It's because their heart is as hard as stone like that of boko haram.

rokiatu:
Thanks for adding on to my fear.

Thank you very much. Now my stomach is hurting me.

God why us?

are u afraid of giving birth now?

rokiatu:
Thanks for adding on to my fear.

Thank you very much. Now my stomach is hurting me.

God why us?

are u afraid of giving birth now? Then u should be afraid of fphucking too.

rokiatu:
Thanks for adding on to my fear.

Thank you very much. Now my stomach is hurting me.

God why us?

Stomach hurting !!! May be you are in labour my Dear! Quick let's get the midwife, please don't scream.....

rokiatu:
Thanks for adding on to my fear.

Thank you very much. Now my stomach is hurting me.

God why us?

LWKMD

blackboi:
Kilanso, kilonso??

at the time I posted this, someone on nairaland had just passed away. . . if you read the beginning of the post, you'll get it.

Limaoscar: Why will they not stay Silent when most of them were ra.p.ed by their Adult Husbands at age 11

er. . . and how does this help?

I have a little understading to this. It has to do with genes i think (Coz am not a medic). That means both parents contribute, genewise, to how painful child birth will be.For the women, they say it depends on the pelvic whatever, which i believe is hereditary. For the man, the stature and build is hereditary.

This directly means if a father is huge (fat)- no offense intended, and the child inherits that, thats pain for the mother. Or if the mother has a small pelvic (the way i call it), means pain for her. If both genes manifest that is extra pain.

Now the real analogy, Igbo for example do have and mostly are huge, and can eat alot. That explains the size of belly their Igbo wives have (i no fit shout), which means painful delivery. All nurses i know complain that Igbo women or wifes of most but not all Igbo men can give a shout while delivering. To do more justice to this issue, Hausa men have smaller structures/build, which in turn is a less problem for their wives. W

I was born 3.45kg. My son was born 3.5kg. Am fat according to my BMI if he's got the genes, he will be too its not eating coz i dont eat much even as a fat guy.

Who concurs?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!, What a sterotype! In the Maternity where I work deep in the North the women scream! They say 'WANYO ALLAH NA!' So saying generally that Hausa/Fulani women don't cry out during labor is not true. Yes; their religion tell them to accept pain in good faith but when contraction comes, your mouth go tell you! A lot of them cry and shout and scratch and bite you till your skin bleed. I've seen lots of women in the hospitals where I worked in Abuja from different tribes who never cried so loud during labor. Individual differences! N.B The yoruba women cry out so loud, much louder than other women from other tribes but they don't bite!

Insightful: I think it has to do with how each individual react in pains, I usually don't scream when in Labour, i groan with sounds 'hmmn' at intervals, a number of times the nurses had to crosscheck my countenance to be sure i was still in labour even though i've had to labour for over 12 hrs. They commended that i must be really strong but no, i don't really see it as being strong but rather i was conserving the little energy i had for pushing instead of tasking myself more with screaming and shouting.

labour is not an easy thing and everyone reacts differently.

You are the type of client I will love to have, when will you be delivering another baby? Your type make the work so easy. We won't have to give you 50% dextrose!

Yeah,dey dont scrim,nt b/c of any painkiler,jst dey r traind in d art of endurance.evn,dey neva cmplain of menstrual pain evn whn dey feel it,or scrim whn bein disvirgind.dey jst mumble in silence esp d fulanis..a wman who milks cows,pound fura&walk miles evrydy wit a baby eida in d womb or@her bak,is sure acustomd 2d taste of pains.its jst d xercise dey do dat maks it easier 4dem&in mst cases,d baby is kinda realy tiny..gosh,saw one once&fot hard nt 2throw up.

Aigirl: Yeah,dey dont scrim,nt b/c of any painkiler,jst dey r traind in d art of endurance.evn,dey neva cmplain of menstrual pain evn whn dey feel it,or scrim whn bein disvirgind.dey jst mumble in silence esp d fulanis..a wman who milks cows,pound fura&walk miles evrydy wit a baby eida in d womb or@her bak,is sure acustomd 2d taste of pains.its jst d xercise dey do dat maks it easier 4dem&in mst cases,d baby is kinda realy tiny..gosh,saw one once&fot hard nt 2throw up.

You fought hard not to throw up because you saw a tiny (probably pre-mature) baby??!! What sort of person are you??

Noting! Jst endurance.. Besides i tink is tautish 2 scream during childbirth. Jst try maintain n save energy 2 push.

Its nt dat its nt painfull,it a mind tin kinda...u shout if u wnt bt when I had mah bby I neva gav a shout d only tin I culd do was prayers.When it was tym I didn't evn feel d pains wen d bby was comin out. So 2 me its d mind dat sets its self nd prayers olso bt in ur heart.

nagoma:

Display of emotions in form of screaming and shouting is a weakness . That is not only in childbirth. Northern people do not generally wail and cry and shout because of death of parents , children, spouse, other relatives or anyone. This because fortitude is a virtue ( and in the case of death actually part of faith) . This doesn't mean they do not feel the pain or that thir pain is less. This is similar is Asia Europe and in all socially developed societies. In the UK they call it British grit or stiff upper lip. Fortitude in distress is a virtue whatever the bigots say. They can of course go ahead and scream to heavens at the sight of a nurse with an injection. We consider them infantile and lacking in courage.

STFU!

Who are you to talk about weakness in child-bearing

Men should really start having kids just so they know what it feels like!

Ujujoan:

STFU!

Who are you to talk about weakness in child-bearing

Men should really start having kids just so they know what it feels like!

THANK YOU

cute08: Noting! Jst endurance.. Besides i tink is tautish 2 scream during childbirth. Jst try maintain n save energy 2 push.

Tautish? This mumu has no idea what pain is. I was on serious pain killers and I nearly ran mad! I weep for not using epidural. After it all dem oyinbo nurses were shaking my hand that I tried. Try pushing out a 9 pound baby and don't shout. I dare you!

rokiatu:
Thanks for adding on to my fear.

Thank you very much. Now my stomach is hurting me.

God why us?

Labour is not something to exaggerate. What I noticed about it is dat, it differs from person to person, just like our monthly circle, some are 3days, 4days or even a week. When I was in labour for my first child, I never had pain doing the contraction stage. I only felt my body tearing apart when the child head came out. That was when I shouted..............and the second was almost the same. The contraction was like every 5mins and a little bit painful, all I was saying was 'JESUS'. I said that till I got to the hospital. As soon as I got to the hospital, my water broke, I climbed the bed and my baby came out, but the pain this time was lesser than the first when the head came out. I thank God for seeing me through 2 times. Child bearing is not one just go into when you are not prepared, but God knows why HE places the pain there. Goodluck to those expecting.............just bear the pain, it wont last long!

chei! God save me o cus am getting scared already even when i never marry

prothelley:

Labour is not something to exaggerate. What I noticed about it is dat, it differs from person to person, just like our monthly circle, some are 3days, 4days or even a week. When I was in labour for my first child, I never had pain doing the contraction stage. I only felt my body tearing apart when the child head came out. That was when I shouted..............and the second was almost the same. The contraction was like every 5mins and a little bit painful, all I was saying was 'JESUS'. I said that till I got to the hospital. As soon as I got to the hospital, my water broke, I climbed the bed and my baby came out, but the pain this time was lesser than the first when the head came out. I thank God for seeing me through 2 times. Child bearing is not one just go into when you are not prepared, but God knows why HE places the pain there. Goodluck to those expecting.............just bear the pain, it wont last long!

The bigger the baby, the more painful labour would be.

Lord have mercy, I hear labour is worse than the worst menstrual cramps. I am so scared even though I am not married not to talk of pregnant...

Eve is to blame for this

Ishilove: Lord have mercy, I hear labour is worse than the worst menstrual cramps. I am so scared even though I am not married not to talk of pregnant...

Eve is to blame for this

Marriage is not a prerequisite for pregnancy. Just be careful.

nagoma:

Marriage is not a prerequisite for pregnancy. Just be careful.

I know sir, thank you.

the truth of d matter is dat, whether u shout of not labour pain will come, doctors even advice dat u save ur energy for labour. the more u shout d less strength u have for labour.

achi4u: the northern babes are too tiny and under weight unlike southern babies that are well feed from the time conception.


remeber the northern men are uncircumised,so,they tend to screw their wives with loooong shaft.

@okija preist...
O gi nwe aka a!

achi4u: the northern babes are too tiny and under weight unlike southern babies that are well feed from the time conception.


remeber the northern men are uncircumised,so,they tend to screw their wives with loooong shaft.

@okija preist...
O gi nwe aka a!

achi4u: the northern babes are too tiny and under weight unlike southern babies that are well feed from the time conception.


remeber the northern men are uncircumised,so,they tend to screw their wives with loooong shaft.

@okija preist...
O gi nwe aka a!

what u r saying is nt d truth. D northrn wmn r nt too tiny, neither r dey undr wght. Lastly, d men r all circumsiced. Am sure u dnt knw anythng abt d nrth.

fcf

Do you think labour in twin pregnancy is more painful?