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| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by 190: 8:10pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
baffylander: Went to law school and by the time i returned, she was already [size=28pt]straffing one small university boy just cos he drove a mercedes benz 190.[/size]..i carefully and painstakingly planned my revenge and mended fences...broke up with the monkey a day to my wedding while inviting her to same....heard she didnt eat for 3 days..(like say e concern me) abeg no time for nonsense  |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by ollyboy900(m): 8:30pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
angelseddy: The only person I felt bad parting from was my 1st bf. We were so into each other and it was just altruistic then one day he cheated on me and kinda got hooked wit d gal. I felt betrayed n broke up with him though he kept begging. The thg is dis; I felt pain then but more pain now cuz I had somfin good back then n till now I haven't found a man as good as he was. Sometimes I feel regret but again, how does one cope wit a cheat!Eeeya,this is really touching. I hope you are happy now! Or can u connect wid me? |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by emmanok24(m): 8:40pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Hmmmm........ Where do I start? I've had loads of trying+crying times when it comes to breakups, but the most painful was with my first girlfriend as a matured guy *still young though*  ........ She had another fine boy behind my back that was gently servicing her machine! *painful*!!! I still love her shaaaa but she told me bluntly that she ain't feeling me anymore, I cried for days and f***cked a chick some weeks later! #SinglewillMing  le |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Midastorch(m): 8:46pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
It happened in 2010,went to do my IT in Lagos so I had to stay with my grandpa in Mafoluku,...the First tym I Saw this girl,I was lyk this is the girl,tho I used to have another girl I met via glo chat(don't know if it still exists)..went straight to her and introduced myself we got talking and we became kinda close buh not "DATING"....as the friendship grows the love begins to wax stronger by the day,I knew it but she was still forming she had a boyfriend...lyk 6 months later her younger brother celebrated his birthday and her very close cousin came around...the first thing she did was to introduce me to her cousin so we all got talking,,,,there's another girl on the street. Who likes me buh I' wasjust with on a platonic level .she got to see us together one day just talking (It was ramadam period)and she just went insyd and began to cry..it was the cousin that later called me that "Sheri is crying that she thinks she loves me..so I called her and she said Yes........that was 24th august 2010..we got dating and it was so awesome that the only place we don't go together is when she wants to go to toilet and bathroom......even her mum got fond of me buh she refused to tell her what was btw us..I go t bank for her and withdraw money with her ATM card...her family is just an awesome one. Wn she got admissio to FEDPOFFA,which is not far frm where my mumci stays,so I took her home and my mum fell in love with her immediately...tho she was not too ok with the religion cos she's a muslim...and I was ready to fight with my last blood....November last year,I went for NYSC and wn I came home she said she told her mum abt her bf and that he's a christian,According to her,the mumcie got angry with her and she's noh ready to disobey her parent to leave me..she actually told me on phone,went to her school maybe she'll change her mind,she just remained adamant... I cried my eyes out. That day...still have not been able to love again,the last one I had didn't last 3 months.... 1 Like |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by indoorlove(m): 8:56pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
flexejimakor: I wont lie i hate this post cos mine just happened of recent.Is quite painful.her memories on my head,she was all i can imagine,i can just stay for long without thinking about her.same reason she gave i did nothing to her but she has to move on after all the promises and wishes even her begging me not to break her heart.Is a terrible experience for me up till now is just like a drama as if nothing happened.I really do love her but i Left her with this words.The worst is that you guys have to see her speak to me so carelessly and telling me isnt is obvious to me that she doesnt want me in her life anymore,when somebody talks to you in a manner as if you are just her maid servant how will u feel for no reason at all but to frustrate you out,I wont lie i catch more than grenade for her.this was the last text i sent to her it goes like this:I love u&my drm for u is supreme,u dnt knw hw i feel bt I would lik2thank u4all of d times u liedI just feel touched by this outpouring of emotion. It well, time heals all wounds |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Treasure103(f): 9:01pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
No need to narrate my ordeal. Long story but I ve bounced back. Ha! My own will touch every heart even that of a hardened criminal but I ve long handed over my life to Jesus christ. It takes d grace of God to find a REAL man in naija talk of this Abuja but Oluwa is involved;I will get there soon. 2 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by tucee31: 9:02pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
yuzedo: My story is many.. Like seriously?  |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by firetrap(m): 9:13pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Treasure103: No need to narrate my ordeal. Long story but I ve bounced back. Ha! My own will touch every heart even that of a hardened criminal but I ve long handed over my life to Jesus christ. It takes d grace of God to find a REAL man in naija talk of this Abuja but Oluwa is involved;I will get there soon. babes, nobody own we no go touch criminal because we all invested time, money and most of all emotions. things like these leaves people scarred for life |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Midastorch: It happened in 2010,went to do my IT in Lagos so I had to stay with my grandpa in Mafoluku,...the First tym I Saw this girl,I was lyk this is the girl,tho I used to have another girl I met via glo chat(don't know if it still exists)..went straight to her and introduced myself we got talking and we became kinda close buh not "DATING"....as the friendship grows the love begins to wax stronger by the day,I knew it but she was still forming she had a boyfriend...lyk 6 months later her younger brother celebrated his birthday and her very close cousin came around...the first thing she did was to introduce me to her cousin so we all got talking,,,,there's another girl on the street. Who likes me buh I' wasjust with on a platonic level .she got to see us together one day just talking (It was ramadam period)and she just went insyd and began to cry..it was the cousin that later called me that "Sheri is crying that she thinks she loves me..so I called her and she said Yes........that was 24th august 2010..we got dating and it was so awesome that the only place we don't go together is when she wants to go to toilet and bathroom......even her mum got fond of me buh she refused to tell her what was btw us..I go t bank for her and withdraw money with her ATM card...her family is just an awesome one. Wn she got admissio to FEDPOFFA,which is not far frm where my mumci stays,so I took her home and my mum fell in love with her immediately...tho she was not too ok with the religion cos she's a muslim...and I was ready to fight with my last blood....November last year,I went for NYSC and wn I came home she said she told her mum abt her bf and that he's a christian,According to her,the mumcie got angry with her and she's noh ready to disobey her parent to leave me..she actually told me on phone,went to her school maybe she'll change her mind,she just remained adamant... I cried my eyes out. That day...still have not been able to love again,the last one I had didn't last 3 months.... Damn bro! One of the reasons I hate religion... |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by baggy4luv(m): 9:18pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
ricky alphonsus: ok, here's hw my story goes...seriously I use 2 tink dere was actualy nofin lik luv until it hit me. I hv been dating dis girl for 4 years nw n tailking hw it feels breaking up wif sm1 u luv in my own case is like a rethorical question. (guys no vex o) bt dis gal has has made me hv dat feeling more dan a hundred times n 4 a guy of my calibre n expierience in r/shps it realy bafles me n prompts me 2 acknowledge d fact dat true luv is smtin entoxicatin n prety hard 2 disengage wen adicted. Wat am i talkin abt? I hv on 2 f**kn ocations caught her red handed cheatin on me n i mean actualy havin sex wif sm oda guy i hv been hvn a hunge she's flirtin wif n of which she also came up plain n confes she did. Bt after my findings, n eforts 2 terminate d r/ship she jst won't let me go no mata hw hrd i try, bt d funiest prt is dat i dn't even wana let go even after brkn my hrt. Dn't get me wrng guys, am nt a fool, dis is lik my (dn't wana say hw many sha bt believe me am no learner)bt rt nw d only gal in my life n probably d only gal i'd eva luvd. D odas neva got in2 my hrt as i neva even bothered if they were cheatin or nt, it was jst sex n more sex, infact i was a grnd player bk den until i was arested by luv. Dere's ntn humanly posible 2 d best of my abilities i hvn't dn 4 d her, name it... yes even dat tin ur tinkin i did. I wnt 2 end it, she's has realy made me cry lik a baby on several ocasions n i wnt no more of dis bt she won't let dat hapen, she jst won't leave me(dn't get it twisted, i dn't eve own a car, am jst a graduate stil lookn 4 a job). In as much as i luv her even wif al she's doing n d fact she won't let go of me, i tink she dosn't deserve me, wat do i do?an angel is chuking ur sword u dey call am angel gabriel.u nid an history of madness to date somegirls. |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Chrisjane(f): 9:27pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
yuzedo: My story is many..Oncle, pliz tel us ur storey. Tenk |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by MissOpe(f): 9:32pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Unluvable*: |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
seun osewa should share his own experience ohhh.....u suppose don marry self mine.....dont wanna talk abt it.....i nearly wnet psycho...i even cursed her,that she wld 4eva remain barren,but i av learn to 4give in other 4 God to forgive me.....but irrespective of that.....true love exist......i still believe in true love and wld find it...#be patient# N:B....wat baffles me most is that....when i interview them...they say i av no single fault on my side.... |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by stephnie44(f): 9:38pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
It hurts xo much expecially wen u don't have any 2 replace him.I'm still hurt even wen I know he left me 4 a rich white woman.hopin 2 get a true luv soon |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Sike(m): 9:42pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
yuzedo: My story is many..AMEMM! |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
A long, long time time ago...In a galaxy, far, far away  This used to be the favourite song on my ipod:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgpgkI3eMxM I was fvcking gutted . It's a part of the process. Get with the program guys. Got really angry and went on a rampage pillaging poosie ....but the answer was not in the 'conquests'.In all, one of the best things that ever happened to me. Pushed me to get good with girls, love & accept my self 100% and really self develop in several different ways. Most importantly, it helps you see 'all that you're not'. 1 Like |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Hajiabarbie: 9:45pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
I ve bin tru a lot myself... I ve bin into like 4 relationships but it didn't work coz I didn't want to ve sex now.. am a very pretty gal with a good hrt DAT also fears Allah, I care 2 much abt people but at d end of d day, I always end up hrt broken.. my last bf was a asshole and I wish we NVR met coz he showed me he understood me but he was fucking lying... I cry every night for d past 5yrs, I Dnt share my problems with people DAT know me.. am glad d group exist.. a new member!  :'4 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by zeb04(f): 9:48pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Jst read so many touching stories.y'all shld b careful wit wat u do 2 pple's hrt. Used 2 ve one roomate bck in uni dis babe was always layin curses on d men who dump her arnd midnite she wil go outside nakd 2 pray nd curse,I dnt unstnd oh bt everyone nids 2 b careful anyway jst sayin tho 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Youngpo413: 9:48pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Handsomeemmy: very true! ....but I always keep wondering why it happens like that. |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by remsonik(f): 9:54pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
| Mine was my first boyfriend,we met on the queue when I just got admission into uni trying to do registration. We were both young then though but I enjoyed every part of the relationship,he plays ball then and I do watch him play and we play games together.Along the line we both discovered we were both AS and I broke up with him. He wants me back till now though and we both are doing well for ourselves.I dated 4 guys after that but none was blissful as that relationship. He's hoping for a miracle |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Porthable(m): 9:58pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
i think m just having mine nw.  |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Porthable(m): 10:01pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Young po413:i dont knw bro. |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by justplainpaul(m): 10:07pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
GSKing:The world will be a better place when you`re thrown in jail for 14yrs. |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by KateSpade(f): 10:18pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Didn't eat for a few days, stayed in bed. Didn't cry that much. I knew I made the right decision, it was just hard adjusting |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Sophiatabitha(f): 10:20pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Choi. I always do the breaking up. Bad experiences in my early life made me hardhearted. Never been in lv wont start now. My bf'ses always complain ''U aint consistent'' wtf. I dnt care. |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by mecussey(m): 10:20pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
zeb04: I broke up wit him, I felt really bad nd cried,iwantd him 2 beg, he didn't,I cried again nd againend of story. Now, this is my situation. You broke up with him and wanted him to beg, is he stupid? She also broke up with me and wanted me to beg but I never did, are my stupid? 1 Like |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Essential824(f): 10:47pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
My breakup was a painful one but i learnt alot from d whole tin. We dated for 4yrs before he started his sister's pastor excuses. Even wit d experience i wil never generalize guys based on dat |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
temiosunrinde: He sed he went to pray and the pastor sed we r not compatible! In 21st century.Bursted!!!unless you are a gay... |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by pasqal09: 11:04pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
The whole tin started right after I graduated. She just got distant, I even had to travel to lagos and tried so hard to see her for one month but she kept sayin she didn't have time. I found out that she got herself a new guy, she even sent my a text to keep off. After NYSC, I got a job, she hrd and started creeping back, I told her to KEEP OFF!! |
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