showakid:

i've read her latest interview she said she has to continue work to clear some bills and to look afer her children. simple, nothing hard in that.

Jaynie:

Hi y'all - I'm back again with a dose of reality! Nobody ill-treated Stella or left her to fend for herself. She chose to stay by herself because she wanted her freedom - to enjoy her life. If you read a recent inreview in global excellence magazine, she said her in-laws NEVER gave her trouble or fought with her. These were her own words where she posed on the cover of that magazine with her new love, lanre owoborode. She accused the press of making issues where there were none! Why blame them? After all she kept quiet all this time and said absolutely nothing in defence of her husband's family! She has always known that she doesn't have to work to educate the children because her in-laws have always been there for her. But she doesn't want them knowing her business and disturbing her life. Using the excuse that she has to work gives her the chance to, legitimately, in the eyes of Nigerians, go clubbing and enjoying her life most days of the week!

The truth is coming out - read all her interviews. At least that way, you know its coming from the horses mouth. The more recent interviews contradict the old ones. She realises that she can't keep acting the abandoned widow all her life! A bitter pill to swallow, I know, for all you die-hard fans. She such a talented actress on and off screen and smart as well, she has deceived you all! Its easy to see why so I don't blame you all - she's got such an innocent face and she always acts those innocent roles in her movies. You guys are only human - i understand! Sorry if I have upset you all!


Jaynie let the sleeping dog lie. Dont remind us again. If it was to be Jaiye that is alive, I wonder if the same thing would be said about him.

Jaynie:

Hi y'all - I'm back again with a dose of reality! Nobody ill-treated Stella or left her to fend for herself. She chose to stay by herself because she wanted her freedom - to enjoy her life. If you read a recent inreview in global excellence magazine, she said her in-laws NEVER gave her trouble or fought with her. These were her own words where she posed on the cover of that magazine with her new love, lanre owoborode. She accused the press of making issues where there were none! Why blame them? After all she kept quiet all this time and said absolutely nothing in defence of her husband's family! She has always known that she doesn't have to work to educate the children because her in-laws have always been there for her. But she doesn't want them knowing her business and disturbing her life. Using the excuse that she has to work gives her the chance to, legitimately, in the eyes of Nigerians, go clubbing and enjoying her life most days of the week!

The truth is coming out - read all her interviews. At least that way, you know its coming from the horses mouth. The more recent interviews contradict the old ones. She realises that she can't keep acting the abandoned widow all her life! A bitter pill to swallow, I know, for all you die-hard fans. She such a talented actress on and off screen and smart as well, she has deceived you all! Its easy to see why so I don't blame you all - she's got such an innocent face and she always acts those innocent roles in her movies. You guys are only human - i understand! Sorry if I have upset you all!

Jaynie:

Hey 9ja4eva, HOW was she maltreated? Give us details, specifics. If you check her interviews, she never said the family did anything to her - she just IMPLIED a lot of things and allowed the press to jump to conclusions. In the interview with global excellence where she posed for the pix on the cover with lanre in a very loving embrace, her hands around his waist and her head resting on his chest, she said that she is an adult and so is lanre and there was no reason to hide their relationship. So don't say anybody can take pix together - she admitted that there IS something between them. But then we all want her to get on with her life, abi?

She also said that the family has never troubled her. I repeat, she accused the press of making issues where there were none. You are doing exactly what she has accused the press of doing! Methinks you guys should try and get your facts right before jumping to conclusions.

hotchick:

9ja4ever what are you scared of?why are you trying so openly and shamefully to stop the discussion?Why,scared everyone will see stella for who she trully is?Dont worry her facial beauty is sufficient to continue the job.I have always said it that some people act even in their real life and only shallow or gullible people fall beleivers.
A woman looses her spouse and DAYS after she's mourning him hulled up in a night club and has ever since become a night bird frolicking with diverse men while soliciting for sympathy by wooping up false sentiments,then goes around looking and acting innocent while retreating with the lover for the night and laughing at how easy it was to fool yall!phew. She needs to take care of those two kids,work hard in her job thats what other decent widows do not night crawling every night and getting photographed in embarrasing postures!and stop embarrasing hrself,her poor late hubby and his family!

hotchick:

9ja4ever if that truly looks like a people meet people piture to you,ill truly go back and read all your posts on this forum.No im sure youre not as dum as you sounded . that was genuine ignorance.

Jaynie:

God bless you HOTCHICK for coming out with the truth! For once, someone who is not biased and deceived by innocent looks, is looking beyond what is on the surface to see what has really happened. Stella did not face any hatred or name-calling from her husband's family! (9ja4eva take note!!!). You were walking around with Stella - I was walking around with the Aboderins!! I saw the love and support they extended to her which she received at the time, only to turn around and keep silent while the press were insulting the family! 9ja4eva, perhaps you were one of the people encouraging her to stay away from the family under the illusion that you were protecting her. PEOPLE, have you ever wondered why no member of her family has spoken against the Aboderins? It's because they know the truth and are noble enough not to lie in her favour. They also refuse to encourage the false image she has created! So they have remained silent. ANGEL101, obviously, you also know the real Stella. I can also say for a fact that if Jaiye had any 'concubines' as you 9ja4eva, put it, it was only after he discovered her infidelities and started sleeping inseperate rooms! So let us not be economical with the truth. And I am going to repeat this again, STELLA DIDN'T HAVE TO GOT OUT TO WORK BECAUSE OF THE KIDS. THE ABODERINS OFFERED HER THEIR SUPPORT BUT SHE DIDN'T WANT THEM TOO CLOSE SO THAT SHE COULD LIVE THE KIND OF LIFE SHE WANTED. If you all think about it, it makes sense. Unfortunately, the way I see it, Jaiye (God rest his gentle soul) was just a stepping stone for Stella to get to where she wanted to be. Sorry to be so blunt but thats the truth.

Jaynie:

9ja4eva, may God forgive you for your outright lies! What do you mean, 'she was battered' and 'Wunmi leading the list'? Don't say things like that unless you have the facts! You are fortunate that we are incognito here, you could be sued for libel! T-H-I-N-K before you talk anyhow! This is sad!

Jaynie:

Again 9ja4eva, Angel101 said

'I saw her in a very compromising position in a bar within Silverbird complex soon after the death of her husband and i was really disgusted'.

I heard about that too but I've never mentioned it because I only KNOW someone who saw her. Now we have heard it DIRECTLY from someone who saw her! Why don't u tell angel101 that she's lying?

Jaynie:

'Her husband had so many concubines while alive so dnt even go dere.'

And 9ja4eva, if you know her so well and you make that kind of statement, why then is she giving the impression in her interviews that they were so much in love? If you are honest with yourself, you will realise that when people lie, their stories will never add up!! T-H-I-N-K before you talk!!