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Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by lightheart(m): 8:33am On Oct 12, 2012 |
HIAN!! WHY WOULD YOUR MAN ASK YOU SUCH? TO WHAT END, BIKONU?? But wait oo. 15men?? Chai u chop banana wella oo! |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by AntiGbagaun(f): 8:43am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Why should you concern yourself with you been better or worse that some people? Babe you are who you are and the sinner you start living for yourself, the better |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Nobody: 8:51am On Oct 12, 2012 |
This reinforces a similar debate we had on another thread a few days ago, and there seemed to be a consensus that marrying a virgin may be the best way out for men who worry themselves about such statistics. Personally, I am one of those men, because I have seen many many bad and deceitful women who turn holy when it is time to get married. You say 15, it's probably higher, and you lied to your dude cos you know the answer to the question you've asked here. Though we CANNOT judge you, and for the fact that some of us guys have done more numbers, the cruel reality is that it is a man's world, and he gets to chose the kind of wife he wants in the end. I think women should always have this fact in the back of their minds when doing their own numbers. Now, ask yourself, if your guy were to find out today that you have done 15 or more guys, would he still be loving up enough to embark on a lifetime contract of marriage with you?? |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by tpia5: 9:12am On Oct 12, 2012 |
a lady asked me some days ago how many ladies i ve been with, i listed dem and told her as welldat i know all of dem and we speak occassionaly, and what about the ones you dont even remember. no be all of them you go recollect nah. i think issues like these should just be ignored or else a lot of men will get hbp. the women are sexually active- i doubt anything can be changed about that. just come to terms with it like the western world has done. |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by tpia5: 9:14am On Oct 12, 2012 |
however, women do need to be careful however, because there are many men who will label you for the same, so if nothing else, dont broadcast your actions. if you believe in s.exual emancipation, stick with men who are of like mind. (Although that's still not a guarantee they wont condemn you later). doesnt mean i'm espousing casual s.ex though. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by drnoel: 9:18am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Alaafia l‘oro: Oh ok! What about u, how many women have u slept with. U nigerian men need to stop this double standard. look at the kettle calling the pot black, abeg! Yes she may not be a saint but as long as she has her standards and its not money inclined or she having leaky cunt and she is not cheap. |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Cherish100(f): 9:22am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Some girls sleep with more than 3 men in a month, that's the reality. Even when they're in a relationship, they still go and meet men so as to get money for se.x . But who am I to judge? I can only tell you to have sex when you want to, not because of anyone. That way, you can avoid feeling cheap. I think the feeling of being cheap doesn't lie in the number of partners being with, but realising some of them were just not worth it. You will acknowledge that some of them were good to you and treated you right. Just practise safe sex because you owe nobody an explanation about your sex life, but you. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 9:32am On Oct 12, 2012 |
^^ |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by deshclones(m): 9:34am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Jehovah...15men..,nd u r in ur mid twenties...God please help me..I dey fear wella..seems d way forward is to go for virgins..but I don't fancy virgins jor...nawaoh..God please gimme d wife u hv destined for me... @op..tell ur guy d truth..but u mean sha...15men is pretty high for a lady..don't allow people convince u otherwise.. |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 9:38am On Oct 12, 2012 |
^^ For a lady? Why is it that if a man does it, he is free but a lady gets frowned at? Who do those guys sleep with? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by eedrees(m): 9:52am On Oct 12, 2012 |
I thank God my girl is a virgin |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 9:53am On Oct 12, 2012 |
eedrees: I thank God my girl is a virginHow about you. Are you a virgin? |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by eedrees(m): 10:04am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Mynd_44:i think so |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Nobody: 10:04am On Oct 12, 2012 |
I can't call you a s.lut; I could remember my friend's girlfriend told him she bleeped over 35 guys before meeting him but he still married her, even after telling me! The point is my friend too was a crazy guy & had bleeped over 60, so he couldn't judge her coz he was no better so, don't mind some of these people that are calling you a s.lut! Just try to slow down or stick to one person or get married so it can help you stay away from fornicating frequently! |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by nanalady(f): 10:06am On Oct 12, 2012 |
How many girls has he slept with..did u ask him..? |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 10:07am On Oct 12, 2012 |
^^ smart. I don't see how people can just judge like that 1 Like |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 10:07am On Oct 12, 2012 |
eedrees:You are simply confused |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by eedrees(m): 10:19am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Actually am not...but does virginity matters to guys?? |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 10:23am On Oct 12, 2012 |
eedrees:Have you ever had sex? Anal, Oral or the normal? If you have, you are not a virgin and it matters. Stop being a bloody sexist |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Nobody: 10:26am On Oct 12, 2012 |
eedrees:Oh, yes, by all means it does! And, yes again, it's kettle calling pot black. But it's a man's world. Na our choice be dat (well some of us at least)... |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by tigonana: 10:58am On Oct 12, 2012 |
;D15 is not dat much now wen I hve nut mark my own register,snd ur address so dat we can start countin frm deir ;D15 is not dat much now wen I hve nut mark my own register,snd ur address so dat we can start countin frm deir |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Nobody: 11:44am On Oct 12, 2012 |
@OP The fact that you felt bad and had to lie to him about the exact figure and also create this thread simply shows that you've got a beautiful heart, dont let the silly critics on this thread get to you cos you are not cheap or at fault The male folks are the problem, when a man treats a girl so nice and makes her feel loved...if she's not a virgin? They are bound to consummate their relationship. If that man turns out to be a player and she eventually meets more of his type......what happens She's not at fault, Just an innocent girl seeking love! All the men on here should also desist from deceiving vulnerable young ladies 1 Like |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 11:47am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Double standard is the order of the day now 1 Like |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Konnektions146(m): 12:29pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
tpia@:Oga, dd u even read me at all, note dat i ddnt write the number of ladies here, it coul 5, 25, 65, if u use yur glasses well, yu will see were i said dat i rememeber all, abi u think say i no fit rememember 58 ladies if so. my point is in dis present day, she may actually be a saint, those people talkin abt virgins, a female friend told me sat, dere is some stuff a friend gave to her and she used it and she was supprised to see her puss.sy crazily tight dat de boyfriend had to pass tru as if itss her 1sst time....so virgins aint de solution 1 Like |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by pazienza(m): 12:30pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Hypocrites on the loose here. Girl,just make sure you use protection,if he actually loves you,he wouldn't care the number of sex mates you have had in the past. |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by tpia5: 12:38pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
deshclones: ..God please gimme d wife u hv destined for me.. That's all. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 12:50pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
pazienza: Hypocrites on the loose here. Girl,just make sure you use protection,if he actually loves you,he wouldn't care the number of sex mates you have had in the past.That's what is invogue now. Everyone claiming holy |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
ArQueBusieR: lol...the Stiffmeister was right after all: "When a girl tells you she's slept with x no. of men, multiply x by 3, and you'll get something close to the real figure." i'm dead!! my current galfrnd told me 6 went we started dating. but i'm sure shez telling d truth cuz shez jst 19... |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Mynd44: 12:56pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
mawojuuche:Does the number of people she has slept with matter at all? |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Jojo Armani: @OP seems u re doing it to make or break a record, dis one u re counting, U try anyway some girls have lost count. atleast 75 times b4 d husband found ha... |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by gunners160(m): 1:22pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
NO U ARE NT CHEAP.at least u are beta dan ur bf dat slept wit over 100gals makin u d 101gals dat e as slept wit on his list.ur name mamaxxx is a porn name already(xx)if u kan sleep wit more dan 15 and ur bf more dan 100 hw mani people wuld urchildren hv sex wit.d sex gene 2 wuld b in dhr blud and d wuld follnw ur foot steep 1 Like |
Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by qubie(m): 1:25pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
nooo! u're not cheap o. ur jst xploring ursef |
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