Yoruba_Omoge:

Too bad for them. Only Nigeria chicks in Nigeria go suffer that one.
It's not a must for women with other options to tie themselves with men with Stonehenge mentality.
Pele. E go better.
Na only because there aren't any competitive alternatives, na the reason why una dey expect mama part 2

Yeah, you're damn right while you'll be signing your divorce documents at 50 she'll be commanding the husband like the last child in the house

Idowuogbo:
If u are doing so called "chores" @ home, wots d big deal doing d same thing @ his? Does it necessarily mean u his housekeeper? It's something you should do naturally, it shud only become a problem if ur bofy starts dictating.

lt's seen ldowu's account have finally been restored?.

LOL Nigerian girls have suffered.

Can't imagine na this Okorocha and Fashola lookalikes dey insult me. Ye!!!

Looks you no get. Resources you no get. Hardworking you no do. Sense nko, o ti ooooooooo.

Do you know how to cook during emergencies? Can you HELP take care of your children? How we fit know if na to dey wait with una smelly mouth for your gfs to babysit you.

Biko, atleast be something before you expect something.

Make I no vex for una today.

Truckpusher: Yeah, you're damn right while you'll be signing your divorce documents at 50 she'll be commanding the husband like the last child in the house

Unless you can proof that playing wifey material pre-marriage correlates with strong marriage or that it even guarantees proposal, calm down. aiight.

Stop throwing around assumptions that makes little sense with the "issue" at hand.

Yoruba_Omoge:

Thank you.
I'm not a lazy person.
When it comes to technology, I'm great. If I have questions, I know where to go and who to ask.
I fix all the electronics in my house, the one my mom buys and the ones my friends can't fix.
I don't sit around waiting for Johnny Bravo to "hmmm and ahhh, this is not fixable" over something I can easily fix.
Is it cars? I know how to handle it too.
Is it building stuff, I'm not blind, I can read instructions.
If I can do both male and female parts, why should I be sitting my bubbly azz in someone's apartment playing mama?

W£lcom£ to 2013 bab£...this is what d m£ntality of a mod£rn human/woman should b.

dammytosh:

There is a place for greedy Biatch oooo. They get laid several times until the responsible girl come.

You come, u get laid , u gist, u go. continue the cycle until u expire.........

Do u mind if l pm u?..

2buff:


You be fagg0t? why you dey follow my thick black azz around NL?

nah!!!..even if i'm one you won't make my list....i'll rather hump a cadaver than help your worthless fagg0t azz ....wait a min,..you think say i be gaylittle wonder you keep sending me pms..smdh....YOU MADE A NASTY COMMENT ABT NAIJA BOYS,SO I'M ONLY MAKING SURE I STRAIGHTEN YOU UP EACH TIME A TOPIC LIKE THAT COMES UP AND YOU COME LURKING AROUND

ItsModella:
you sef, why? what kind of assumption is this? how many guys have you even met? I hope this your generalization includes your brothers and father.

ItsModella itsModella...honestly l have seen u!..(didn't got ur response).?.

i think it should be done when she visits once in awhile ,not as a responsibility but as a way of helping the friend.i appreciate a girl that can do some things for me that i over look.too busy with work.it shows something to me

eagle,eye:


You are an unbiased refree. Thanks for the balanced yabbing.

Oh l thought l'm the only one discover her smart comment here..proudly itsmodella..

Truckpusher: ...somebody will give you e-beating for this your badt mouth

l don't think so we got her back!.

Truckpusher: nah!!!..even if i'm one you won't make my list....i'll rather hump a cadaver than help your worthless fagg0t azz ....wait a min,..you think say i be gaylittle wonder you keep sending me pms..smdh....YOU MADE A NASTY COMMENT ABT NAIJA BOYS,SO I'M ONLY MAKING SURE I STRAIGHTEN YOU UP EACH TIME A TOPIC LIKE THAT COMES UP AND YOU COME LURKING AROUND

How pointless...So with all the girls wey dey this forum na man yansh you wan dey stalk? Stop desperately seeking my attention.

I'm sure it must be hard for you being a fagg0t and thus always looking for men to disturb, but I don't swing that way.
Go find someone else who will. I will ignore you going forward.

Yoruba_Omoge:

Unless you can proof that playing wifey material pre-marriage correlates with strong marriage or that it even guarantees proposal, calm down. aiight.

Stop throwing around assumptions that makes little sense with the "issue" at hand.

I'm not just throwing around assumptions ,but i'm looking at the bigger picture which you'll never believe it exists..funny enough we've seen ladies that bragged like this before and we also have a good record on how they ended up.....yours can't be any different..... na today

I'm surprised at some people's comments on this thread. Una dey try. Misplaced priorities. Smh...

SMH at some of the posts coming from NL ladies. Its really sad.

@topic, i ENJOY doing chores anytime i go to my man's house because i see him as my big baby. i cook, clean, wash and arrange, sometimes i even ask him to just sit while i feed him.......yea sue me
I barely let him touch anything when am around. I don't do all that because am desperate and want him to marry me immediately but becos i LOVE him and am the type that likes pampering her man.

How comfortable would a lady be in her boyfriend's place watching him cook and clean, but goes to bedroom with him, bleeps him and then go home And you expct him to take u seriously?? SMDH

Truckpusher: I'm not just throwing around assumptions ,but i'm looking at the bigger picture which you'll never believe it exists..funny enough we've seen ladies that bragged like this before and we also have a good record on how they ended up.....yours can't be any different..... na today

My dear, the difference between you and I, is that I'm not begging for marriage.
There's nothing, apart from a dccciiik, that he'd offer me during courtship that I can't afford myself. Well, if na private jet, I fit romance am small
I have a lot to offer and he counts himself lucky to have this.
Cleaning his house and cooking for him won't change destiny. What is meant to be will be.
All these wifey characteristics he';s begging for can be demonstrated in my home as a NORMAL activity, not a desperate show of "I want to be MRS by force".
Is he wifey material too? You think women don't look at that?
Who wants to live with an unkempt, dirty, smelly man?

#shakes head#i pity ur condition[quote
author=Idowuogbo]
In 2013, y'all still get dis kian mentality? Wots d biggie about
sweeping, washing and cooking? I mean for Godsake, dose are d qualities a
guy who wants to settle down would probably be on d look out for. All
dis shakara dey ruin cv o! U were warned o! Hian! Smh.[/quote]

anitank: SMH at some of the posts coming from NL ladies. Its really sad.

@topic, i ENJOY doing chores anytime i go to my man's house becuase i see him as my big baby. i cook, clean, wash and arrange, sometimes i even ask him to just sit while i feed him.......yea sue me
I don't do all that because am desperate and want him to marry me immediately but becos i LOVE him and am the type that likes pampering her man.

How comfortable would a lady be in her boyfriend's place watching him cook and clean, but goes to bedroom with him, bleeps him and then go home And you expct him to take u seriously??

No mind these things them oh ...funny enough some them don't even have a boy friend even if they do, it would be one street urchin that will be commanding them like robot ,but as soon they come here they begin to spew thrash....smdh...i pity them sha them never jam

Honestly I pity guys who depend on a woman to take care of his domestic needs.
Abeg, how much will it cost to take your laundry to the dry cleaner? How much for feeding in a day, in a nice restuarant?
I sometimes tell my babes no to bother themselves when they offer to help take care of me. There is this babe that actually had a quarrel with me cos she thinks am wasting money, on things she can easily do for me.
I grew with a lot of aunties and am an only son, so I know first hand how women do think generally. In the event of a break up the babe will start recounting what and what not she has done for you (but she will not remember the ones you did for her). So to avoid insults, I take those my clothes to the dry cleaner and I eat out most times (especially when my babe is not in town). I believe in NO FREE LUNCH anywhere.

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eagle,eye:
Honestly I pity guys who depend on a woman to take care of his domestic needs.
Abeg, how much will it cost to take your laundry to the dry cleaner? How much for feeding in a day, in a nice restuarant?
I sometimes tell my babes no to bother themselves when they offer to help take care of me. There is this babe that actually had a quarrel with me cos she thinks am wasting money, on things she can easily do for me.
I grew with a lot of aunties and am an only son, so I know first hand how women do think generally. In the event of a break up the babe will start recounting what and what not she has done for you (but she will not remember the ones you did for her). So to avoid insults, I take those my clothes to the dry cleaner and I eat out most times (especially when my babe is not in town). I believe in NO FREE LUNCH anywhere.

gbam!!!

WIFEY MATERIAL PALAVA

@ all =))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))
Hlping out or not wll nt stop å guy dat love Ɣφΰ 2 ring. Bck in sch ι̥ was in 100l ɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣ð my guy was in 400l ђe cums arund ɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣ð hlp ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ wth my laundary every saturday ɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣ð after ђe left sch anytime ђe'round we go 2 ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ well 2geda ɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣ð ђe use 2 cari ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ two buckets while my elder sista on ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ oda hand hlp her bf out wth house work, ђe stay in å 3 bedroom apartment ɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣ð wrk 4rm moda 2 sat, sat are half days.And dey are bth married wth å baby nw. Luck cums my way too am married 2 ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ same dat hlp wth my laundary, so Ɣφΰ Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ chores or n chores love ɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣ð undrstding is ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ key.

Truckpusher: No mind these things them oh ...funny enough some them don't even have a boy friend even if they do, it would be one street urchin that will be commanding them like robot ,but as soon they come here they begin to spew thrash....smdh...i pity them sha them never jam

U have a points..my guy.when it's comes to real world it's become opposite..faceless forum indeed!.

Learn to read before jumping into wrong conclusions. Most of the ladies here did not say they can't help out. They said they can, ONCE IN A WHILE! I leave for work at 5:30am and get home around 9pm, rush home to cook for my family. Are you telling me to go to my bf's house first to do his dishes? Does that make sense?

The only little time i can spare on weekends and public hols can be used for visitations and "helping out". I'm soo glad he is not dirty and lazy and he understands. I love to cook, he likes to eat. I clean the dishes, he throws out the garbage. It is a RELATIONSHIP!

eagle,eye:
Honestly I pity guys who depend on a woman to take care of his domestic needs.
Abeg, how much will it cost to take your laundry to the dry cleaner? How much for feeding in a day, in a nice restuarant?
I sometimes tell my babes no to bother themselves when they offer to help take care of me. There is this babe that actually had a quarrel with me cos she thinks am wasting money, on things she can easily do for me.
I grew with a lot of aunties and am an only son, so I know first hand how women do think generally. In the event of a break up the babe will start recounting what and what not she has done for you (but she will not remember the ones you did for her). So to avoid insults, I take those my clothes to the dry cleaner and I eat out most times (especially when my babe is not in town). I believe in NO FREE LUNCH anywhere.

Which reasonable dude will even allow these things with long nails like shark's teeth to do his laundry even with the machine, there are some cloths you don't just put into machines without doing the dry-cleaning first....honestly i don't feel comfortable with a woman ironing my cloths because almost 80% of these ladies don't even know how to do it.

They should tell us that laziness is their biggest problem instead of talking trash trying to cover up who they are...mtcheew

eagle,eye:
Honestly I pity guys who depend on a woman to take care of his domestic needs.
Abeg, how much will it cost to take your laundry to the dry cleaner? How much for feeding in a day, in a nice restuarant?
I sometimes tell my babes no to bother themselves when they offer to help take care of me. There is this babe that actually had a quarrel with me cos she thinks am wasting money, on things she can easily do for me.
I grew with a lot of aunties and am an only son, so I know first hand how women do think generally. In the event of a break up the babe will start recounting what and what not she has done for you (but she will not remember the ones you did for her). So to avoid insults, I take those my clothes to the dry cleaner and I eat out most times (especially when my babe is not in town). I believe in NO FREE LUNCH anywhere.

Thanks u hits my style though my mom will call & saying l'm wasting money or find a lady and settle down..

Truckpusher: Which reasonable dude will even allow these things with long nails like shark's teeth to do his laundry even with the machine, there are some cloths you don't just put into machines without doing the dry-cleaning first....[size=18pt]honestly i don't feel comfortable with a woman ironing my cloths[/size] because almost 80% of these ladies don't even know how to do it.

They should tell us that laziness is their biggest problem instead of talking trash trying to cover up who they are...mtcheew

Then iron your own cloth.
Are you so lazy as to expect a woman to iron your cloth?
You telling me that if you're both going to work, she should iron both cloths while you sit down doing what? Lol she aint your wife yet abeg.

You're one of those lazy annoying male on Nollywood movies, aren't you?

C'mon, simple ironing, you no fit do?

Everyone is different so there is no clear cut answer. It depends on the man and women involved. If you are a woman and you love to cook and clean for your bf and he likes that then continue. If you are the type of woman who does that occasionally but will only go full out for your husband and your man is understands and is ok with it then do it. Just try and find your match and if you are both happy then there is no problem.

little girls of nowadays, you people need serious lessons on marriage.

So exactly what would you be doing in your boyfriends house?

Lie on the bed all day or watch movies while he washes the plates and cleans the house?

Merging this silly American Mentalities with African way of doing things is destroying you twats.

How on earth am i supposed to even love some lazy girl who is only interested in my bed?

damilola_luv: Everyone is different so there is no clear cut answer. It depends on the man and women involved. If you are a woman and you love to cook and clean for your bf and he likes that then continue. If you are the type of woman who does that occasionally but will only go full out for your husband and your man is understands and is ok with it then do it. Just try and find your match and if you are both happy then there is no problem.

Boyfriend, not husband.