I hope you had not heard them talk about the 'sugar daddy' of a thing?

I still remain: keep your Thomases and Pinkys to yourself.

If you dey find money, go and stand on the road. Do it once and get out. But dating a married man and (indirectly or what the hell directly) breaking up a marriage is very wrong.

Please let's be cool and do things the right way. Theres no excuse for that. It's inexcusable.

We all know that is wrong , but I asure that it is happening every where in our society till today.

That is because we are an immoral society. We have no qualms with doing something one night, then waking up the following morning to declare that it is 'wrong'.

A white man will say "it is ok to do it in some circumstances", and then do it.
A Nigerian woman will say "it is very wrong to do such a thing!!!", then do it!

A Nigerian woman? I could have sworn a Nigerian man has to be present and consenting for this wrong-doing to take place. Na wah o, you guys just like dissing on women. And one important fact is that the guy is the married one. While the lady's actions are by no means excusable, the guy ought to serve 'double punishment'.

It was deliberate. Apologies to Nigerian women, but the reason is that I have noticed that Nigerian women are less likely to justify cheating than the men, but I think they practise it just as often.

It was deliberate. Apologies to Nigerian women, but the reason is that I have noticed that Nigerian women are less likely to justify cheating than the men, but I think they practise it just as often.

Nigeria == Hypocrisy?

We are just hypocrites, or rather we pay lip service to one thing and do another. Westerners will stand by what they do but the typical African will say tufiakwa in public and still do the same in private. If you feel it's not so then visit our campuses and see. Is somebody out there trying to tell me that those girls don't know that the men are married?

Sage you are right.

In my opinion, it is absolutely wrong to date a married man/woman.

I for one, will never ever do it!

I urge you not to!

its wrong no need justifying it cos u have to put urselve in the womans shoes how will u feel if it is done to u?do u find love in such situations?definitely not, it can only be a big lie [infatuation is the onl ting uu 'll feel]
it eventually break homes and creates enmity that promotes disunity that is seriously bitting deep in our nation

Infatuation? No my dear. There is nothing like it in that kind of relationship. What exist in that sort of relationship is selfishness, greediness, stupidity of the highest order and the likes.

lets face facts we all leave in a real world and not fantasy land so
my dears if he gives u a ring[calls]thats money if he pays ur bills {recharge cards,hair,rent,outings,cloths [ashoebes].......}these list will just be endless my darlyns all these involves pay even if it happens to be the minutest ting on earth he does for u,he definately had to move from a point to urs that equally involves some pay u know we cant run away from these fact of life{money is everything and every thing is money}
dont get me wrong is not like there is nothing done outside of money but the fact remains that money is chief when it comes to xpressing urself not only to ur romantically loved one it could be ur family or close frnds

Do unto others what u want to be done to u...

If u date a married man, someday, .....someother lady will date ur husband!
If u date a married woman, someday.....Someother Man will date ur wife!!
If u cause sorrow to some other family u can't escape sorrow urself....

Better be right with God and Man. If u are not attracted to any single MAN or WOMAN, go look for a DIVORCEE or a WIDOW/ WIDOWER and be happy in ur territory!

After all, all u want is to have a partner to pay u attention abi?


Me.

Hopee my sweetie,
My dear I agreed with uooooo, wht u said is very, very acurate, I pray tht God in heaven we open the eyes of our youths through this nairaland to begin to live aright,
Come to think of it, wht ever a man sold definetly he must surely reap it, it might not be now, but later.
no two ways abt it,

itz not advisable

What God has put together......................................... fill in the gap. i'm sure it's quite self-explanatory and even a fool knows it's wrong. But then again are Nigerians morally upright?

let no one put asunder
some married women curses girls that dates their husband ooo
to date a married man is very wrong

why would any lady want to date an other lady like her husband, that is so wrong.
if some other lady did that to her will she like it. don't do to others what you wouldn't want others to do to you.

Why we are still talking, I want to asure you that it is going on both in the street and school campuses.

wrong meeen this is so very wrong.. As a guy, I will not do it and I do not know wat I will do if my sistah or daugther is caught doing this ohh..

My female friend right infront of her man said she is gona date me and she did it..she is still on with her guy..It really depends on family values which vary greatly from family to family...I would'nt like it though but I still dated her and had my own peice of cake..hehe

Jummy, I did not say that men generally can't keep their "thing" in their trousers, I only said some men. Don't forget I am also a man.

I agree though, that it is irresponsible on both sides.

dating a married man of cruse it's wrong, why will any lady that have class want to date a married man, when they can find some single guy's. the only lady that will date a married man must like to make other woman like her angry or sad. dating a married man is very very very wrong, no lady should do that. the man belong to someone else, so live him along.

For me, its a no no. That was something I never did,wont advise my youger ones to. But I had friends who did and I didnt see anything wrong in it cos they are muslims. Infact, one of my best friends in school is her husbands second wife. THAT is not wrong cos her religion allows it.

If it is wrong. then dont think of it...if you know it is unthinkable..then you wont do it...dont do it. PERIOD!

I think its wrong cos no girl will ever pray dt girls outside shd have her husband as an aristo wen she's married.

It is wrong...i wound'nt want u to date my wife.....Even though girls are temptations..if a guy is rich and get public attention...Some girls will like to compete for the guy. So ladies if u have such a man..hold him tight..just advising u now....there are so many vulture ladies

Im sure they all know that...and im sure every man knows the worth of a good woman...or so i think

very bad

I'm a nigerian and i pretty know what we like and dislike. But when it comes 2 dating a married man you are automatically known as gbokogboko -husband snatcher-! Or simply a ho.And by the time everyone knows that you are dating lagbaja's husband just know that everyone will not really want u 2 be close to them so you won't end up taking there husband aswell but what nigerian's really think about dating a married man is not very good o.