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Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Essential824: My breakup was a painful one but i learnt alot from d whole tin. We dated for 4yrs before he started his sister's pastor excuses. Even wit d experience i wil never generalize guys based on dat |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by zanebaddo(m): 11:07pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
flexejimakor: I wont lie i hate this post cos mine just happened of recent.Is quite painful.her memories on my head,she was all i can imagine,i can just stay for long without thinking about her.same reason she gave i did nothing to her but she has to move on after all the promises and wishes even her begging me not to break her heart.Is a terrible experience for me up till now is just like a drama as if nothing happened.I really do love her but i Left her with this words.The worst is that you guys have to see her speak to me so carelessly and telling me isnt is obvious to me that she doesnt want me in her life anymore,when somebody talks to you in a manner as if you are just her maid servant how will u feel for no reason at all but to frustrate you out,I wont lie i catch more than grenade for her.this was the last text i sent to her it goes like this:I love u&my drm for u is supreme,u dnt knw hw i feel bt I would lik2thank u4all of d times u liedwat Eva u re goin tru nw or ve gon tru I underwent worse lyk 3tymz more!! 1 Like |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by zeb04(f): 11:09pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
@mucussey we r ladies nd we do tins jst cz we r angry at the moment, we expect u beg at least a litl anyways I wil neva do d breakin up again cz I see I always want d guy bck |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by oyedun82(m): 11:12pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
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Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Mynd44: 11:18pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
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Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by oyedun82(m): 11:26pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Mynd_44:d mods just corrected d error. Av been searching 4 it since. Mods keh? |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by signalpower: 11:30pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
In ABBA voice breaking up is never easy at all, but i have to go, loving you, loving me is the best i can do. Guys the rules to apply so you dont get kicked in the ass dont allow her beauty get to you dont talk much and try to reason with you head and make her see that you have many ways of doing things always accuse her try to hide your happiness or smiles sometime but some ladies heart are hardened , they don't just care 1 Like |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Youngpo413: 11:30pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Kcinho: exactly my thought. |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Mynd44: 11:31pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
oyedun82: d mods just corrected d error. Av been searching 4 it since. Mods keh?go see an optician dude. **unfollows** |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by oluamid(m): 11:34pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Nna mehn! This thread is one classic Thrills and Boom Novel. *adjusts glasses and continues reading* 1 Like |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by johnstin(m): 11:53pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
I shouldn't really comment because I haven't had any heartbreak experience in my close to thirty years of existence in this world. Being a regular guy that dated quite extensively in my active days, u might say I've been lucky. Well, u may be right. Or wrong. But this has been my strategy: once I love a girl, I always confirm beyond any reasonable doubt she loves me back before asking her out. This is how I went about it; I would first make friends with her, then give her hints of my affection for her and assess her reaction. Once she doesn't evince any signs she loves me, I abort the mission abruptly, no matter how much I love her. For girls I don't love, I ask them out without d due process and assess their disposition towards me on a steady basis. Immediately I sense withdrawal symptoms, I don't hesitate to pull out. My general advice for both sexes is that we should always try to confirm the other party reciprocates our love before commiting ourselves. This will nip many heartbreaks in the bud. One-side love is a recipe for inevitable heartbreak. Actually, I programmed myself not to fall helplessly in love with any lady and was succeding till I met my wifey. Although I applied d strategy of ensuring she had strong feelings for me before commiting myself, I found myself breaking most of the relationship rules I had been abiding with in subsequent relationships. That's love for u. I found myself tolerating somethings I never tolerated from d women I dated previously. But I never lost my senses. I loved and still love her with all my heart but I still assess her reciprocal love on a steady basis. I love her as much as any man can love a woman but I still flirt with d idea that nobody is indispensable at the back of my mind. I hope she doesn't read this 2 Likes |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Tushnigerian(f): 11:57pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Till I meet d right person |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Damayor12(m): 12:00am On Sep 20, 2013 |
How many likes for this REAL pic?! 7 Likes
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Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by MORNDEW(m): 12:09am On Sep 20, 2013 |
Am curently goin tru hrtbreak its like my world has ended she was like a mother to me nd made me feel special 4 complete 2 years and evn as i dnt hv money dat som ppl envy me bt one day she left without reasons am stil tryin to find out y bt my tears is too much. |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Youngpo413: 12:12am On Sep 20, 2013 |
zeb04: Jst read so many touching stories.y'all shld b careful wit wat u do 2 pple's hrt. Used 2 ve one roomate bck in uni dis babe was always layin curses on d men who dump her arnd midnite she wil go outside nakd 2 pray nd curse,I dnt unstnd oh bt everyone nids 2 b careful anyway jst sayin tho What about the people she used to dump back then? |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Youngpo413: 12:16am On Sep 20, 2013 |
pasqal09: The whole tin started right after I graduated. She just got distant, I even had to travel to lagos and tried so hard to see her for one month but she kept sayin she didn't have time. I found out that she got herself a new guy, she even sent my a text to keep off. After NYSC, I got a job, she hrd and started creeping back, I told her to KEEP OFF!! short and sharp,I like that. |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by AMvanquish: 12:24am On Sep 20, 2013 |
Well, was still in Uni den, been dating her fo close 2 three yrs! Damn, it was lovely.even tho it was a distance r/ship, made tym to travel go cee her in skool. Tot of even marriage. Then I graduated, was posted to Lag fo NYSC. We were pulled farther apart n dats wen d issues started. We had 1 big quarrel but eventually made up afta a few days. But it was neva d same. Even with d credit I used to burn every day to reduce d distance, dint help! She called it off witout giving a reason. Telling me just lyk dat. Oboy! I was messed up n devasted fo lyk 3 months. Cudnt concentrate @ work, eating was an issue, sleepless nyts! Luv sucks. I recovered and promised myself no woman wud ever put me thru such again. I am now married to my career! Now I own ma crib n 2 cars, have a fantastic Paying Job dat takes me places. D gals r flocking and I no even send dem. FM thanks for letting go! I'm much better n I hustle hard n d stars is my limit. Guys! Get paid & Women wud neva b a problem. |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by sofadj(m): 12:45am On Sep 20, 2013 |
If you've ever been loved, deem yourself to have been lucky. I don't think everyone gets that lucky. Not me in the least |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by bolagabriella: 12:55am On Sep 20, 2013 |
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Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by girlkell(f): 1:10am On Sep 20, 2013 |
Sophiatabitha: Choi. I always do the breaking up. Bad experiences in my early life made me hardhearted. Never been in lv wont start now. My bf'ses always complain ''U aint consistent'' wtf. I dnt care.. I dig ur style buh if ur like this,wats the need 4 dating |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by uromicom: 1:11am On Sep 20, 2013 |
see all of una self .............. for the guyz why una go dey get one girl friend ........ and for the girls why una dey get one boyfriend.................... even motor get spare tire |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by mandy4s: 1:46am On Sep 20, 2013 |
ogugua88: The only time I had such an experience was when my first ex broke up with me. I was young and "head over heels" if you will. He broke up with me simply because he could, leaving me distraught. It felt like my world ended... literally. I was in my room for days, thinking the worst of myself. Actually telling myself, "you're this"... "you're that". Sometimes I'd be driving to work or school and I'd start crying right there in the car. Or I'd be in my room doing homework or listening to music and I'd be stricken with sorrow, and tears would flow again.ooohhhh what a touching story*sobbing* [nollywood lines] |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by trolling(m): 2:04am On Sep 20, 2013 |
what you guys call love is called inordinate affection which is sensual and devilish,its emotional bondage...same love that gat Samson weak and killed,same love that killed king solomon,same love that.......bummer....this "love" kills emotionally and spiritually |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Mayflowa(m): 2:23am On Sep 20, 2013 |
Kingsley Jay: I was dating this girl during my final year in skul, the lady is d first girl in her family and she was being pressured by her mom 2get married 2 d point that I promised her to gimme just 2years so I cud marry her Why hurt just so you got back on her? Some people needs second chance and would neer make same mistake because they are wiser for it |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Damayor12(m): 2:26am On Sep 20, 2013 |
Front Page! \(ˆ⌣ˆ)/ |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by NIKKnJAZZ(f): 2:27am On Sep 20, 2013 |
el-patch: It is well |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by NIKKnJAZZ(f): 2:37am On Sep 20, 2013 |
REALITY101: I used to be the one saying its over until karma hit me so hard few months ago ahitt ain't funny mehn (earlier this year) I didn't see it coming. I'm pretty sure those females I dumped in the past some via voicemail, voice-note and text experienced worst than myself during the breakups cuz it sure sucks especially those that I didn't give a reason for the breakup. I laughed in the beginning, and then midway I felt sad, and then I laughed @ "I still wish I ended it myself". Tsk tsk tsk...you'll be alright. |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 3:37am On Sep 20, 2013 |
[color=#006600][/color]na wa o Maybe ds na deja vu. Cos my break up experience is stil on going. You can imagine my shock droppn into NL as always to get a break nd jamming ds one for front page. Kai ds babe's officially in my head. My story long but wil try to make it short for everyone's good. @24, I've had my fair share of women but loved just one. That I transformd from a chronic womanizer to a one woman guy is all thanks to her. Having begun d rlship in final year in sch, I had begun to piece her into general plans for d future. I was in cloud 9 sure did feel blessed more than Obama @one point. But life been what it is had other plans. Service year came nd d miracles startd manifestn. having been mobilzd 2 batchs ahead of her meant I'd round up earlier than her. To her credit though she did try to keep in touch nd even workd her service to d same state where I served. She began complaining I wasn't giving her attention after I passed out nd returnd to my state. But how could I be constantly in touch I was always shuttln PH-Lag frequently attendn one job interview or d other. In summary my own babe who thot me I could stay faithful for almost 3yrs had startd a parallel rlshp nd dat went on for more for than 3months b4 I used some unorthodox means to find out. My ppl there's a lot of grace in not knowing. We're both devasted I got to know of this as she clearly didn't anticipate I'd ever find out. As I write ds there is enof hurt to drown d whole 9ja but has been exclusively reserved for d both of us to enjoy. The man in me gave way nd I cried for a whole day She has shown very heart touchn remorse even delegatn friends to interceed on her behalf but I her actions widened d fault lines so much dat reconcilliation is now a fallacy. Don't see myself dating ever again cos if oge cud fail on a large scale lyk ds then there' nothing out there for me All enrgies r now directed towards my job nd charity Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Gracious10: 3:43am On Sep 20, 2013 |
Kris d don.: Lmao@people accusing him of being gay bc e no marry....lol..lol |
Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by debola23(f): 4:45am On Sep 20, 2013 |
Sure I've had many break ups. But the most painful one was with a guy i met through my cousin. Shecame to lag for the first time and wanted me to help her trace her bf who was already working in lag. The bf had a house mate who later became the guy that i dated. We were so much in sync and couldn't wait for weekends to see each other. Then we realised we had to break up amicably cos of religious differences. It was the most painful thing to ever happen to both of us. And That's what made me hate Nelly Furtados all gud things come to an end because it was the song playing on the stereo while he drove me home quietly. I cried all night and day and wouldn't eat. Everything reminded me of him. To cut long story short. He knocked on my door few months later and told me he couldn't live without me. We came back together. We got married four years ago. We have a daughter and numbertwo on the way. We respect each others religion and support each other at all times. Life couldn't have been sweeter for us. Religion is too over rated in Naija Abeg. Live your life and love it. We all serve one God 18 Likes |
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