OgBetty: Mine wz 2 painful.I fell in luv wit dz guy in 2010. We were so much in luv, he wz lyk a frnd, bruh, fada n hubby 2 me. @ a point he strtd tkin calz 4rm 1 gurl called Chioma, wen I asked him he wud tel me d gurl wz his course mate. I decided 2 go 2 his ouse 1 nyt, he wasn't @ home. I had 2 go check him up @ a joint wia we used 2 go 2geda, lol n behold he wz dia wit d Chioma. I left wit anger buh he came 2 ma hostel d nxt mornin 2 beg dt he dint av anytin wit d gurl. I belivd him n we continued. Wen I travelled home 4 Easter break everytin changed. He wud nt tk or return calz. I got bk 2 sch wit@ his knowledge n had 2 visit him, dia he wz wit d same gal, I cried all tru d nyt. I stpd calin him n he also did d same 4 2wks. I had 2 cal wen I wz misin him lyk crazy! He promise 2 kom 2 ma hostel n xplain tinz 2 me, I tot he wz komin 2 beg me, buh he came 2 tel me twas ova,I almost died. D most painful part wz dt, he told me dt he luvs d gurl more dan he eva luvd me, n d gurl called 2 tel me dt d guy told her we were jx frnds, wen I asked d guy wat he told d gurl, he said he told her I wz his helper. Itz up 2 4mnths nw since we brkup. Dt experience has taught me 2 play d game of luv wit ma HEAD n nt wit ma HEART

Cathaliya: Well, mine was love at first reading...

dated him for a week

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All i have to say is i really need to date a gal and have my first break Up. I am criusly craving for this.

Just wanna understand the feelings u all passed thru.

Cathaliya: All these "fell inlove and married my wife and the ex still remain unmarried" people, what are you trying to say nah?

bellychiz: I have still not gotten over mine its over 18months. Maybe its because I have not dated after the breakup, not a good experience sha.

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Just wanna understand the feelings u all passed thru.

Kingsley Jay:
Shattap ya dirty mouth!

I'm asking you to tell me about your first break-up n u r here talking on fantasies

Young po413:

I think thats the only PUNISHMENT for female heart-breakers.
Its just my opinion,

but I MAY BE WRONG.

firetrap:

I would not wish such a feeling on my worst enemy. I contemplated suicide on multiple occasions and almost carried it out. my friends never left me on the balcony alone for fear that I would jump, I didn't eat for a straight week and it took her her brothers girlfriend to come down to where I was serving to get me to eat something. I felt useless and unwanted and felt that no one could ever want me, I could not for the life of me define who I was without her and that was one of the things that scared me back to reality. please do not wish to experience it. its been close to 11 months since we broke up but I'm still not fully over her. we were together for 4 years.

Cathaliya:
Hian, which fantasy?
Really, that was my first heartbreak cus I really loved him...

Kingsley Jay:
Forget it
U r a lost cause

VICMIK: I FELL IN LOVE WITH THIS YOUNGER LADY THAT I MET AS A VIRGIN IN MY FINAL YEAR.I GOT A JOB AFTER MY YOUTH SERVICE.I DECIDED TO REKINDLE THE LOVE BTW US(DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE HAS BEEN DEFLOWERED,BY ANOTHER GUY THAT JILTED HER).IN FACT, I CONTRIBUTED IMMENSELY FINANCIALLY IN MAKING SURE SHE GRADUATED COS OF HER POOR FINANCIAL BACKGROUND.I STARTED TO NOTICE CHANGE IN HER BEHAVIOR WHEN SHE WENT FOR HER YOUTH SERVICE DESPITE THE FACT THAT I HAVE MET HER MOTHER(COS THE FACT IS LATE) AND EVEN TOLD HER TO FIX DATE FOR THE MARRIAGE INTRODUCTION.IN CONCLUSION,SHE TOLD ME POINT BLACK THAT SHE IS NO LONGER INTERESTED.I TRIED CONVINCING HER BUT SHE WAS ADAMANT AND MY FINDINGS REVEALED THAT SHE WAS SEEING ANOTHER MAN.HER MOTHER AND SIBLINGS PERSUADED HER TO HAVE A RE-THINK ALL TO NO AVAIL.IT HURTS ME SO MUCH BUT I WAS BRAVE AND COURAGEOUS ENOUGH TO OVER COME IT COS I HAVE FRIENDS THAT WERE THERE FOR ME.I MOVED ON WITH MY LIFE.WITHIN 6 MONTHS OF THE BREAK UP,I FELL IN LOVE AND MARRIED MY WIFE AND TODAY WE ARE BLESSED WITH THREE WONDERFUL KIDS.THIS LATER IS NOT YET MARRY AND I GUESS SHE IS 29-30 YRS OLD NOW AND NOT YET MARRIED.

Mynd_44:


Are you a bat?

raystanley: Mine is today.... I left her cause she is a serial pregnancy conceived girl... Virtually every month she is pregnant and she probably gets it most from outside... I either get called to send money for termination by her mother or I take her for termination or use ati -pregnancy or contraceptive pills on at end of every months... This is happens despite my precaution methods practised and observation taking before, and after each sex... I even went to the lenght of mapping out her periodic ovulation calender to avoid re- occurrence and yet all proved aborted. Am so sick and tired of this... I use to touch her few days she ends her menstruation which is within two weeks... And leave the other two weeks for her to take care of herself against her up coming ovulation...I made my findings and discovered she is so loose to men... she is so ease to get into sex with.... A little touches triggers her into sex... And she is always going to her private computer lesson in her tutor's house which has no time table could take her on or postponed her lessons so I see that as another peep hole ..
She is kind of addicted to sex but controls it a little... I end up spending whole lots of my time on her pregnancy issues...and have less time to think about my self and have no time to go about and solve my problems....

REALITY101: I used to be the one saying its over until karma hit me so hard few months ago ahitt ain't funny mehn (earlier this year) I didn't see it coming. I'm pretty sure those females I dumped in the past some via voicemail, voice-note and text experienced worst than myself during the breakups cuz it sure sucks especially those that I didn't give a reason for the breakup.

I didn't cry but I wish I did instead of eating up my inner flesh lol. Even though I had a multiple FWD/RDS it still hurt and I still felt empty and lonely. Then I rather spend my lonely time with a bottle of Ciroc, vodka or any kind of liquor than getting punnny. I didn't tell my friends cuz they'd think I'm kidding, I couldn't tell my mom for 2 reasons #1. because she will be more heartbroken than I am lol #2. I thought I was gonna fix it.

But one thing I didn't do is to beg her to come back or to be with me "NO WAY" I tried to work things out but she seems to be more on undecided side so I had respect her selfish decision.

But the one thing that hurt me so much"then" was she returning all the major gifts that I gave to her during anniversaries..jewelries, gadgets and the car which she loved the most "childish huh" maybe not.

Through it all, I realized that we were two different people in all aspect of life from culture to social personality.

My regret! Getting my family involved into the relationship.. They love too much especially my mom... That babe is sweet.. I mean my mom

Self lesson! I was kinda of dbag sometimes in the relationship, said a few mean things to her which I wish I never did, not because I wished she was still with me rather because It ain't just right no matter what. At least I know better now "hopefully"

Bottom line is, I am happy and I guess she is as well.

I still wish I ended it myself

Cathaliya:
That went straight to my heart .....ouch, it hurts.

Young po413:

18 months?wow quite a long time,but ........

Cathaliya: Mine happened just 2 days ago...
At least when the break up occurs, the chief breaker will encourage the breakee with some words like, ''dont worry, its gonna be alright'' and all that.
But in my case, this culprit just went to sleep.......in the middle of the breakup sef..

Jesus, who does that?


Anyways, have sulked on it and have bounced back.

MORAL LESSON:
Whenever you tell a guy that you love him, and he replies with, ''I like you because you write deep''....hmm, hmmm, hmmm, run faster than(wetin be that im name sef), ehe, Usalaka Bolt...

davades:

Awwwww upon all this nonsense u wrote, nobody con like ur post.....o ma se o

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Just wanna understand the feelings u all passed thru.

Jekyll & Hyde:


Whoever believes this, suppose chow slap.

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All i have to say is i really need to date a gal and have my first break Up. I am criusly craving for this.

Just wanna understand the feelings u all passed thru.