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Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by SisiKill1: 4:19pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Wait a min, lemme see if I understand this. . .Y'all think two people making a mutual decision not to be faithful to each other is wrong but have no qualms with those who are supposed to be in an exclusive relationship cheating on their partner?!! ![]() Is it because the former takes out the thrill of the peek-a-boo in the latter people have an issue with or the fact that it causes less pain from heartbreak?!! Seriously, what is so objectionable about an open relationship? Most people are having one anyway so why not make it official. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by DECOtech(m): 4:24pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
k2039: Open relationships just doesnt make minimum sense to me,yeah why not just play around.Abi? |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by DECOtech(m): 4:24pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
phineboy1pimple:Can you? |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by DECOtech(m): 4:25pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Patdedon: It is discontentment or greed in another form. Predominant in the female folks. I've had some of it, it's fun somehow but not for really matured people.God bless you 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Kemaona: 4:25pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
What do u expect from a generation of Animals? Almost every thrash is accepted. What about 'OPEN MARRIAGE'? Disgusting! 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by DECOtech(m): 4:27pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
vivian chinaza: An open relationship is definitely not for me.May your days be long |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by DECOtech(m): 4:29pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: many people are clueless about the pleasures of an open r/ship, so let me educate you all on the matter:what if its in sex? |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Billyonaire: Let me say this in English: Whoever approves that his lover, sleeps with another man for any 'satisfaction' is NOT a real man. If you can allow another man fvck your lady or wife, you are less than a man. Fullstop! but of course......... because the real man is the one who isnt satisfied by his wife BUT GLADLY FUKCS HIS SECRETARY/SUGARBABY/MAID, while letting his miserable wife handle her miserable se.xual self by praying for better days. what a bunch of hypocrites you lot are. but then again, what do you expect?! as i said earlier and REPEAT: if two people are not sexually satisfied and decide to have an open r/ship then LET THEM DO SO, as they surely aint complaining or hurting anyone. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
DECOtech: what if its in sex? then you should ACCEPT that you cannot satisfy this person, and deal with the issue accordingly. if you think that you can happily be with that person knowing fully well that you CANNOT provide what they require in the bedroom, then you are on a long thing! |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
vivian chinaza: An open relationship is definitely not for me. Yes, it's not for us. Ours is closed. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: I feel you. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by dmcdad: 4:40pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
phineboy1pimple: Lol... Nope definitely. I was only kidding. My kinda person forbids that entirely. I cant even imagine that in my wildest of dreamz. Infact! I'd rather remain single for the rest of my miserable life. Lol. I stayed as a single for 4 years and I am telling you that its still great with me, but to stay in an open relationship for a week knowing fully well that the one I call mine is exposed to sexual adventure with the rest of the world, no way!!! So, if I can find that fine-ass-chic and she ain't crappy, then its me and her for life... Lol Open relationship kor, closed relationship ni |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by james1(m): 4:41pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Open relationship is not for the feeble minded. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Kemaona: What do u expect from a generation of Animals? Almost every thrash is accepted. What about 'OPEN MARRIAGE'? Disgusting! when people in biblical times were having concubines/mistresses and what not to the tunes of 700, you are here talking of end of times because a man and a woman decide to have an open r/ship? animal indeed..... NONSENSE! 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: I like your courage in propagating this 'civilized' s3xism. But does it occur to you that, you are actually propagating 'legalization of cheating' ? If Open Relationship is acceptable, why not polygamy and polyandry too. I guess there is confusion in your camp. You are proposing what is happening in the goat and dogs Kingdom to humans. How nice will it be for you to get home after a hectic day from work and your wife is not home, only for her to return tired and saying; "I went to fvck Mr. Richard, I really needed it". Its shameful. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
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Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by ballabriggs: 4:46pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: This Mrs Chima your shakara too much sef. Dey there dey form closed relationship while your husband Chima dey sample every in an open relationship. Na you go loose. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
ballabriggs:Dont do that. Its offensive and personal. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Billyonaire: I like your courage in propagating this 'civilized' s3xism. But does it occur to you that, you are actually propagating 'legalization of cheating' ? If Open Relationship is acceptable, why not polygamy and polyandry not legalized too. I guess there is confusion in your camp. You are proposing what is happening in the goat and dogs Kingdom to humans. How nice will it be for you to get home after a hectic day from work and your wife is not home, only for her to return tired and saying; "I went to fvck Mr. Richard, I really needed it". Its shameful. bro, first of all, i am just saying that if anyone is not satisfied they SHOULDNT cheat, they should instead talk to their partner so that they can resolve the matter together. if they CANT then let that person go and seek solace wherever they may find it WITH THE FULL KNOWLEDGE/BLESSING OF THEIR PARTNER (knowing that their partner can do the same).....thats way different than cheating which in my eyes is WRONG WRONG WRONG! people should solve their marital issues the best they see fit....having an open r/ship is just one way available to open minded couples (and definitely WAY BETTER than cheating). being selfish and cheating in order to solve YOUR OWN issues, while leaving your partner to continue suffering in hers is not only wrong but a DISGRACE TO MARRIAGE. what is very shameful is a husband coming back from work, saying that he had a hectic day, while he actually just came back from fukcing his secretary. remember, it is all about HONESTY, therefore if you fully well know that A) your wife is lacking B) you CANNOT provide her with what she require/desire, then wherever she gets her satisfaction wont be as bad as you think. you just have to get your head out of your egotistic mentality, which is clearly in the way of your COMMON SENSE. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by ballabriggs: 4:54pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Billyonaire: Dont do that. Its offensive and personal. Kpele O, Mr Offensive and Personal. I give you the average naija mans life you say offensive and personal, na you know O. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: You are now moderate. I love it that you have watered down your opinion. But I cant imagine a relationship that a couple accept to have different sex partners outside union 'knowingly'. I am for spicing up things by going on vacations, watching porns, even life porns, strip clubs etc. But 'knowingly' banging other people, sounds like the beginning of the end of the union. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by AyaSammy(f): 4:59pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
the important question any of you must ask yourself IS: if you love your partner and have a few kids together, but sadly after a few yrs of relationship (or marriage) the satisfaction is not there any longer, what would you suggest a person do?[/quote] To your question, i will say prayer is a very essential and a right tool in such case where the flame of love in your marriage goes off. What is not right can never be right besides the fact that u offend yourself, u also offend God with an open relationship stuff. No Man/Woman loves to share who he/she truly loves. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
sanb: It’s a total No No for me. It’s either you’re in the relationship solely or you’re out...there’s nothing like an open relationship in my book. It’s just disrespectful as far as I’m concerned.... its tiring listening to women talking crap about all men being cheaters bla bla bla nonsense, yet not willing to face REALITY. if men are all cheaters then only TWO things can happen 1) he will cheat (but i guess since you wont know about it then its all good to you. 2) he will be honest and let you know about his cheating self, and you will either divorce or continue in this OPEN R/SHIP. now ladies, care to tell us which one you believe is BEST in any marriage?! but then again, since most of you lot are DESPERATE to be married AT ALL COST, we already know which one you will choose! 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
ballabriggs:How many Nigerian men do you know ? |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by ballabriggs: 5:06pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Billyonaire: How many Nigerian men do you know ? Look Mr Man my father was a member of Island Club and the Lagos Tennis club. I used to attend club events with him as a teenager. If I remember what those men used to do then, I loose respect for most naija men. These men were the elites in the society. Why are women in naija dulling themselves and forming closed relationship when your partner is all open to even young UNI girls. My point is sha.g whoever you want to sha.g without looking back. It won't bring the world to an end. And as they say, YOLO. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Billyonaire: You are now moderate. I love it that you have watered down your opinion. But I cant imagine a relationship that a couple accept to have different sex partners outside union 'knowingly'. I am for spicing up things by going on vacations, watching porns, even life porns, strip clubs etc. But 'knowingly' banging other people, sounds like the beginning of the end of the union. i am giving you the definition of open r/ship....what moderate views are you on about?! as i will say ONE MORE TIME, being in an open r/ship is NOT for the faint of heart. all them guys with big misplaced ego (that are possibly CHEATING RAT) are just a joke to any r/ship. i am not saying that everyone should be in one, i am just saying that there is NOTHING WRONG with being in one, if thats what you have both chosen for yourselves, and are happy with it. AyaSammy: To your question, i will say prayer is a very essential and a right tool in such case where the flame of love in your marriage goes off. BWAAAAAh see this one talking about prayers!!!! as if prayers have ever stopped a man from cheating?! nonsense! if you knew anything about the BIBLE, then you would know that many well respected MARRIED men in the bible had concubines mistresses sugarbabies and what not....so if it is ok for THEM to get their groove on, then i am sure it would be equally ok for women to do so too in marriage so long as hubby fully well knows.....or is it not? since you are a lost sheep, let me say it one more time to you: MANY WELL RESPECTED MARRIED MEN IN BIBLICAL TIMES OPENLY HAD CONCUBINES/MISTRESSES/S.EX SLAVES AND WHAT NOT, and there was NO PROBLEM with it whatsoever (so long as the person they did the do with was NOT married)! 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by MrsChima(f): 5:12pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
ballabriggs: Good thing you don't represent all Nigerian men. ![]() |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by warrior101: 5:15pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: my brother, i kinda think you're gone too far with your new age orientation... if my partner isn't satisfied with me sexually then we shouldn't be partners in the first place... many things are involved why your orientation about this topic is wrong, i leave the rest to your thinking, perhaps if you reverse your thinking you will get the point... 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Kemaona: 5:16pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by MyneWhite1(f): 5:17pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
If it works for the couple, that's their choice. For me, we shall cross that road when we come to it. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by Kemaona: 5:19pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Listen to urself. Cos solomon was recomended 4 that? What is bad is bad. Period. |
Re: What's Your Opinion On Open Relatipnships? by phineboy1pimple(m): 5:24pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
agoha_vivi: Open relationship is nothing but self-deceit. Explain pls? |
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