Newkidoo:
why will I tell a gal I won't marry a non-virgin.. am I a virgin myself that I will tell her I can't marry a virgin.. 1st I ask u sky deep, have u had sex b4 if u say yes OK I will still date u.. am only after your behaviour
. but still don't tell me u have had sex with more Dan 5guys.. I swear I can't date that kind of gal.. u telling I have had sex with 10guys.. that will make me piss off.. just go, I can't date u but may just 3guys.. still manageable.. if a gal starts having sex with 10 or more than 10 guys that means she is not focused and sharp..
So on d topic, gals don't lie to ur partner that u r a virgin if u r not!!

tintingz: She just killed the trust.

critique101:

If a guy can sleep with tens of chics, why can't a girl sleep with tens of guys? If sleeping about makes a girl unfocused, how about the guy?
How many girls do you know that sleep with less than four guys before getting married?
Most girls date many guys before getting married and they do sleep with the guys. So if u ask a girl how many guys she has slept with and she tells you 3, there is a big possibility she is lying. All the girls you have slept with so far won't sleep with only you. They will sleep with others b4 they meet that special guy. So don't deceive yourself

lil max: Divorce her for sure...not because she is not a virgin but because she lied

Aura2:


He spoke like a boy, i warned about his likes

Newkidoo:
I spoke like a boy!! okay thanks but I have truly said what I don't like if u like call me a boy or not!! I would have really abused u for calling me a boy but I know am not and I also c u as a girl so u r thinking from a girl's point of view.. this is a faceless forum so u have d right to say whatever u like but u don't really know me!! cos ur view differs from mine doesn't mean am a boy..correct that notion in case of next time!!"

critique101:

Stop talking anyhow. Whenever you open your mouth and give someone an advice that is contrary to what is written in the bible, God will judge for that.

To divorce is a sin except in the case of unfaithfulness. If a man divorces for another reason and remarries, in God's eyes, sex with the new wife is adultery. Stop taking God 4 granted.
If you have to copy western culture, copy only positive things.

A word is enuf for the wise

critique101:

Stop talking anyhow. Whenever you open your mouth and give someone an advice that is contrary to what is written in the bible, God will judge for that.

To divorce is a sin except in the case of [unfaithfulness. If a man divorces for another reason and remarries, in God's eyes, sex with the new wife is adultery. Stop taking God 4 granted.
If you have to copy western culture, copy only positive things.

A word is enuf for the wise

lygn19:
LoL... I dunno abt u o, gals re funny.
Only after what I saw when I was schooling in uniport, then u think that I won't be cautious of gals... Any guy that went tru the four walls of the university dat saw things for himself wud ba angry at the gurls reaction.

ignis:

Boy, It's not all girls.
Get your Facts right.

lygn19:
LoL

Newkidoo: I will F**k d hell out of your body that night..then I will send you packing!! marriage no b by force..

critique101:

Stop talking anyhow. Whenever you open your mouth and give someone an advice that is contrary to what is written in the bible, God will judge for that.

To divorce is a sin except in the case of unfaithfulness. If a man divorces for another reason and remarries, in God's eyes, sex with the new wife is adultery. Stop taking God 4 granted.
If you have to copy western culture, copy only positive things.

A word is enuf for the wise

Aura2:


A man who holds the opinion of a boy is still a boy, Maturity is of the mind, Age is mere numbers.
you may be 26 but you are 9yrs younger in wisdom, you don't struggle to get there but experience guides you.

NB: I dont give a fvck how you feel cos i dont fvcking know you.

lygn19:
Its not all gurls, dats y I said u shud be cautious of the "non-virgins"... Some of them have slept with more men than****.

Margy:

What's the difference between your statement and what mindependent wrote......understand the statement.....what if she changes from her bad life and want to stay sexless....#commonsense

critique101:

Stop talking anyhow. Whenever you open your mouth and give someone an advice that is contrary to what is written in the bible, God will judge for that.

To divorce is a sin except in the case of unfaithfulness. If a man divorces for another reason and remarries, in God's eyes, sex with the new wife is adultery. Stop taking God 4 granted.
If you have to copy western culture, copy only positive things.

A word is enuf for the wise

Mindependent: When I asked this question, my sole reason was because what if I decided to change my bad ways and not have sex till marriage but I know most guys will still want to have sex with me except I tell them I'm a virgin.

I don't see it as lying, virginity does not mean I've never had sex, just means I'm staying sexless from that moment onwards till marriage to find the perfect suitor. The aim is not to deceive for all those that are saying they hate lies

Mindependent: When I asked this question, my sole reason was because what if I decided to change my bad ways and not have sex till marriage but I know most guys will still want to have sex with me except I tell them I'm a virgin.

I don't see it as lying, virginity does not mean I've never had sex, just means I'm staying sexless from that moment onwards till marriage to find the perfect suitor. The aim is not to deceive for all those that are saying they hate lies undecided

critique101:

If a guy can sleep with tens of chics, why can't a girl sleep with tens of guys? If sleeping about makes a girl unfocused, how about the guy?
How many girls do you know that sleep with less than four guys before getting married?
Most girls date many guys before getting married and they do sleep with the guys. So if u ask a girl how many guys she has slept with and she tells you 3, there is a big possibility she is lying. All the girls you have slept with so far won't sleep with only you. They will sleep with others b4 they meet that special guy. So don't deceive yourself

skydeep:
I am through, come and eat

critique101:

Stop talking anyhow. Whenever you open your mouth and give someone an advice that is contrary to what is written in the bible, God will judge for that.

To divorce is a sin except in the case of unfaithfulness. If a man divorces for another reason and remarries, in God's eyes, sex with the new wife is adultery. Stop taking God 4 granted.
If you have to copy western culture, copy only positive things.

A word is enuf for the wise

crackhaus:
Offensive? Of course not, very far from it.

If I'm going to offload my anger and disappointment of her lying without storming out on her, the only option left for me is to go doqqy on her that first night (no time for making sweet love)...
Yes, I will bang her so hard and deep from behind till she cries and begs for forgiveness. This is what I meant.

Newkidoo:
Why lie? did I tell u I won't marry u because u r not a virgin.. B4 i marry any gal, I tell her she truth about me though not all but I also expect her to tell me she is not a virgin oo. I will understand if she gives me reasonable explanation( all these b4 wedding) but if she still lied till we are married then I later found out that she is not a virgin on wedding night..
I won't talk much, just lie down and open ur butt, I f**cked d hell out of you that night then d next morning, I call ur parents to come carry u.. forget abt d money I spent during wedding, there is more in d bank.. all I don't just like is for my partner to lie to me.. lie to me or test me during relationship u r gone!!

Newkidoo:
Are you sensible at all? pls let's clarify something here!! why would a girl of 20yrs be telling me she has slept with over 10guys..those that show intelligence.. and u r here talking maturity.. I don't care if u think am a kid but u saying crap abt me that is what I won't accept.. if u like fvck around like a dog all you want, you would surely see who will marry you. that is sure but I said as for me, I won't so why is ur blood boiling over that... pls don't ever quote me again.. u talk of maturity and u think saying it here shows that u r mature right?.. idi0t saying shitt

Aura2:

ouch!! now Mr, everybody in life believe we have choices but how realistic is your choice? like you said somewhere up there, that you will marry a woman who has only 3 partners in a life time, that is not only absurd but s:lly and unrealistic, i know you are struggling into adulthood, but here some news flash;

so long as a girl is not a virgin, there is no instrument, device or machine that can determine how many people she slept with, so how exactly can you ascertain your number "3"? it is still what she says you will believe and trust me, in the real world, they paint it pretty well.

men (boys) like you don't even know what virginity looks like or what to look out for let alone a low mileage, it takes an in depth knowledge of anatomy to be able to put realistic clues together that im sure you have not got, please don't rely on the slacking theorem flying around amongst teenagers, most women who have had children are still tighter and sweeter than some single gals especially if they do kegel exercise, now, how much of that do you know?

you see son, you will know better when you grow up. making a choice of a woman by he sexual canopy is the biggest mistake a man will make, men already know that, i cant say for boys.

Newkidoo:
Now that you have specified that u r a female, I will hold myself from insulting u.. but I don't think you can read probably miss I know it all.. I said if a gal should tell me not me finding out.. cos only a fool will want to find out how many guys u slept with but I rephrase myself.."if she tells me she has already slept with more than 10guys.. if she tells me, I repeat if she tells me.. and I never said it must only be 3.. I said manageably three.. Mrs mature have u heard.. next time if you want to go on an argument with me, try using wisdom..not because u r a gal u have d right to stat barking like a dog
btw, sorry for that last statement though!!