jamah:

i was wondering if there was something he knew about Leilah that i didnt.

Obviously I do. Most people understand my outburst as we are all familiar with Leilah's psychotic household, (see Uche's posts) so how about next time you ask WHY I said what I did instead of congratulating a jackass whose mother failed to teach him how to respect women.

Thanks.

4Her:

So Uche this is all I get? Nna nawa o

4her , why U just dey chnage ID like sey na U own NL  

This is all U get?  

@ L

No I no dey online. Need to go house before I fit log onto YIM. Lab policy  

Uche2nna:

4her , why You just dey chnage ID like sey na You own Nairaland

This is all You get?

Why can't you change yours to UcheRayo?


@post
Woman, you have issues jare!

@Raven
oh yea! i don forget sey u be labrat,
how bodi?

4Her:

Why can't you change yours to UcheRayo?


@post
Woman, you have issues jare!

Dont worry!!! I am two insults away from getting banned  

Uche2nna:

Dont worry!!! I am two insults away from getting banned

Who did you insult? Nna nawa o. . .the best way to get ban is to be gentle and follow the rules, like I did.

gentle ko. genital ni

Alagidi

lauryn:

@Raven
oh yea! i don forget sey u be labrat,
how bodi?

U dey MaDDDDDDDDDDDDDD    Wait make she catch U  
Yeah, I have been logging onto NL frequently these dayz. Little experiments to do for me these days cos I am still doing some required writing and reading. Nairaland no let me concentrate  
When U dey go Naija?

TOH:

gentle ko. genital ni

Alagidi

this coming from madam TOH, TheifOfHeart, D-realoaded, Dance-Reloaded, TOH2, TOH3, TOH4, TOH Part II

tin ba sepe fun e omode yii

Notice I never claimed being 'gentle" and i dont have many names, Oniro!

TOH:

tin ba sepe fun e omode yii

Notice I never claimed being 'gentle"

Oh yea. . .I noticed the "thief" on your other I.D, so whose heart you wan steal this time?

Uche2nna:

You dey crase

All because of you

4Her:

this coming from madam TOH, TheifOfHeart, D-realoaded, Dance-Reloaded, TOH2, TOH3, TOH4, TOH Part II

@ Raven
On tuesday, u wan come?

under no circumstances should my hubby be in a club whitout me, except ofcourse he is with his friends, or jst wants a time alone, but if he cheats on me i will know. and he is dead

acidrop:

under no circumstances should my hubby be in a club whitout me, except ofcourse he is with his friends, or jst wants a time alone, but if he cheats on me i will know. and he is dead

Dead as in?
so you'll want to spend your life in Jail just because of a man?

Plis stop calling me Raven , abeg    


Tuesday, hmmmmmmmm enjoy. When U coming back?


Abeg got to run. Abeg, Lauryn stay in touch. U go still dey on YIM for around 8 pm , my time  

acidrop:

under no circumstances should my hubby be in a club whitout me, except ofcourse he is with his friends, or jst wants a time alone, but if he cheats on me i will know. and he is dead

lol

acidrop:

under no circumstances should my hubby be in a club whitout me, except ofcourse he is with his friends, or jst wants a time alone, but if he cheats on me i will know. and he is dead

How would you know? . . . . .Via ur crystal ball ??

@ Raven
sharrap dia jor! I'm off to bed, it's almost 1.30am. sleep dey catch me, buzz me when u get home, later

4Her:

Dead as in?
so you'll want to spend your life in Jail just because of a man?

is it not when they catch u u go to jail? ehen we can do catch me if u can. . . . lol

®Th£ Sly®:

How would you know? . . . . .Via your crystal ball ??

nahh something even better

acidrop:

nahh something even better

Keep deceiving yourself dia. . . .

LMAO, I GUESS THERE ARE LOTS OF FRUSTRATED LADIES HERE

And you're one of the frustrated men abi?

TOH I get where you're coming from .
For those who are unfamiliar with Leilah,let me dig up some of her topics so that you'll see why people don't take her seriously at least on issues such as this.

This was Leilah July 2007 wanting a divorce

Hi can anyone help me. Due to irreconcilable differences I have to file for a divorce.  problem is I am Irish and I married my husband in Abuja he lives here also. How can I go about this I cannot even get a number for the marriage office in Abuja.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-63503.0.html#msg1256346

Leilah yet again started another thread about her husband pouncing on her

Have you ever been pounced on in the middle of your sleep this has always been going on for me and i always just allowed it. The other night I just flipped out and made it clear I was not denying him it. But to wake me up from my sleep and expect me to perform ladies what is the naija position on this

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=69550.msg1345248#msg1345248

leilah responding in another thread shortly after wanting a divorce

yes, I would. I am married to a very good man from Nigeria, we have one child. We went to Nigeria last year and it was very nice. It really opened my mind to a lot of things and thankfully gave me a more positive outlook. 

 

In august 2007 yet another thread.

Igbo Mens Appetite For Sex
« on: August 16, 2007, 02:10 AM » 

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hello, which tribe of men are known to have a stronger sexual appetite? is it really the igbos? are they more prone to cheat?

Then earlier this year Leilah opened another thread to discuss her aggressive husband

Hi all! my husband has hit me  a few times before for petty matters and I have indeed addressed the issue.  Tonight, I was very tired.  as usual he puts porn fiilms on and we watch them together. I have no problem with that and he is well aware of this.  However, just before the film started I asked him if his wife was Ngerian (lets say from enugu) would she be willing to take part in porn films wiht him (ie copy their movements) I clearly was aksing a quesiton, not malisiously though. Then, he jumped off the sofa and pushed me very hard ot the extent that I fell off the sofa and swore at me etc tec.  i then appologised continuosly by explaining that I was curious as to what naija ladies woudl feel about this. He told me I was a sick individual and rna off to bed, I folloed him and asked him to enjoy himself that I was sorry I didnt mean it in a bad way but h e called me an animal. can i have your opinions please. Thanks.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-109866.0.html#msg1912204

and this was the mother of all threads by our beloved Leilah.

Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« on: January 26, 2008, 04:28 AM » 

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i can't tak the pain of the above. My husband keeps forcing it. the pain is excruciating.  I'm afriad at the same time that I won't be able to make him happy.  this has been going on for a while now.  He tried it fully and I screamed in pain andmy baby daughter woke up.  I explained that its too painful that I can't handle it for quite some time now.  what shoudl I do and normally, in naija culture is this method of sexnormal? thanks 

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-108377.0.html#msg1889562

All this was just to say that it'll seem odd that Leilah would marvel that a woman remains with a clubbing man when her own man by her own words has treated her far worse.

Hmmmmmmmmm, poor oyinbo girl . shame u dont know nigerians are greatest judge, always judgemental and never

do wrong, infact their private lives are too perfect, whitter than snow and holier than thou. I just hope you learn from

this nairaland experience never to wash ur tongs and what not in public again. I hope and pray u find solutions to ur

predicaments. And , for future references, if you must ask for advise in forum like this make anonynimous your watch-word

Builder:

Hmmmmmmmmm, poor oyinbo girl . shame u don't know nigerians are greatest judge, always judgemental and never

do wrong, infact their private lives are too perfect, whitter than snow and holier than thou. I just hope you learn from

this nairaland experience never to wash your tongs and what not in public again. I hope and pray u find solutions to your

predicaments. And , for future references, if you must ask for advise in forum like this make anonynimous your watch-word

@builder, I think you should have read the post right before yours to have a broader perspective of the criticism from
Nigerians. There is some history involved here

@ sheniqua . You really have got tonnes of time in your hand ooh. The research on that poor girl can earn you a PhD if utilized appropriately

if my patner goes out all night, me too i go do my own, you do your own me i do my own, God no vex (that is my own philosophy). I love to go out a lot but i respect my patner enough not to go to certain places that will question my character and I expect the same too. Peace y'all

acidrop:

is it not when they catch u u go to jail? ehen we can do catch me if u can. . . . lol

nahh something even better

Wait till you get married darling.  You go tire to judge case in both your village and his village.  Shey you get that kain power and time abi?

Leilah (f)
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  Re: Husband In Nite Clubs/discos
« #10 on: Yesterday at 11:09:13 PM » 

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I just don't know why everyone on this forum hates me when I am trying to learn more about the culture. Obviously it is normal judging by the last poster

Nobody hates you Leilah,  this is a Nigerian website.  You should be used to certain things by now. Are you sure you are married to a Nigerian guy? Let me give you a piece of advice. If you come out on any Nigerian website, please be prepared to be attacked Just sharpen your cutlass and behead anyone that ventures to look in your direction. If you get banned for fighting just come back and continue the fight. That is how you deal with Nigerians. They tire easily and are cowards as soon as you show them you can fight too.

Toughen up lady and stop being such a wimp!


I say it is very normal for Nigerian men to abscond from home to night clubs without their wives.  When we lived in Lagos especially, it was customary for men and women to drive in separate cars to parties to meet there, interact when necessary and leave in separate cars.

When I lived in Nigeria also and even till now, you see that most Nigerian men took vacations without their wives and kids on numerous occasions.  To make room for concubines and girlfriends.  Most women usually go on vacations with their kids, WITH0UT THE HUSBANDS!!!


Very normal I say.  Nothing to lose sleep about at all. So relax and find your own "playmates" when he is not around! Period!!!

_{Who born monkey?}

mingiix:

@ sheniqua . You really have got tonnes of time in your hand ooh. The research on that poor girl can earn you a PhD if utilized appropriately

Yes ma!

hey

I don't know if someone has brought this up, but is the problem that he goes there once in a blue moon or that it is habitual? Because, every now and then we(humans) always want to hav fun or a little "me time", and if he just goes to a club wit his close friends then that shouldnt be much of a problem. the real problem is when it becomes a habit or what does anyone think?