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Edited! by Raxxye(m): 3:11pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
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Re: Edited! by 25omega(m): 4:39pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
some will tell you go and some will say don't the truth is you have to search within yourself to weigh the pros and cons of your choice and be ready to live with your final decision. if you marry her and move, will you truly be happy? will you have to start school over because depending on where your masters was from, you might have to take another course. Will you miss your family support? Do you want to marry her to move to America because you think you will get a job or do you truly love her etc if you don't go will a job ever come? will you forever wonder what if? will you end up with a woman who you connect with as much as you connect with her? etc you have to decide. 1 Like |
Re: Edited! by MrsChima(f): 6:31pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
Raxxye: I need your advice, Nairalanders: If the woman in question doesn't mind being used to escape poverty until you are able to return home with cash/wealth...I don't see why you shouldn't marry her. Good luck proving to immigration you are not a scammer. |
Re: Edited! by Raxxye(m): 8:13pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: Thank you, Mrs Chima, for your characteristic non-useful contribution! |
Re: Edited! by Popowaa: 9:16pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
Seconded Mrs.Chima: |
Re: Edited! by Caracta(f): 10:43pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
Hmmm. I smell a woman's desperation. Goodluck OP. However, don't wait for a job...go make a job! |
Re: Edited! by tpia5: 11:02pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
People marry for different reasons, escaping poverty is one, seeing yansh is another, others may want green card, it all depends. If the op is unmarried, i dont necessarily see any reason why he cant marry and get his papers in the process. Is he in nigeria or overseas, didnt read the whole write up. Unless there's more to the story. |
Re: Edited! by tpia5: 11:04pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
25omega: some will tell you go and some will say don't the truth is you have to search within yourself to weigh the pros and cons of your choice and be ready to live with your final decision. True. If a woman doesnt meet your qualifications for marriage, its up to you if you'll go ahead or not. |
Re: Edited! by MrsChima(f): 11:35pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
Raxxye: You are welcome and I hope my words haunt you for the rest of your natural life bia bia! |
Re: Edited! by Nobody: 5:37am On Jun 06, 2013 |
Guy I weep for you |
Re: Edited! by Mynd44: 5:48am On Jun 06, 2013 |
So you are jobless and you still wanna put your head into marriage and then move to another country...... Okay I siddon dey look |
Re: Edited! by buJu234: 9:18am On Jun 06, 2013 |
if u love the US mama; then go ahead.. but if its cos of getting out of poverty... wat makes u feel that u will get a decent job over there? also u can still get out of poverty via marriage in Naija; jst b a smart guy; (1) there are many single good rich babes ( not aristos babes oo...) who are going from one pastor to bishop praying & fasting 100days for husband...; some work in very good companies like banks; Oil & gas; etc. (2) There are alot of rich men daughters who are searching for true love & marriage; and if u can get one of them; boy!!! ur family poverty curse has ended for life. but plz... hope u tooo re not a player nor scammer... if u re a very good man; with vision not lazy dude; most ladies know that these days the chances of a woman getting job is far brighter than that of her fellow man. 1 Like |
Re: Edited! by Nobody: 9:25am On Jun 06, 2013 |
So, what exactly is your PURPOSE for going into the marriage? Escaping poverty is not a reason for going into marriage, marriage goes far beyond that! Focus well and keep searching for job, if the woman didn't come into your life when she came in, you would still survive, won't you? If you go into this marriage because of this your reason: I believe it's to leave the country and search for greener pastures, I can assure you that marriage is gonna crash pretty soon. |
Re: Edited! by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jun 06, 2013 |
do what you have to do man. |
Re: Edited! by Nobody: 10:24pm On Jun 06, 2013 |
Raxxye: She's only saying it as it is, you better hear it. Your motives are quite clear. Your friends advised you to marry the woman, they know you. And you know yourself! If you can't make it here, that woman might just be your ticket to a better life (financially). But don't kid yourself, there will be consequences. Clearly you aren't contemplating marrying this divorcee because you're head over heels in love. |
Re: Edited! by MrsChima1(f): 12:50am On Jun 07, 2013 |
Raggedy_Ann: If I told everyone what they want to hear....I would be the most liked chatter on NL....I am not fake and can't pretend just to have chat friends. What you said was real and much respect to you. |
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