i expect that my wife tell me everything, instead of finding out myself.
een if the man is secretive, he is the man. it can never be changed.
So women, if u cherish ur home, endeavour to tell ur men the truth about ur past.

, Enugwu

i totally disagree with that , women shld not always tell their husband everything because they will use it agaist them somday.no way afterall the men dont say everything to us

@ eva_luv

In that case, whatever you kept away from your husband's knowledge, you better be sure it is not something that will kill the relationship when he finally finds out.

gReenmAn:

sistawoman, your "No Lies" understanding with your man is so idealistic I wonder if its practicable. Its good to tell what you're asked, but how about what you're not asked. For instance, if your hubby only met you last year as a chorister in the church choir and fell in love and proposed, would you poison the relationship by confessing to him that you were in the "escort" services in far away Italy so many years ago?

If it is idealistic to you than it is to you. But that is how i live my life.

I am 33 years old and he is in his 40's we have both lived full lives. Because we have both had our share of sin that has made us the people we are today we both understand that.

I have lived a life of no regrets, all but one, that i wished i had met him first before my ex-husband and before his ex-wife. So what I have done in my past is my past and is the woman that he loves today. so if i was an escort then that is what i was and i would be comfortable sharing that with him. That is something that could come back and bite me in the ass. and if he wants to leave or not marry me because of something i did when i did not know betta then so be it.

Love is not judging. If he loves me then he wont judge me or my past.

If you agree that your hubby is the lord in the house then he should not be left in the dark over any issue
tell it all
free your mind
if he loves u he will stand the shock however heavy it is
remember you are one so have one knowledge and understanding
No information can stand against itself

i don't agree a woman must tell her husband everything. because there are some stuff you know a woman would like to keep 'private' plz u people should use ur sense here o and beside would a man tell their wife or girlfriend everything-no i don't think so!

Actually depends on the nature of their relationship

If they re really that  close. .

Then they ve got nothing to hide from themselves

@TOPIC

NOOO!

if they are married i dont think
is a proper thing to keep a secret unless the man
is not fit to stand any motion

well,it takes two to tangle but it's best if the two partyies are open to each other.the woman should tell her husband everythin and anytin provided he is an understandin man cos communication is very important in marriage and should be a two way thing

Both men and women should tell their spouse everything. PERIOD!

if the husband is reasonable person.

If you no tell your husband everything, then be prepared to tell the devil the few you think its right to tell.

Why should you tell your husband everything?, please don't!, he will eventually meet his God ordained wife who will tell him everything and they will dump your sorry secretive arse and live happily ever after. And its very lovely when that his God ordained wife happens to be your best friend who you tell those "secrets" and she simply turns around and uses it to get her man (her man for life!!!)

ibrahim007:

if the husband is reasonable person.

Reasonable??
Maybe she can tell him almost everything

Treetop20:

some of you lot are chatting shit!
will you tell your wife that her mother is a wicked
and heartless human being? or will you tell her that
your ex moans better than she does? or are you going to
tell her that her stupid brother is a good for nothing Arrow! tell me will you?

If that is how he feels then I would rather him tell me then keep it to himself.

For me the worse thing my spouse could ever tell me is that they cheated and or had HIV. Everything else is just stuff.

why not, so far you loved him.

Not everytin

Busta:
Nope . . does ur husband tell u everything?
A lot of men are very resevered and very secretive.

i'd day no, she shld not tell him everything.
The fact that we are married don't mean we still ain't got our own different lives.

Never never never tell him everything he will use it against you one day talking from experience becos of that a stillsingle

For where? I. Will tell him 6/10