tope2000:

hehehehe
give her chance na, maybe the next time she will stab instead of a slap

onyinye2:


Most of these guys will either:
A. Walk Away
B. [/b]Retaliate
[b]C. Throw her out the house
D. Figure out why she hit him in the first place.

Oka fellas, state what letter you would abide by. . . . .

onyinye2:

All Real Men will go straight for. . . .

OPTION: D!!!

If you choose otherwise

onyinye2:

All Real Men will go straight for. . . .

OPTION: D!!!

If you choose otherwise

Hannibal:

Keep deceiving yourself!!!
Option D of all options. . . . . .
Hit her first, ask questions later.
She slapped me instinctively and i retaliated on IMPULSE.
Fair exchange, innit??

StephenP:

Definitely C. Let her think about what she just did before she's sets a bad example for the kids.
Forget that crap about all real men. All real women don't hit men in the first place, but you don't see me complaining.

Hannibal:

Keep deceiving yourself!!!
Option D of all options. . . . . .
Hit her first, ask questions later.
She slapped me instinctively and i retaliated on IMPULSE.
Fair exchange, innit??

Cristalz:

C.Throw her out of the house.  .  .lose your wife, maybe lose your kids, face in-law wahala, outsiders' questions,bla bla.  .  .too much headache

onyinye2:

If you think throwing your WIFE out of the house is not complaining then, i must rephrase my definition.
If you really cared about her, you would figure out why she was provoked to hit you in the first place.

Cristalz:

My opinion.  .  .

A. Walk away and still come back to meet an unrepentant wife,zero lessons learned.

B. Retaliate.  .  .put her in her place(i love you but you can't go around slapping your hubby.  .  .wherez my respect?)

C.Throw her out of the house.  .  .lose your wife, maybe lose your kids, face in-law wahala, outsiders' questions,bla bla.  .  .too much headache

D.Figure out why she hit you.  .  .what da heck's there to figure out?? Why the five-finger mark on your face is swelling up?

onyinye2:

Seriously. . . . . why you going to hit your wife? Unless you are prepared to hear her reference what you did in every argument. And she is going to ride that Guilt Train for. . . . LIFE.

StephenP:

Maybe she should have discussed with me first before taking action. How about if I'm not to blame? And even if I was what on God's green earth gave her idea that she could hit me and go scot free.

Cristalz:

@onyinye

You and this your guilt train.  .  .don't you know some women do airplanes? There and back in 3 mins, and the little trip's just anutha little part of life. Time to move on.
I support it WHEN THE WIFE DESERVES IT.
What kind of a woman hits her husband in the first place? Where is the love,the respect? Its just stupid and very irrational. A woman with temper is bad enough,but one that can't control that temper??  

Hannibal:

I am impressed!!!
Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrm, will u MARRY me??

Cristalz:

@onyinye

Lol . A woman doesn't need to be disciplined.  .  .but if she goes as far as raising a hand to her husband,the man she promised to love and respect for better or worse and all that sweet stuff,she should be EFFECTIVELY reminded of her promises  After that, the couple should kiss,make up and move on. Anutha lesson learned. . .and trust me,it won't be repeating itself.

onyinye2:

DAMN!!! I can see you fellas don't let nothing mess with ya buddy, EGO. Gotta make sure it is protected at all times. On the real, sometimes you gotta swallow up some of that pride and go on a deeper level. As in, asking why she would hit you in the first place? What was bothering her. It is so much easier than the alternatives. Jeez. . . they way some of yal sound, makes me think yal are her father rather than her husband.

StephenP:

It has nothing to do with ego, I'm only sending her back to her dad's house so that he can teach her not to hit men except maybe in self-defense.

StephenP:

It has nothing to do with ego, I'm only sending her back to her dad's house so that he can teach her not to hit men except maybe in self-defense.

StephenP:

It has nothing to do with ego, I'm only sending her back to her dad's house so that he can teach her not to hit men except maybe in self-defense.

Hannibal:

Send her back to her dad's house?? Thats over-reaction!!!

Give her 2 hot slaps. . . . . .make up, kiss and live happily ever after.
This incident is too small to accomodate a 3rd party.
The only thing that would make me send her back to her dad is INFIDELITY.

StephenP:

It has nothing to do with ego, I'm only sending her back to her dad's house so that he can teach her not to hit men except maybe in self-defense.

onyinye2:

Yal fellas is a trip. Getting all worked up for a slap? I mean do you not know the difference between her slap with her delicate hands, than yours with your ginormous gorilla hands?

onyinye2:

Yal fellas is a trip. Getting all worked up for a slap? I mean do you not know the difference between her slap with her delicate hands, than yours with your ginormous gorilla hands?

rampagain:

bia stephen,obu gi no na proifi gi?chineke

what are all them single girls waiting for?rush this guy naaaa


_{its moi jenny}

Hannibal:

Send her back to her dad's house?? Thats over-reaction!!!

Give her 2 hot slaps. . . . . .make up, kiss and live happily ever after.
This incident is too small to accomodate a 3rd party.
The only thing that would make me send her back to her dad is INFIDELITY.

darefestus:

@Hannibal
I greatly agree with everything you have written so far, and you are the bomb,all men should just be like you!

Hannibal:

Are u considering the impact of the slap on ma face or the ACTION??
I am really bovvered about the INTENT not if i would get hurt or not.

Someone tries to shoot u and he missed. . .
Does that make him innocent??
What about the INTENT to murder?

k1banty:

If my wife slaps me for the first time (God forbid bad time)

Option A: Walk away
Option D: Figure out why she hit me.


If it happens another time

Option C.Throw her out of the house


Option B is out of it so i'D rather kick her out of the house than to retaliate.

StephenP:

Onyinye, you still classify your hands as delicate after all your weightlifting classes? Hmm . . . .

onyinye2:

Hey I might have some muscles on me, but don't me NOTHING compared to those of the male species.

StephenP:

Knowing that, why would you then attempt to provoke him by hitting him?

StephenP:

Knowing that, why would you then attempt to provoke him by hitting him?

onyinye2:

As I said before. . . . sometimes a woman can be going through some things you know. Has been having a really bad week, aint nothing going right, folk pulling her in every which way. And if she got kids, has to put everything aside and care for them. Not to mention have to make sure everybody is content and happy. Then her husband comes in, ranting and raging about this and that.

Not taking into consideration that his wife aint really in the mood to hear all that. And maybe just fell into the influence of emotions and took it out on you. Which will happen from time to time, just not phyiscally. As her LOVING husband, instead jumping on the gun and hitting her back, try to understand why she was provoked to hit you in the first place.

I'm not saying women are emotionally unstable creatures but sometimes you might lose sight of things. I for one, understand. Sometimes your emotions get the best of you.

StephenP:

So she is justified for hitting him? Why can't she let her rage and frustrations out like her husband? A real woman know to use all that negative energy and turn it into something positive.

PS Don't mask it, it's a known fact that many women are emotionally unstable and there's nothing wrong with it.

StephenP:

So she is justified for hitting him? Why can't she let her rage and frustrations out like her husband? A real woman know to use all that negative energy and turn it into something positive.

PS Don't mask it, it's a known fact that many women are emotionally unstable and there's nothing wrong with it.