okeymadu: @OP. I didn't read most of the post any ways little advise: this goes beyong being Catholic or Anglican. Your wife doesn't respect you and the earlier you put your foot down and take a firm decision the better for you.

If by next Sunday she refuses to attend Anglican with you, I suggest you begin to make plans for a "new life" as this marriage won't take you anywhere and will wreck you. She indeed deceived you. Perhaps, for your information, she still dey shine that "father". Goodluck!

Catholic or not catholic, true christians are known by their fruits

8ogoegbunam: [url][/url]To God be the glory. I solved the problem with my wife. I prayed about it to God,on sunday morning she begged to follow me to Anglican church service. I feel very elated. She also agreed that our children when they come will follow my denomination. I love my wife and I do not want divorce. I gave her a concession of remaining a chatholic,as long as she attends anglican church once a month. Thanks all for your advice.

8ogoegbunam: Honestly, I was not informed that the catholic doctrines mandates her to remain a catholic with any children from the union. I was repeatedly assured by her that she will follow me to any church of my choice
I know she is very close and friendly with a lot of priest,they waived a lot of catholic rites for our sake. I attended a few marriage lesson;a wide range of issues relating to love and oneness were preached.
I do not want a divided home. Each sunday ,I allways feel like a bachelor. I was warned by my parents and uncles not to marry her if she will not convert before the wedding. I won them over based on the assurance I got from her. I feel downcast and betrayed.

you are receiving marriage lessons from a catholic priest?

more like learning driving from a pilot, you guys wont kill me

shaybe baby: I think you need to sit down and think of the vows you took recently. Did you not promise to love each other through and thin? Your faith is but a small part of your marriage. Why are quibbling over who attends what denomination, is it not the same God you both serve? You need to both respect each other's faith and work on a compromise. Your marriage should be based on mutual respect, love and communication. Though I'm not very religious myself but I'm sure the answer to your dilemma lies in the scriptures. My husband doesn't believe in God, I do yet he is one of the most moral and decent persons I've ever met. Do i chuck him for his lack of belief when he is honest, kind and displays a lot of the traits the bible asks us to demonstrate? Don't get caught up in techinicalities. You married her for who she is not because of what church she might be attending. Don't lose sight of the good things in your marriage.

8ogoegbunam: I admire the catholic church and respect them , though I have my resevations about them, I do not despise them. I am liberal when it comes to religion,I believe that I can marry any lady, as long as we practise the same religion after marriage.I was even ready to marry muslims as long as the lady converts to christianity. Sorry am not fashola or tinubu. They chose the way their families and marriage should be. I believe I should choose mine.

Whether you admire the Catholic Church or not is immaterial...stick to your story
You sound a bit patronizing now, uncool

naptu2:

So I ask again, did you sign the form? Did you attend marriage counselling? Was your marriage announced in the bans of marriage?

Johndoe100: It never seizes to amaze me, why adults will turn to children for advise. How can unmarried 16 to 28 year old kids be giving advise to these people based on what? The "stolen" sex they have with their boyfriends and girlfriends? Anyway on nairaland, lack of experience has never been a hindrance to expertise. Some of the replies on this thread are hilarious.