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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Idowuogbo(f): 1:45pm On Sep 23, 2013
madone: yes seriously
Ehen? So wot u gon do abourrit?
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by mirob(f): 1:56pm On Sep 23, 2013
missblanche: i really do think its higggggh time i spill the beanssss...actually blushing,silly me smiley


Spill the beans doll, can't wait to hear all the details, so do all other dolls I believe.
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 2:13pm On Sep 23, 2013
Idowuogbo:
Spill!!!!!!!!!!!!! cheesy
Waitingsmiley
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 7:50pm On Sep 23, 2013
Holla...Holla
Na Badosky I follow come here ooo
Where's she at?
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 4:14am On Sep 24, 2013
[size=14pt]hellooo,any Aguda,surulere gal here, well, I just moved Here 3months now,need new frnds because of the ASUU thing, am alway Home, pls Follow my signature below and let's talk[/size]waiting to hear from you
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 10:54am On Sep 24, 2013
Idowuogbo: Halllo! I'm single and ready to mingle.

P.S- I b Lesbiano o! embarassed
lol
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 11:37am On Sep 24, 2013
@carmelion...d bolded abt man is an expression dat shld b re-address there shld b no room 4 sentimental justification...I personal dnt encourage ladies 2 leap wit a lazy bottom bt if a man suddenly crash as a result of certain circumstances beyond human handle do u term such man unproductive and ambitionless...Is hard time dat ladies shld kill dat egocentric mentality of monetary love and generalisation...in 21century women nw see's men wit atm endowement as d men wit only marital prospective...it wn't b wrong if i say women are obiageli(meaning women come chop)are u all encouraging over dependent and laziness 2 d women folks...if a woman can't sacrifice little 2 make relationship or marriage work i wonder if love do exist...love shld nt b 1 sided because of d advocacy for gender liberty and equality...wit love u can brush up someone 2 bcom successful nt every failure 2day is failure by birth dey wer either into 1 venture or d other bt mayb somtin happened along d line u never can tell ur caring,advice,love may jst b wat he need 2 spark up again wit success....nt waiting 4 already made man 2 envelope wit even dos made men were 1nce failures in thier life endeavour b4 dey got it right or became who dey are 2day either by hardwork,luck,connection or favour...I once read d story of Tunde Obe a celebrity who had noting wen his girlfriend who later became his wife...he had noting d women gave up everytin 2 support him he later became a star nw dat same man is a millionaire 2day tnk God his wife stood by him in tin and thorns..gues wat..2day he respect d woman alot and esteem her as part of his success story...''life is a random walk "2day is bad does nt mean dat 2moro is nt bright....i tink love is better defined by hw much u can impact in someone's life nt hw much u can take 4rm him or her...let encourage love nt perversiveness, inequality and selfishness.tnx

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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by mspee(f): 10:31pm On Sep 24, 2013
Wow! Such an eye opening thread. Wish i saw this 2 years ago. . . cry
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 12:22am On Sep 25, 2013
ms_pee: Wow! Such an eye opening thread. Wish i saw this 2 years ago. . . cry
It's not too late dearie.
I have learnt lessons I wished I could have known better much earlier
but then I realised change can still occur as long as you are alive.
So dear it's never too late untill you are outta breath so get up and make things better no time for regrets.
THE PAST IS GONE, YOU STILL HAVE A CHANCE TO MAKE THE PRESENT AND FUTURE BETTER.
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by mspee(f): 7:04am On Sep 25, 2013
^^ thanks dear. It's not too late, but the mistake has been made. You know falling and getting back up is not very easy.

I am one of those ladies out there that will never love again. embarassed
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 8:06am On Sep 25, 2013
ms_pee: ^^ thanks dear. It's not too late, but the mistake has been made. You know falling and getting back up is not very easy.

I am one of those ladies out there that will never love again. embarassed
you will love again honey-getting up is not easy but staying down means you have accepted defeat. Wake up girl! be happy live your life, trust in God and watch things fall in place the best is still to come.
I have suffered terrible heart breaks in the past-but i never gave up on myself finding love again.
So dearie you have to move on just ask God for help and you will never regret you did.
All the best.

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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by MrsChima(f): 11:18am On Sep 25, 2013
RedBenson:

Yes! Am his gateman. Can we mingle at my security post? grin

Yes...we can! Let me get my machete. wink
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by mspee(f): 11:22am On Sep 25, 2013
Cutejay: you will love again honey-getting up is not easy but staying down means you have accepted defeat. Wake up girl! be happy live your life, trust in God and watch things fall in place the best is still to come.
I have suffered terrible heart breaks in the past-but i never gave up on myself finding love again.
So dearie you have to move on just ask God for help and you will never regret you did.
All the best.

Alright dear. Thanks smiley
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by passionate88: 12:19pm On Sep 25, 2013
Abeg any omo Yoruba here?, make una help me tranlate this words "Ayedaade ni mo wa mi o si ni surulere". I beg I just need d translated version to helep me understand something. Thanks.
abeg na wetin that bolded word mean?
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by mspee(f): 12:34pm On Sep 25, 2013
passionate88: @bolded, story. When u jam guy wey get money dey ride SUV, him jst wink @ u inside his clean ride. Tell me say u no go fall yakata for am?. I jst dey laff whenever I see any naija girl dey talk say dm no go eva love again.

Make I ask wetin bring me cm here jare. Abeg any omo Yoruba here?, make una help me tranlate this words "Ayedaade ni mo wa mi o si ni surulere". I beg I just need d translated version to helep me understand something. Thanks.

Lol. Girls are different. I have hands and with those hands I work for my money. Money cannot make me love anybody, you hear? No vex. . .

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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 2:27pm On Sep 25, 2013
ms_pee:

Lol. Girls are different. I have hands and with those hands I work for my money. Money cannot make me love anybody, you hear? No vex. .
.

Story story ... story!!! We've heard many times before so chill. How much do you work for and how much do you earn comapare to ur insatiable wants. How abt feeling cool seated in front of my SUV while i take you around the globe spending dough on you? I bet you'll love me even more than ur previous. PM me if you are ready!

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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 2:31pm On Sep 25, 2013
Mrs.Chima:


Yes...we can! Let me get my machete. wink

Is it machete that you use to mingle with chima? Let's use my rod rather. You will feel cool than chima's own. grin
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 2:58pm On Sep 25, 2013
RedBenson:

Story story ... story!!! We've heard many times before so chill. How much do you work for and how much do you earn comapare to ur insatiable wants. How abt feeling cool seated in front of my SUV while i take you around the globe spending dough on you? I bet you'll love me even more than ur previous. PM me if you are ready!
cheesy
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by mspee(f): 3:32pm On Sep 25, 2013
RedBenson:

Story story ... story!!! We've heard many times before so chill. How much do you work for and how much do you earn comapare to ur insatiable wants. How abt feeling cool seated in front of my SUV while i take you around the globe spending dough on you? I bet you'll love me even more than ur previous. PM me if you are ready!

Lol. What are you saying? What kind of girls do you mingle with? undecided
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 4:07pm On Sep 25, 2013
ms_pee: ^^ thanks dear. It's not too late, but the mistake has been made. You know falling and getting back up is not very easy.

I am one of those ladies out there that will never love again. embarassed
lol dear i guess u havn't run into love when u meet wit love ur story will change....love is fairly understood crowning love impossible may have resulted 4rm wrong choice....so dnt term luv impossible have it at ur back of mind dat u av nt met d ryt man..mayb u av bin meeting passers by who jst deposit and walk-away gently...stand up 4rm ur weak idealogy and make urslf happy again bt dis time pray hard,think well,estimate well,definitely d ryt man we b located....bt make sure ur hurt is nt cause by ur own human factor because some ladies are fond of dis even wen dey are guilty dey will alwaz put it on man and term it love is hurt...d question is are u prepared 4 such luv,do u av wat it takes 2 retain it,d u poses few luv qualities dat are virtues,can u handle responsibility,are u emotional prepared,are u adjustable...if u lack dis den get urslf prepared b4 u start luking 4 partner...dnt give up noting gud come so easily..bt thr are guidelines abide by it.

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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by mspee(f): 5:00pm On Sep 25, 2013
^^ thanks dear.
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by WildChild00(m): 5:17pm On Sep 25, 2013
ms_pee:

Lol. What are you saying? What kind of girls do you mingle with? undecided

hhhmmm! Too much question, just pm him, its as simple as ABC.....
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by WildChild00(m): 5:24pm On Sep 25, 2013
Mrs.Chima:
Single and ready to mingle.

Not until I see an approval notification/ letter of consent frm Mr.Chima, I can not risk my life.
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 8:45pm On Sep 25, 2013
ms_pee:

Lol. What are you saying? What kind of girls do you mingle with? undecided

Did you just ask what kind of girls do i mingle with? Of course the same ordinary nigerian girls just like YOU who pretend they dont care about a guy's money, but can never operate a smooth relationship with a guy for a week without bombarding the guy with financial issues. Just pm me and you'll love again. Trust me!

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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by mspee(f): 10:27pm On Sep 25, 2013
RedBenson:

Did you just ask what kind of girls do i mingle with? Of course the same ordinary nigerian girls just like YOU who pretend they dont care about a guy's money, but can never operate a smooth relationship with a guy for a week without bombarding the guy with financial issues. Just pm me and you'll love again. Trust me!

You don chop today?

Well, it was nice reading your rants. Good day Mr. Redbenson!
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by cowgurl: 10:33pm On Sep 25, 2013
carmelion: Good morning dollllllssmiley

This week is operation Jump and pass

This is to all the single ladies who think they can perform a miracle by trying to change a guys life.

You know he is an armed robber,but you want to change him

A cultist ?you want to change him

A womaniser?You want to change him

A ritualist?you want to change him.

A lazy man who depends on you for every damn thing.You transport yourself to his house ,spend your money to feed yourselves when you get there,he begs you money for airtime,you wash his clothes,clean the house,and then when its time to go,you give him money for his upkeep and the transport yourself back home.

This is no longer a relationship,it is now a project,its now a liability
My dear it does not work that way,especially if he has not shown any interest in changing himself.Leave the changing part for the Pastors and the Counselors.Enjoy your life o.Better to remain single than to manage your relationship in sadness.

To single ladies in this kind of situation,I say drop that relationship like its hot!!!.

TeamJuMp&PaSs cool

Damn grin grin

This is some funny facts but lots of truths in it, team jump & pass, lol.

Hey Carmie.
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by bjennifer: 10:51pm On Sep 25, 2013
I want to know, is there anyone who goes through this Menace. You see someone you really like but when he shows interest quickly you pull back and then the one who really doesn't send you is the one you are head over heels for...
The more he's unpredictable the more you can't seem to get him out of your head, it becomes another season of The Chase!!!
You like the chase more than the actual relationship....
I don't know if its a psycological issue because that's my menace!
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by cowgurl: 10:53pm On Sep 25, 2013
Chidonsky: @carmelion...d bolded abt man is an expression dat shld b re-address there shld b no room 4 sentimental justification...I personal dnt encourage ladies 2 leap wit a lazy bottom bt if a man suddenly crash as a result of certain circumstances beyond human handle do u term such man unproductive and ambitionless...Is hard time dat ladies shld kill dat egocentric mentality of monetary love and generalisation...in 21century women nw see's men wit atm endowement as d men wit only marital prospective...it wn't b wrong if i say women are obiageli(meaning women come chop)are u all encouraging over dependent and laziness 2 d women folks...if a woman can't sacrifice little 2 make relationship or marriage work i wonder if love do exist...love shld nt b 1 sided because of d advocacy for gender liberty and equality...wit love u can brush up someone 2 bcom successful nt every failure 2day is failure by birth dey wer either into 1 venture or d other bt mayb somtin happened along d line u never can tell ur caring,advice,love may jst b wat he need 2 spark up again wit success....nt waiting 4 already made man 2 envelope wit even dos made men were 1nce failures in thier life endeavour b4 dey got it right or became who dey are 2day either by hardwork,luck,connection or favour...I once read d story of Tunde Obe a celebrity who had noting wen his girlfriend who later became his wife...he had noting d women gave up everytin 2 support him he later became a star nw dat same man is a millionaire 2day tnk God his wife stood by him in tin and thorns..gues wat..2day he respect d woman alot and esteem her as part of his success story...''life is a random walk "2day is bad does nt mean dat 2moro is nt bright....i tink love is better defined by hw much u can impact in someone's life nt hw much u can take 4rm him or her...let encourage love nt perversiveness, inequality and selfishness.tnx

Hey, I think you misunderstood her.

And to your comment, I believe a true relationship involves;

* both hands working on it

* sacrifices and compromises by both parties

* finance, love and encouragement

"wit love u can brush up someone 2 bcom successful

And if anyone is planning to do the above, he or she should do so with an open mind devoid of expectations...

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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by cowgurl: 11:47pm On Sep 25, 2013
bjennifer: I want to know, is there anyone who goes through this Menace. You see someone you really like but when he shows interest quickly you pull back and then the one who really doesn't send you is the one you are head over heels for...
The more he's unpredictable the more you can't seem to get him out of your head, it becomes another season of The Chase!!!
You like the chase more than the actual relationship....
I don't know if its a psycological issue because that's my menace!

Hi bjennifer,

Am positive most people on here have gone down this road and many still will but what they often fail to realise is, they are also part of the cycle,"head over heels for him but he's head over heels for another unpredictable being" and round and round the chase goes leaving hearts broken.

Oh no, am not saying the chase and being unpredictable ain't cool - on the contrary, me likey wink but If you really want a relationship, you need to define it first of, and then be on the look-out for someone who feels same way as you do, someone who you compatible with, someone whose flaws you can live with, someone who's willing to work with you and lots more.

That's right bjennifer, being in a relationship isn't all about the chase, it transcends way beyond that.

So the real question here is, what is IT you want doll? A relationship or a fling?

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Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Nobody: 7:57am On Sep 26, 2013
ms_pee:

You don chop today?

Well, it was nice reading your rants. Good day Mr. Redbenson!

You posted this at 10:27pm and you wished me 'good day'? Are you ok? When did 10:27pm become a day in Naija? Anyways, just pm and you'll love again. Trust me!
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by iropelebe(m): 8:04am On Sep 26, 2013
Hi single ladies kiss kiss
Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by remsonik(f): 10:13am On Sep 26, 2013
Hello ladies,there is the guy who is my friend and we are really close.all of a sudden he stopped talking to me,won't call me or pick my call. Although we are still friends and I really like him a lot plus he knows how to bring me out of my shell. Pls what could be wrong for him to be avoiding me,am losing it.pls help

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