Simply make hër pregnant ǻn̶̲̥̅̊ԃ when ¥ou know she can't abort it you tell hër the truth.

Jarus: Sooner than later, she will know numbers 2 and 3. 1 and 4 can be covered forever.

Don't count on 4 being covered forever, one day someone the guy scammed may knock on their door. Like if I track down the abomination who scammed me with fake dollars and ran to know to get married

obadiah777: she knows who he is. she sees him everyday. if she cant fall in love with that then she is not after who he is but what he is. what he is hiding from her is not who he is but what he is. big difference. women are usually after what you are and not who you are so you have to lie about what you are so they can get to find out who you are. its all a game for those who are bothered to play it. but dont blame the man for playing a game the woman created

True talk, i couldn't agree with you more, apart from were you said it's a game. The fact that most people indulge in such shouldn't be a reason to play with someone's heart.
Basically you are saying that because people LIE, that should be the sole reason why more people should do such.
what happened to Being the Change you want to see? or Standing Out.
The guy in question, decided not to reveal the truth even till she became his fiancée, now that's just plain WICKEDNESS.
Other than that, i totally agree with what you wrote, especially the part about women 'loving you for what you are, not who you are' that's just the sad part of reality.

oshocall: guy sharp up no just confess to her patern am 4 her u fit tell am say dem slash una salary 4 work and u r looking 4 another job presently tell am say u no fit renew ur house rent cos of the salary slash so u r reason to go ur to ur parent place 4 the House issue tell am say dem dey drag the land with u and u 2 young 2 die so u don abadorn am.all this gurls no nid truth use ur brain guy as a sharp man.

Baatd guy..lol

Moral: Never lie to win Hearts.

Yield:
He got 18 likes? Smh. I'm sure his post was liked by all the men.

You shouldn't be surprised, there are more male handles on nl than female ones. Even a post as short as "all women are whores" can get 50likes in 10mins. Just do a random check on the viewing board of most threads (especially the ones that involve belittling women)...na so so (m) you go dey see...

Isn't it interesting to read most of them take this lightly and conclude women like being lied to thereby justifying his lies? Let a female create a thread about the lies she's been hiding from her fiancee and you'd see heap of insults and curses on her person.

I have learnt to stop taking the mumu ones seriously because half of them are not sane and the remaining half only rely on the internet to feel good about themselves.


Op, I hope this woman has more than enough secrets in store for you too..

Sike: Moral: Never lie to win Hearts.

The only way 2 win 9ja gal heart is by lying

Much as i hate telling lies,i think it serves Nigerian girls right when they get duped by the likes of Op. Our babes prefer to be told what they want to hear.

Chanchit: You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger, but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.

Chanchit: You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger, but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.

Chanchit: You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger, but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.

Where if do such a thing, u can never gain her truth again in life despite u mayb married. Always know that marriage is all about TRUST

if you can tell us, why not tell her

GoodFaith:

Dude, Do you think she want a college drop out?
One of the things you need to do is get back in school ASAP
Before you tell her

ASUU tins ooo.

@Op infact,u still dey lie 4us abi?

just knock her up fast fast.....


then tell her the truth and tell her she can go...


she will hate you for a while then call you back again..


but all the while keep acting like you really wanna let her go cos of the past......


you guys will finally reach a compromise........the one beneficial to u


its called...negotiating while advancing


the truth is too fragile and has to be escorted by a bodyguard of lies....
but u used a whole platoon

Yield:
He got 18 likes? I'm sure his post was liked by all the guys, smh.

Who else would have liked it if not guys? Oh, and when I checked again just now it had risen to 37 likes.
Nothing in heaven or hell will make me marry a Nigerian man.
Bunch of sexist lying psychopaths.

@ Op, check my signature coz it has been there for ppl like U... Na white lies I dey lie bcoz I dey always tell her d truth very soon, but ur own lies na black lies ( lies difficult to reveal d truth).

StateOfMind:

You shouldn't be surprised, there are more male handles on nl than female ones. Even a post as short as "all women are whores" can get 50likes in 10mins. Just do a random check on the viewing board of most threads (especially the ones that involve belittling women)...na so so (m) you go dey see...

Isn't it interesting to read most of them take this lightly and conclude women like being lied to thereby justifying his lies? Let a female create a thread about the lies she's been hiding from her fiancee and you'd see heap of insults and curses on her person.

I have learnt to stop taking the mumu ones seriously because half of them are not sane and the remaining half only rely on the internet to feel good about themselves.

That's the way an average Nigerian man thinks. It's really not a Nairaland thing.

obadiah777: she knows who he is. she sees him everyday. if she cant fall in love with that then she is not after who he is but what he is. what he is hiding from her is not who he is but what he is. big difference. women are usually after what you are and not who you are so you have to lie about what you are so they can get to find out who you are. its all a game for those who are bothered to play it. but dont blame the man for playing a game the woman created

BullsEyE!!!! Ignore this advice at your peril

JVLI: You know, you don't win heart's love through lies. She will find out sooner or later. The truth will find itself out of the bag you keep it. I'l advice you to do this, on the day you will tell her, make sure nobody is with you. Prostrate to tell her the truth, sincerely and ask for her forgiveness. She will forgive you. And if she doesn't, allow her to heal. It hurts you know, when the one you truly love betrays you through lies. And if she decides to break the relationship permanently, LET HER GO! Better women will come along. You've learnt your lesson. You 2 change and ask for God's forgiveness. He hates a lying tongue.You can't force the hands of love. Shalo

My dear 9ja gals no knw dat 1 Ooooooo coz all they knw Is 2 lie 4 dem nd make dem Happy coz all they want is d tins of dis World bcoz if we don't have dat or if we do not lie they will not Love US so we do wat we can nd get wat we want just lie U gals Money 4 hand Back 4------------------ U can complate dat!

naijathings: i have never lied to get a girl's/woman attention
i have never lied to furck
i have never made a stupid promise to a girl/woman
i have a beautiful girl, omo pastor for that matter. but she knows i handle my business and she can catch me where the bad guys are sittin and drinking and **** and i never have to pretend, i dont have to worry about her finding out anything cos she already knows say i no be holy holy.
see bro, if you cant come out and tell show your girl how it goes then you are not yet a man.
me ... i keep it 100 with my girl, she is always free to take a walk if she can't deal with it. NO LIE. TRUE

Guy na We We d hear Ooooooo so no jst try Lie 4 us!

fellis:

Who else would have liked it if not guys? Oh, and when I checked again just now it had risen to 37 likes.
Nothing in heaven or hell will make me marry a Nigerian man.
Bunch of sexist lying psychopaths.

Simple question for u dear: Can u handle the truth?

Dre19: in a day or two i will reveal to my fiancee things only me and my God knows. things like
1. i earn less than half of her salary
2. i lied to her that i am currently building a house while i still stay with my parents
3. i am a drop out from a university
4. i did dubious things in the past to earn money that i used to make her happy

Nairalanders, do you think it is wise for me to reveal all this secrets to her? do you think she will still love me for who i am?

The part where you say you did dubious things in the past to get money to make her happy.
my question is this why does a lady not find out the source of a mans money first because ladies nowadays only care about just enjoying money without caring where it comes from so do i pity the lady i dont know what to say.
i am sure that if the guy did not flash money the the lady may not even take a second look at him.
Any way what i dint get is why a man has to do dubious things to get money to win a womans love,i mean it only brings pressure and stress on you in the long run as she will expect you to keep up the tempo.
that is the last thing i will do by putting myself in unneccessary pressure like this that could haunt me later.
if you had been honest from the onset and she accepted you then then better but to tell her the truth now, i have to say you better brace your self for the worst as it could go either way.
if she accepts you great if not then accept it and move on.

let me help you out dear

1. You need to add some emotions. just maybe when you guys are together, or quiet, just let tears run down ur cheek and let her notice it
2. dont tell her, keep her on suspense and always ask what you will do that she wont be able to forgive u
3. prepare her mind
4. then one day, tell her everything
start with, your conscience bla bla bla, that you so love her it hurts you that you have to lie to her everyday.
that you cannot hold it anymore, you just feel sad inside
when done telling her how you messed up
tell her you are happy now and u feel light

This is a sign youve got a good heart afterall.
A woman who is truly in love with you and not what you can offer will forgive you, though expect initial gragra.
if she does not forgive ur as5, then let her go, she doesn't love u in the first place anyways.

Before you tell her ensure that there is no knife, bottle, glass,pistle, acid or anything that can be used to break ur head or cause ur untimely demise in the vicinity. Fail to heed this advice at your own peril. You can thank me later.

StateOfMind:

You shouldn't be surprised, there are more male handles on nl than female ones. Even a post as short as "all women are whores" can get 50likes in 10mins. Just do a random check on the viewing board of most threads (especially the ones that involve belittling women)...na so so (m) you go dey see...

Isn't it interesting to read most of them take this lightly and conclude women like being lied to thereby justifying his lies? Let a female create a thread about the lies she's been hiding from her fiancee and you'd see heap of insults and curses on her person.

I have learnt to stop taking the mumu ones seriously because half of them are not sane and the remaining half only rely on the internet to feel good about themselves.

fellis:

Who else would have liked it if not guys? Oh, and when I checked again just now it had risen to 37 likes.
Nothing in heaven or hell will make me marry a Nigerian man.
Bunch of sexist lying psychopaths.

She might have some lies she's probably waiting to tell (perhaps after marriage) too.
The Heavens will not fall, just let her know who you really are. It doesn't hurt to be
who you are for real.

slightlyMad: let me help you out dear

1. You need to add some emotions. just maybe when you guys are together, or quiet, just let tears run down ur cheek and let her notice it
2. dont tell her, keep her on suspense and always ask what you will do that she wont be able to forgive u
3. prepare her mind
4. then one day, tell her everything
start with, your conscience bla bla bla, that you so love her it hurts you that you have to lie to her everyday.
that you cannot hold it anymore, you just feel sad inside
when done telling her how you messed up
tell her you are happy now and u feel light

This is a sign youve got a good heart afterall.
A woman who is truly in love with you and not what you can offer will forgive you, though expect initial gragra.
if she does not forgive ur as5, then let her go, she doesn't love u in the first place anyways.

Objection my lady...do u want 2 kill his Relationship Coz 100% of 9ja girls Love it wen u lie 2 dem nd pls don't get upset wen I say wit U.........

dvdon:

Folk I think going back to school is not a criterial or an assurance to be successful, check the situation in this part of the world. We need money that's y we all go/went to school but if u are favoured to make money then you will find out schooling is just certificate producing business center. Look for legit money and then solve your problems should be a prefered advise. Thanks.

Agreed with you but this girl might likely want somebody with undergraduate degree
In Life it about being able to pay your bills and support your family

[quote
author=Chanchit]You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst
chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he
flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his
face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n
needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he
impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one
imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during
morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always
denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger,
but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still
leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you
won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.[/quote]


Could u please tell me wot happened to SELF CONFIDENCEY Do men bite more than they can chew??

nyere84: There is a word called “forgiveness“ & “second chance“.

Leave the op‘s babe to decide wat she want. Abi na you be him babe??

U call him liar?? And are you perfect?? Swear u neva lied before.

I love you for this your comment. You sincerely blew ma mind.

Op am happy for you not for what you did but at least realising that you are wrong. Just tell her d truth. She won't kill u. If am in her shoes I ll be glad u did that.