daughter away.....you sure say dem never arrange another man?
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by mapet: 8:15am On Sep 23, 2019
baby124:
Edited Post in light of new developments:
OP has spiritual problems true true shocked

Read this link for details on this Rhesus factor issue:
https://americanpregnancy.org/pregnancy-complications/rh-factor/


The dumbness of your situation is mind boggling though. Sorry my dear.

I studied these in my first degree during some micro-biology course(s) I took as elective. I'm not even sure if the lecturer was as explicit as this write-up makes it.....
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by renewable1(m): 8:19am On Sep 23, 2019
it's well


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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 9:23am On Sep 23, 2019
Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense undecided
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier smiley

Mumu.

You will end up like the op's elder brother.

Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by generationz(f): 9:25am On Sep 23, 2019
DocH:

Have you ever heard of rhesus incompatibility and how it causes erythroblastosis fetalis which leads to spontaneous abortion (medical name for miscarriage)? People like you de cause a lot of problems in this world today because of their stark ignorance. Just imagine where you become a mother in-law with no brains, you will call for this man to be killed because u spent all ur years in school learning how to do stupid make up and snap pictures.

I'll advice u to make a better use of ur phone. Google has answer to everything for ignoramus like you. Learn to think before you talk this is 21st century.



Op, your and ur wife are rhesus incompatible and I suspect you guys have one child but if no child yet then your wife has been sensitised by having a child somewhere else or a terminated pregnancy before you guys married. A Union of rhesus incompatible people can produce only one child that will live if and only if the woman is not yet sensitised by having a baby, or an abortion before marriage.


This is a case of immune hydrops fetalis and the only way your Union can have a living baby is via a transmission of IGm fortified blood to the child while still in the womb once a doctor confirms the child is having anemia.


Your wives blood and your sperm are incompatible and the antibodies of ur wife are killing her babies thinking they're bacteria. Na big gbese inside life.


So, with all the rubbish you typed here how is being accused of ritual practice not a serous allegation whether the man is innocent or guilty.

You Idiots and dingbats who it will never be well with are so eager to just jump on peoples posts throwing insults because it is a faceless forum.

Enough of me taking such.

You come at me again I will make you curse your mom for bringing you into this world.

Nonsense.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 9:50am On Sep 23, 2019
generationz:



So, with all the rubbish you typed here how is being accused of ritual practice not a serous allegation whether the man is innocent or guilty.

You Idiots and dingbats who it will never be well with are so eager to just jump on peoples posts throwing insults because it is a faceless forum.

Enough of me taking such.

You come at me again I will make you curse your mom for bringing you into this world.

Nonsense.
Ur case is a serious one unfortunately. Truly ignorance is a disease. Enjoy ur dark day. Oh Africa. She even said I typed rubbish.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by generationz(f): 10:03am On Sep 23, 2019
DocH:

OK chop ban.

II told you I would get you.

Efulefu.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by masks(m): 10:31am On Sep 23, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her. whats her moniker here?
please.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by midnighter(f): 10:38am On Sep 23, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
Yeah....... after her deliverance, confessions and all, she got pregnant much later, and delivered. On her Thanksgiving day she still mentioned this evil which she had done and thanked God for forgiving her, thanked the pastor, the church was filled to capacity and people booed her, screamed at her, etc. Such is life smiley

thats so bad... lipsrsealed dont know what would possess somebody to do such to an innocent child..smh..

and afterwards we will still have to leave our wards with strangers to go out and hustle...thats if family is not available

such is life indeed...
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by midnighter(f): 10:44am On Sep 23, 2019
sizer07:
There is absolute no way she will won't have come across this of she is on this plat form like you said. You have let the cat out of the bag by even mentioning ur brother who was stab at the night club. Guy man u don cast, the damage has been done already, you have spill the stew every where man.

Thats what im wondering about this guy...he couldnt even make another moniker or just code the story a little and spare his wife this embarrassment. the thing is on front page already and he's saying he hopes she wont read it

Maybe its stress thats making him blunder like this
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by midnighter(f): 10:47am On Sep 23, 2019
DocH:

Have you ever heard of rhesus incompatibility and how it causes erythroblastosis fetalis which leads to spontaneous abortion (medical name for miscarriage)?

Op, your and ur wife are rhesus incompatible and I suspect you guys have one child but if no child yet then your wife has been sensitised by having a child somewhere else or a terminated pregnancy before you guys married. A Union of rhesus incompatible people can produce only one child that will live if and only if the woman is not yet sensitised by having a baby, or an abortion before marriage.


This is a case of immune hydrops fetalis and the only way your Union can have a living baby is via a transmission of IGm fortified blood to the child while still in the womb once a doctor confirms the child is having anemia.


Your wives blood and your sperm are incompatible and the antibodies of ur wife are killing her babies thinking they're bacteria. Na big gbese inside life.

Thank you for this cool dissemination of info
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by midnighter(f): 10:52am On Sep 23, 2019
Strick2875:
i think u killed your brother INDIRECTLY because if u had inform your brother when she started seducing u, he would have divorce her or keep his eyes wide open instead of letting sit in a marriage of fraud, only to find out in a hard way only 3 out of 10 men will remain standing in that situation

you dont know if the brother was blinded by love and would have chased him out at 17 years of age...if you have witnessed 50 year old men chase their own children out of the house because of 2nd or 3rd wife then you would know what i am saying.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by mrZENographer: 11:07am On Sep 23, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

Come to the Lord's Chosen Headquarters at Lagos and God will settle your matter.
Miscarriage, accusations, disunity will diseminate
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by cronsberg: 11:27am On Sep 23, 2019
sinaj:
Wife please come back and sort it out with hubby in the hospital, church and bedroom please embarassed


Hey sinaj, would u like to get to know me too just as i would like to get to know u?
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Jelzin2412(m): 11:29am On Sep 23, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

Poster pls have you guys seen a specialist (obstetrician) because this could be a simple case of Antiphospholipid syndrome which is one of the commonest cause of recurrent miscarriage. The problem is we rush to blame our misfortunes on diabolical factors when the causes ain't far fetched. Good news is APS can be tamed and she can carry her pregnancy to term. In addition, there are several other causes of recurrent abortions some of which i can't elucidate to avoid worsening your marital woes. But sincerely, you both need to come together now and seek specialist help. Hopefully, the cause would be found and you can find your happy home yet again. All the best
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by OILOFGLADNESS: 11:59am On Sep 23, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.



WAOOOOO, SO TOUCHING


I WISH I COULD SPEAK TO HER DIRECTLY


SOME MEN WOULD BE THE ONE ACCUSING THEIR WIVES,, BUT YOU ARE SUCH A NICE MAN


1. HAVE SHE GONE FOR MEDICAL CHECKS

2. WHAT ARE THE DOCTORS REPORT

3. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR GOD,,

4. PRAYERFULLY AND WITH GOOD MEDICAL FOLLOW UP, GOD CAN INTERVENE.

5. UNTIL MARRIED COUPLES REALIZES THAT INDIVIDUAL COUPLE FAMILIES ARE 3RD PARTY IN THEIR MARRIAGE OR HOME , THEY WILL NEVER SEEK FOR SOLUTION, AND UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER.....( ESPECIALLY WITH THE MAN, I AM SOMEWHAT SHOCKED COS THE WOMAN IS THE CULPRIT HERE...

THE MAN IS FERTILE , THE WOMAN IS FERTILE, JUST MISCARRIAGE

###### EXCEPT IF HER FAMILY HAVE GENUINE REASONS FOR SPECULATING SUCH#######
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by OILOFGLADNESS: 12:08pm On Sep 23, 2019
kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).



WAOOOOO, NAIRALANDERSSS


CONFESS TO YOUR WIFE ON THIS AT OP AND SHE WILL FORGIVE YOU


THIS IS PURE KARMA


YOU COULD HAVE SAVED UR BROTHER A WHOLE LOT BY NOT GIVEN IN

I DONT KNOW WHY WOMEN WHO ARE SO LOVED, TRUST AND CHERISHED BY THEIR HUSBANDS NEVER APPRECIATES IT


.....
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by samsam2019: 2:02pm On Sep 23, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.
you can't live without a woman? Hahahahhahahahahhahha




Wetin person no go see for this country
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Liamm(m): 2:10pm On Sep 23, 2019
sinaj:
Wife please come back and sort it out with hubby in the hospital, church and bedroom please embarassed


lmao grin

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