agaba123:

That is why I said not all but you cannot say most. Do mean all naija men are bush men?

What of a woman who told the husband that coming to welcome him with an embrace and a kiss when he is back from work and she happens to be at home is doing too much for him? The last time I checked, I was told the woman is nigerian. Appreciating the mans effort was letting herself down but she would want the same from the man?

LOL! An embrace and a kiss or two is not too much na.

Ok, you got me there. So not all naija men are bushmen, but most of them are.
Do you even read the replies here? Majority of them are so heartless. kai!!!

Ruby_Pearl:

LOL! An embrace and a kiss or two is not too much na.

Ok, you got me there. So not all naija men are bushmen, but most of them are.
Do you even read the replies here? Majority of them are so heartless. kai!!!

Trust me most of those guys are only trying to be 'hard' or hard-man in local parlance. In th real sense most of them cannot do what they are saying and even if they do, they are not being true to themselves just ego and society stuff.

So i think for sure what is considered romance in Africa is how much money you can give to your wife.

That makes nonsense, little things and statements mean more than a million bucks . . .appreciation letting the person know he or she is appreciated

If a woman cry sincerely, I guess its ok? But sometimes if its too much, it can be very annoying.

agaba123:

Trust me most of those guys are only trying to be 'hard' or hard-man in local parlance. In th real sense most of them cannot do what they are saying and even if they do, they are not being true to themselves just ego and society stuff.

So i think for sure what is considered romance in Africa is how much money you can give to your wife.

That makes nonsense, little things and statements mean more than a million bucks . . .appreciation letting the person know he or she is appreciated

You make perfect sense, my friend.
Are you sure you're a Naija man?

Ruby_Pearl:

You make perfect sense, my friend.
Are you sure you're a Naija man?

Ruby, come on now there are some good ones around.

gabrywyl:

If a woman cry sincerely, I guess its ok? But sometimes if its too much, it can be very annoying.

U rite on the money

Ruby_Pearl:

You make perfect sense, my friend.
Are you sure you're a Naija man?

There bshe goes . . .lol  Can anything good come out of Jerusalem?

onyinye2:

Ruby, come on now there are some good ones around.

not just some. There are many but you know that the empty can make the loudest noise.
Great things are not found in common path.

agaba123:

Trust me most of those guys are only trying to be 'hard' or hard-man in local parlance. In th real sense most of them cannot do what they are saying and even if they do, they are not being true to themselves just ego and society stuff.

So i think for sure what is considered romance in Africa is how much money you can give to your wife.

That makes nonsense, little things and statements mean more than a million bucks . . .appreciation letting the person know he or she is appreciated

Try telling that to ur future wife  

onyinye2:

Ruby, come on now there are some good ones around.

lmao

agaba123:

There bshe goes . . .lol Can anything good come out of Jerusalem?
not just some. There are many but you know that the empty can make the loudest noise.
Great things are not found in common path.

abegi, answer me jor.

Ruby_Pearl:


abegi, answer me jor.

prolly the wrong thread

No, this thread.
I asked you if you're a Naija man.

Uche2nna:

Try telling that to your future wife  

Uche, tell you what, there is no romance without money but money alone cannot bring romance.

There are things money will do, but there are yearning in the heart which the money cannot satisfy
It is only the those seemingly little things that will satisfy them.
If you don't know them romance will not be complete trust me

gabrywyl:

If a woman cry sincerely, I guess its ok? But sometimes if its too much, it can be very annoying.

i do feel for my woman esp when i'm the one to blame but my ego would not allow me
pet her so i'll just let her be. as you stated too, it culd really be annoying.

Ruby_Pearl:

No, this thread.
I asked you if you're a Naija man.

Chei see me see wahala

Proper naija no be by naturalization na by birth. Chei I don die ooo

Anyway I know you are pulling my . . . what I don't know.

agaba123:

Chei see me see wahala

Proper naija no be by naturalization by birth. Chei I don die ooo

LOL! Calm down.
It's not a problem.
Just surprised you're not as annoying/immature as the rest of them ^{maybe on this topic sha.}

Ruby_Pearl:

LOL! Calm down.
It's not a problem.
Just surprised you're not as annoying/immature as the rest of them ^{maybe on this topic sha.}

lol

Madam Ruby Pearl

agaba123:

Uche, tell you what, there is no romance without money but money alone cannot bring romance.

There are things money will do, but there are yearning in the heart which the money cannot satisfy
It is only the those seemingly little things that will satisfy them.
If you don't know them romance will not be complete trust me

Truly Questionable!!!

Ruby_Pearl:

LOL! Calm down.
It's not a problem.
Just surprised you're not as annoying/immature as the rest of them ^{maybe on this topic sha.}

Haha do not forget that the web affords some guys a measure of anonymity. In darkness loads of crap happen.

agaba123:

Uche, tell you what, there is no romance without money but money alone cannot bring romance.

There are things money will do, but there are yearning in the heart which the money cannot satisfy
It is only the those seemingly little things that will satisfy them.
If you don't know them romance will not be complete trust me

It aint that simple, mon ami.

Tell U what, No woman jokes with her comfort and security. After that , then comes compatibility. Love /romance is further down the ladder.

onyinye2:

Truly Questionable!!!

Onyee how do you mean sis?

agaba123:

Onyee how do you mean sis?

I have experienced some real romantic things that didn't require money.

Uche2nna quote:-

You rite on the money  

What does money have to do with crying ?Am confuse ohhh. . .  

gabrywyl:

Uche2nna quote:-

What does money have to do with crying ?Am confuse ohhh. . .

lol

Just an expression that means U are right!!!!! Savi?

Uche2nna:

lol

Madam Ruby Pearl

awa ni ye o.
But you know am right

agaba123:

Haha do not forget that the web affords some guys a measure of anonymity. In darkness loads of crap happen.

awww, you're so right.
Not only craps occurs in the darkness, ya know

Uche2nna:

It aint that simple, mon ami.

Tell You what, No woman jokes with her comfort and security. After that , then comes compatibility. Love /romance is further down the ladder.

I disagree wiv ya jor!
If not love/romance, why are you wiv a guy in the first place?
Should that not be the ultimate goal?

Uche2nna:

lol

Just an expression that means You are right!!!!! Savi?

Oh ok. got it. Thanks

Uche2nna:

It aint that simple, mon ami.

Tell You what, No woman jokes with her comfort and security. After that , then comes compatibility. Love /romance is further down the ladder.

Uche may be we are saying the same thing in different ways

onyinye2:

I have experienced some real romantic things that didn't require money.

I suppose you read my post well. I remember I said that there are things money cannot get.

But those thing will not be very effective on a hungry woman, a woman with an empty wardrobe etc

agaba123:

I remember I said that there are things money cannot get.
But those thing will not be very effective on a hungry woman, a woman with an empty wardrobe etc

LOL!!!!! yeah you got the last part right. but yeah i think the most romantic things dont require money.

Ruby_Pearl:

awa ni ye o.

huh?

Ruby_Pearl:


I disagree with ya jor!
If not love/romance, why are you with a guy in the first place?
Should that not be the ultimate goal?

Ideally, yes.  In reality, most women marry for reasons besides love. They might not admit it tho. _{I wish I could also disagree with miself}

Uche2nna:

Ideally, yes.  In reality, most women marry for reasons besides love. They might not admit it tho. _{I wish I could also disagree with miself}

Nwannem nwoke, you are wrong. most women marry because of love.

Ruby_Pearl:

Not only craps occurs in the darkness, ya know

OK I agree but it does not have to be in darkness lol

some degree of light may be necessary at times

Uche2nna:

huh?

It's just a yoruba phrase. meaning I dey kampe

Uche2nna:

Ideally, yes. In reality, most women marry for reasons besides love. They might not admit it tho. _{I wish I could also disagree with miself}

Hmmmm. . . . . hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

agaba123:

OK I agree but it does not have to be in darkness lol

some degree of light may be necessary at times

see your yeye mind!
what do you think I was talking abt?
Me, I was talking abt sleeping oh!!