sucess001:

first...you are soooo wrong to insult kuyle...

Haba...the lady is even explaining herself. she even apologised in one of her posts for her outbursts. that is a good wife in the making.

cut her some slack wella. she has every freaking reason to decide how she wants to live or what she expects in a marriage.


that you dont agree with her views shouldnt make you insult her.


now be a man and apologize to her!

jay bee:
I recommend obadiah the baptist

xplode111: No lady has volunteered to give him a trial, wishin him all d best isn't enuf.

sucess001:

first...you are soooo wrong to insult kuyle...

Haba...the lady is even explaining herself. she even apologised in one of her posts for her outbursts. that is a good wife in the making.

cut her some slack wella. she has every freaking reason to decide how she wants to live or what she expects in a marriage.


that you dont agree with her views shouldnt make you insult her.


now be a man and apologize to her!

Kanwulia: This is the right age to get married.
The most important thing is to FEEL ready.
I am sure there is a woman there for you,

Good luck!

Ngokafor: Oops!!..thread is on FP..i forsee it going to the dogs soon with all kinds of silly comments being the order of the day..oh well..*unfollows thread*..

dick hardener: If i sound silly and you tell me "you are bereft of knowledge" i will take it as a compliment and ask you for a better pattern of thought offcourse that is if you hv a superior one to offer. So once again she is bereft of basic sense. Reasons 1. [size=24]She did not read the entirety of his post prior to devaluating Op's choices.2. Her train of thoughts with regards to a correlation btwn money and marraige is warped..( stewards get married u know). 3. She is aggressive and abhors a warped sense of importance judging from her stern warning to royal Roy[/size]. And above all it is psycotic to think your e- warnings truly serve as effective deterrents

Zer0: The major reason our society keeps gettibg impoverished isn't solely because the govt isn't doing enough. Most times it's the choice we make.

Getting married without having a sustainable means of livelihood, hoping that God will do miracle and take care of your material needs is just not enough.

There's never a time too late for a man to het married.

In the end what matters isn't when you got married or how many children you got but the quality of life you have and that of your dependants.

I am not trying to emphasize money in marriage, but a broke "YOUNG" man hasn't any business talking about getting married.

@OP don't let these people ruin your life. They won't be there if (God Forbid), your income isn't enough to service the financial needs of your marriage.

For the last time: BE GUIDED!.

Sweetlemon:

My dear, you are not even comfortable where you are now cos you work in a bank! Bankers are liable to die young cos of the stress and the possibility of being laid off at any moment. So don't be too comfortable yet!

let me tell you something and I will be frank with you. NO WOMAN prays or hopes to marry a broke guy. NO WOMAN in her right senses who is not just desperate to be MRS will happily marry a broke guy. Even when a woman is marrying you because she loves you, deep down she's wishing you were a tad more comfortable and she's only doing it for love. After the marriage, when real issues come in, you will see what I mean.

You guys should stop deluding yourselves that a woman can be truly happy with your empty/almost empty pockets. Same way a man should not think a man can be happy to marry her if she doesn't satisfy him in bed. They will just be enduring and not doing it willingly. Don't get me wrong, a woman can love you truly when you are broke, I have loved about 4 broke guys in my life. Yep! But to happily, willingly, marry you when she's not just desperate to be a Mrs? No! those who end up with poor husbands would do anything to change their fates if given the chance! That's just the acidic bitter lemony truth! pele!

dick hardener: If i sound silly and you tell me "you are bereft of knowledge" i will take it as a compliment and ask you for a better pattern of thought offcourse that is if you hv a superior one to offer. So once again she is bereft of basic sense. Reasons 1. She did not read the entirety of his post prior to devaluating Op's choices.2. Her train of thoughts with regards to a correlation btwn money and marraige is warped..( stewards get married u know). 3. She is aggressive and abhors a warped sense of importance judging from her stern warning to royal roy. And above all it is psycotic to think your e- warnings truly serve as effective deterrents

shizzle11:

Did you say apology? Dafuq are you on about? Why should he apologise? Doesn't he also have the right to air his opinion? Pls pls pls .....
Did you see where she said the op has "misplaced priority"? Who is she to define the ops priority for him?
That on its own is an insult to the op.

Does the ops priority have to align with what she considers right priority? And why can't the op desire to marry now.

Even if his financial base/income is not ideal for you, it doesn't mean he won't get a girl that will consider his income level acceptable.

A beg carry your I to know face gutter....mtchwwww

COOL DK: ^{This is all I've got to say:}


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A 419, ritualist, wife beater,
kidnapper but who drives a Benz has a better
chance of getting married in Nigeria these
days. . . . ..

Baby mama:

You make 60k a month probably living in a "face me I shoot you " and you wan marry?
Chai
Women don suffer
Do you know how much SMA gold costs
Diaper Nko?

PrettySpicey:

OMG! What a hilarious response.
@ OP, my dear go out there and get yourself a wife like a real Man.

xplode111: No lady has volunteered to give him a trial, wishin him all d best isn't enuf.

sucess001:


me am comortable o...well...i work in the head office and i close early...this is the most comfortable job i ve ever had. even if i leave the bank, am sure getting a job wouldnt be a problem for me...i am well souht after. and its not about that.

i disagree with you strongly on some points.

think about our parents. they survived didnt they?


forget about trying to live large. its ok to live decent.


any lady unable to stick with a guy of 70k will grow old and single.

there are hundreds of girls in my office who are senior, managers, managers etc and are single. they have even given up trying to get a relationship.

its a lesson...never wait till you are rich to do what you have to do...

its also like business...saying you need to have huge capital before you can start...

you can always start small...