Sogo10: her pix is going to tarnish ur image.how? Are u d mother?

12 inches!:


I don't understand ooooo....and to add if the girl acts sh.i.tz just upload the picture on ur wall on fb and tag her.....U cn even use it to blackmail her for sex if she no wan gree...Becos last last u will dump her sorry a.s.s noni.

fresh_dude: You were making sense with your post till you chose to be used by the devil. You mean to say that this is the OPs fault? Christos. Why didn't yyou say that before? That poor girl wouldn't have been condemned if only NLers knew that the OP was the cause of her foolishness. I wish I knew her, so I could apologise to her on behalf of judgemental NLers.

AmBeautiful:


Hello bro

I was never used by the devil, neither am i judging ,but from my experience and observation, it is better to be ready to get married fast enough when going into a relationship, if you dont want sx before marriage.Staying with someone for four years without sx, maybe a reason for the girl's act whether they agreed to this or not.

I hv been in a relationship longer than even four years and had to deal with this same trash every single day, that i no longer believe this kind of relationships work any more. Infact this OP never see anything.

If i do not want sx and am a guy then i just hv to avoid any relationship which will lead to that till am ready to finally settle down in a one year time frame.And as a girl i would make it clear to you and if i see you wont agree to no sx b4 marriage, i will move on and wait for the right person.

Many girls and guys are quite loose and though they profess to each other to wait till marriage but yet the flesh is weak.And when they know their partner wont agree to sex they go outside and keep pretending to their partners.

I can guarantee you that if you check most people in a very very long relationship hitting like 4years who hv not had sx you would discover in most cases that one partner is cheating but may still be pretending.

Lets not the deceive ourselves bro. I am a christian. And i also love God too.

I never blamed the OP i just gave him advice.

This is my own opinion!

AmBeautiful:
But perhaps maybe becos you were not hving sx with her, thats why she did this or something else , find your faults too, cos nobody is PERFECT IN A RELATIONSHIP. I BELIEVE IN A RELATIONSHIP ONE PARTNER'S BAD BEHAVIOUR IS AS A REACTION TO THE OTHER PARTNER'S HIDDEN OR UNEXPLAINED ACTIONS and never repeat it next time.

Basildon1: We cant advice you until we also see the pictures.

fresh_dude: Look. If she wants to have sex and the bf doesn't what stops her from breaking it off with him and dating someone who will fcck her silly? I WILL NOT be in a sex-free relationship, but in a hypothetical situation where I was in one, I would expect that partner respected the terms of our relationship. Where and when she feels she can no longer cope, she is free to leave the relationship, that is what is called a 'break-up'. Staying and forming virgin for the bf while someone else is doggying her is sheer selfishness and wickedness.
I am single because I know that I cannot be in a committed relationship(prolly because I haven't found the right person). So, any lady I chat up knows from the door that any relationship we have is FWB. I don't go promising her things I can't deliver.

So when I say the devil is using you, I say so with all sense of responsibility. Why? Because, this brother has chosen to keep himself chaste and holy for his God, and when his future partner cannot cope with the demands of this spiritual relationship you blame him by saying ''you too why didn't you sleep with her?''But that was the point from the beginning!


In conclusion, if you cannot stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. Don't complain when it gets uncomfortable, get the fcck out.

fresh_dude: What does this mean?

Vessel4christ: I am a phone engineer.

I was checking a customer's phone, after repairing it, i came across my girlfriend's Unclad pictures on it.

We are into a very serious & God-governed 4years relationship. To me she's a virgin & we only kissed once (an act that led to 2-days prayer for forgiveness).

This pictures are very recent because the fracture on her hand (which i can see in the pictures) got there about 3months ago.

I copied those pictures but wont upload it for ethical reasons.

Don't know what to do.

Vessel4christ: I am a phone engineer.

I was checking a customer's phone, after repairing it, i came across my girlfriend's Unclad pictures on it.

We are into a very serious & God-governed 4years relationship. To me she's a virgin & we only kissed once (an act that led to 2-days prayer for forgiveness).

This pictures are very recent because the fracture on her hand (which i can see in the pictures) got there about 3months ago.

I copied those pictures but wont upload it for ethical reasons.

Don't know what to do.

Vessel4christ: I am a phone engineer.

I was checking a customer's phone, after repairing it, i came across my girlfriend's Unclad pictures on it.

We are into a very serious & God-governed 4years relationship. To me she's a virgin & we only kissed once (an act that led to 2-days prayer for forgiveness).

This pictures are very recent because the fracture on her hand (which i can see in the pictures) got there about 3months ago.

I copied those pictures but wont upload it for ethical reasons.

Don't know what to do.

AmBeautiful:

Since you cant read let me explain,

It means that maybe the girl did what she did because of no sx or because you are not fine or you don't buy her ice-cream e.t.c

and you too Op you have your faults as well, eg 'Mike Tyson or Muhammad Alli faults', Stinginess, Shouting, stealing e.t.c

Find your faults too from her by asking her, what you did wrong, that made her leave you and then work on them for a better relationship next time.(If she say its sx, and then you don't want sx till marriage then avoid long term relationships, and look for someone who can cope).

Then in a relationship everyone has a fault,if a partner misbehaves it is because he or she is reacting or following your own actions, that you may not be aware or doing , find it out, try to work on it or find a better way around it that will still suit you.

In case you still don't understand this, then i will try pidgin english!

AmBeautiful:


Hmm!

I always they tire for people with your mentality.

It is guys like you that girls most times deceive.

I didn't justify that the reason the girl did what she did was because no sx, I said perhaps!

And am not in support of what the girl did, NEVER!

I just explained why the girl may have done what she did,to expantiate that money may not have been the reason!

If you don't want sx, fine! Its a very good thing!

Then stay away from a relationship of years and years!.

no way did i imply the guy should do what he doesn't want!

And i really never blamed the guy!
I never did bro!

I don't even know what terms and conditions he and the babe had!

Seriously i still stand my ground and i say that if you as a guy or babe don't want a sxl relationship, then the relationship should be at least just for a year then wedding except u and the girl are not in the same location or country and even at that one party may go astray.

And besides this is a one-sided story! I have not heard the girls version.

Seriously say what you like.

Really the devil cant use me, especially when am being truthful!

Even real bible believing churches will tell you this very thing,about avoiding long term courtships of no more than 2years, am even surprised her father a pastor allowed this long term thing!

Stay away from a long term courtship if you don't want sx, or else you may get badly burned!

Basildon1: We cant advice you until we also see the pictures.

Dr Gee: Dont just call it quit. Do proper investigation it might be a set up

maybel: @OP,i have a feeling that u will go on fasting and praying every single day of ur life if u marry this lady.

AmBeautiful:


Hmm!

I always they tire for people with your mentality.

It is guys like you that girls most times deceive.

I didn't justify that the reason the girl did what she did was because no sx, I said perhaps!

And am not in support of what the girl did, NEVER!

I just explained why the girl may have done what she did,to expantiate that money may not have been the reason!

If you don't want sx, fine! Its a very good thing!

Then stay away from a relationship of years and years!.

no way did i imply the guy should do what he doesn't want!

And i really never blamed the guy!
I never did bro!

I don't even know what terms and conditions he and the babe had!

Seriously i still stand my ground and i say that if you as a guy or babe don't want a sxl relationship, then the relationship should be at least just for a year then wedding except u and the girl are not in the same location or country and even at that one party may go astray.

And besides this is a one-sided story! I have not heard the girls version.

Seriously say what you like.

Really the devil cant use me, especially when am being truthful!

Even real bible believing churches will tell you this very thing,about avoiding long term courtships of no more than 2years, am even surprised her father a pastor allowed this long term thing!

Stay away from a long term courtship if you don't want sx, or else you may get badly burned!