freecocoa: Please is this like a bad illness or something? cos if it is then I'm sure I need help.
I feel so much pain when I hear or see someone else in pain.
I cry to the point that no tears come out of my eyes again.
During that ALUU incident I became a shadow of myself and I even blamed myself for not being there at as that time to try and stop the killing.
The thing is that such happens to me anytime I hear a bad news, I somehow feel I should have been able to do something to stop it from happening, I even feel like hurting myself and I often end up slapping myself most times.
I just hate this part of me but I can't help it, if I start crying here eh, just don't even tell me to stop cos that will trigger more tears.
Seriously I keep wondering what is wrong with me, I think I even feel people's pain more than they do and I don't like it cos people who know me think it very weird.
Please is there a way to make it stop?

ItsModella: Ok, who enjoys the smell of their fart?

Olumi4eva: i fall in luv so easily

Slicqy prizzy: sometimes i keep quite when i feel sad.
Personally, I don't understand why you should dislike a person just because she is a talkative. You could just stop listening to her.At first I used to take it personal when they said such things to me.
I would go to my room and cry my heart out, thinking I was crazy.
Right now, when they say that to me, I just take it as a joke and laugh over it.

Richfella: I can eat rice morning, afternoon and night...for 200 years straight, and won't complain.

meenagiggs:
You need help. Your behaviour is bordering on madness.

Una be fool: loool. I seldom allow any girl at first sight go untouched without boldly giving her a kiss on the forehead even in public

pendo89:

The worst bit is getting shocked easily.I can't take it when somebody suddenly appears behind me.Not during the day or night,not in the workplace or home.
My heart literally stops and I scream in shock.

manny4life:

Perhaps, I should rephrase, I so much dislike her talkative behavior not her person, per se.

All she ever talks about is FOOD, she's thick yet talk about food, it just gets to me..

I know right, when my family begins to make fun of me "his gone crazy", we all laugh about it, no stress. My mom, on the other hand believes that something is wrong somewhere, it still bothers her, I convince her that I'm fine.

abiL:


Tbh I don't think you're suffering from PTSD, I think you're just an emotional & empathetic individual.

dapachez: Are you kidding me or what i love rice more than any other food. I just relocated from lasgidi and for the past three months in my new location i have never eaten any other food aside rice. Rice forever

freecocoa: Please is this like a bad illness or something? cos if it is then I'm sure I need help.
I feel so much pain when I hear or see someone else in pain.
I cry to the point that no tears come out of my eyes again.
During that ALUU incident I became a shadow of myself and I even blamed myself for not being there at as that time to try and stop the killing.
The thing is that such happens to me anytime I hear a bad news, I somehow feel I should have been able to do something to stop it from happening, I even feel like hurting myself and I often end up slapping myself most times.
I just hate this part of me but I can't help it, if I start crying here eh, just don't even tell me to stop cos that will trigger more tears.
Seriously I keep wondering what is wrong with me, I think I even feel people's pain more than they do and I don't like it cos people who know me think it very weird.
Please is there a way to make it stop?

Duke_Nija:

You are Emotional not Passionate.
You meant Choleric not Phlegmatic.

Its good to be emotional.

OK1:
hav u heard of d phrase "balance diet" or do u knw they exist 6 classes of fud? Damn ur lov 4 rice n consider ur health..u've been takin jst STARCH!

freecocoa: My sister I just hope its not an illness o.
Just imagine going to pay someone who lost a loved one condolence visit and on getting there, people leave the bereaved and start consoling you to the point that the bereaved even joins in. It can be very embarrassing I tell ya.

manny4life: .

Shollypopz:


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Shollypopz:
Shut up about the PTSD already!! argh, no one fvcking cares! Any one that shows any emotion when bad things happen is suffering from post traumatic stress disorder?? U are not Dr phill!

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manny4life:

It's not an illness like malaria or otherwise, so you're fine on that end, but some experts argue that it's somewhat of a distortion of the brain neural activity. I wrote a paper for my brother's friend yesterday on brain activity, and I learned a lot. IMO, I think you're compassionate, and you feel empathy for people.

Now, on the case of you blaming yourself is a form of PTSD kinda. For there to be some signs of stress, the person must have learned directly/indirectly suffered traumatic event. Characteristics of signs of PTSD is shock, panic, self blame, depression, seclusion, etc. When you're in these modes, then you know you're in stage 1. I'm no expert in this field (let me make that clear), but I know well enough to say that the ALUU killings, or BH bombing, or 9/11, or severe flooding that killed so many is traumatic enough to put some people in to "shock, panic, depressive, seclusive " state.

manny4life:

Yes ma, ask Dr. Phil, he said it himself

So you can either enlighten your knowledge by reading his books, or reading any other investigative article, or you shutting up yourself... Cool?

Shollypopz:
I'm not emotional and I know what I mean by passionate. I'm passionate about my desires and what I want to do in Nigeria. The tears is out of frustration that I'm doing nothing. Well, that's why I also said I wish I was phlegmatic, I don't like showing any form of emotion either.

And FVCK NO!, I did not mean Choleric. WTF?? I said I don't want to show or have any emotions. Can't u read??!!
Nonsense!! I want to be phlegmatic and I might be choleric but that's not what I was saying, mtcheew!

abiL:

freecocoa: Hmm
I exhibit all the characteristics you listed above whenever such things happen.
The cry cry and seclusion are part of if not the major reasons why an ex boyfriend left me, he just couldn't take it no more.
Seriously its affects me badly, I'm going to read more about it and probably get a solution to it, sometimes it just feels like I'm going mad.
And this country doesn't help with the bad things that happen everyday, I can't keep being like this.

manny4life: On that note, just because you don't seem to care about your emotional life, doesn't mean others wouldn't. My advice for you, you need to enrich your soul and your brains - VERY IMPORTANT, rather than coming on NL frustrating over irrelevant issue. Perhaps, it's that time of the month for you, but it's not Manny that will carry you anguish, look for elsewhere to dump your frustration on.

abiL:


Time of the month?

Shollypopz:
One more word form u heffa about PTSD and imma slap you. Did you just discover what PTSD is?? All u've been yapping about since I got to this thread is PTSD, I can't fvcking take it anymore. SHHHUUUUTTTT UUUPPPPP!!!!

Btw, I do know about PTSD. And that's why I know I'm not suffering from PTSD! Jeez!

Richfella:

Call down dude, Sholly is suffering from "Diary of A Mad Black Woman" . If you mess with her, she's gon bit.ch slap your a$$ to the moon .

Richfella:

Call down dude, Sholly is suffering from "Diary of A Mad Black Woman" . If you mess with her, she's gon bit.ch slap your a$$ to the moon .