osisi what I don't understand is why is it Barbi was bothered by the girl being "cocky" about her finace yet wasnt bothered that she has dishonest trifling friends

Shocked No, in all seriousness u guys. [b]i only told her based on fact. both women that he was sleeping with were in my group of friends. They only slept with him casual like (booty call), but they didnt know that i knew. (They didnt want to tell me because i was once his girl) [/b]And i was going to keep my mouth shut

DeepZone:

I was making a reference to where and how things like that easily happen. I didn't read her initial statement but I know that most guys trap their girls friends through facebook.

KarmaMod:

osisi what I don't understand is why is it Barbi was bothered by the girl being "cocky" about her finace yet wasnt bothered that she has dishonest trifling friends

DeepZone:

She never said that and that issue may have been dealt by her. The point is that she specified two problems and  elaborated more on one but that doesn't mean that she left the issue of her friends unattended unless she said so.

KarmaMod:


How come she was willing to keep quiet over her "friends" sleeping with her ex, but couldnt keep quiet to the fiance because she was being "cocky"?

savanaha:

Because she realized that her knowledge of their trifling behavior would not hurt them but only her. Even though she pretends to have told the cocky fiance to get back at the boy she told to hurt the girl. If she can't have him then no one else should

Its only her attitude and cockiness later towards all my long time friendst.

@post
Silence hurts the most

DeepZone:

Isn't that what most Nairalanders have been doing?. I suspect that more are guilty of this act and not the girl or the guy that posted her ex's boobs online.

I think it's simply pathetic to break up with someone and then try to get revenge.
For what? I know revenge is an act stimulated by anger and rejection, but later on, I hope the avenger realize that he/she was making herself look stupid.

DeepZone:

Those guilty of that act are usually the dumped ones but the girl in question here at lest was honest about her escapades. For some reason best know to her, she decided not to address the issue of her 2 friends that slept with her EX. That's nairaland for you. people should reserve their rights to answer or reply to comments they wish and ignore the ones they don't want to and i do that many times everyday. She shouldn't be found guilty of contempt just because she did not address that issue.

Ok, I am lost. . . .and I do not know what you're talking about. Huh
A nairalander did what?

By Naijabarbie,

i told my exes current fiance about the two other women he is currently sleeping with. She didnt know because she lives 6 hours away, and was visiting for a party. She was so smug and kept bragging about him, i just had to bust her bubble and taint her innocent outlook of that lying rat.

Shocked No, in all seriousness u guys. i only told her based on fact. both women that he was sleeping with were in my group of friends. They only slept with him casual like (booty call), but they didnt know that i knew. (They didnt want to tell me because i was once his girl) And i was going to keep my mouth shut when i was told by my best friend, even when i saw the post that he was engaged. Its only her attitude and cockiness later towards all my long time friends, and his continuous lying that made me decide to do that. it was to set him straight, what he thought she would never find out, since she didnt live in our area.

DeepZone:

Those guilty of that act are usually the dumped ones but the girl in question here at lest was honest about her escapades. For some reason best know to her, she decided not to address the issue of her 2 friends that slept with her EX. That's nairaland for you. people should reserve their rights to answer or reply to comments they wish and ignore the ones they don't want to and i do that many times everyday. She shouldn't be found guilty of contempt just because she did not address that issue.

And by the way, where do you people get this useless men and worthless "friends"?

What are the chances?

@ deepzone
meaning what? if there are 3 men in ur house,2 are useless

DeepZone:

I think jealousy comes from inferiority complex and as long as you believe that you are the hottest man or woman on the planet in your heart, you can beat these odds.

My dear there were some details she's given that only males would give.

I have been here in the USA a while,I don't know one single female Nigerian that was a truck driver
I don't know any that worked  in farms milking cows
She's the only female Nigerian I know who has a gun and was on shooting branges learning how to use it.
She knows so many details of "things" only males would know and discuss.
I seriously suspect deepzone is a man

NaijaBarbi:

LOL!!!! I just logged in here and read all this talk about my comment post, which was just my own person response to the question ( Re: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? ) Did i do or say something terrible?!! ah ah! KILODE??!!its funny that d topic did a 360 flip to my story, and turned into my justifications for WHAT I DID. I'm not trippin, its how nairaland works unfortunately. But regardless~ i wanted to respond to a couple of d comments, and i wont recall who posted them.

#1. I never said d 2 chiks that he was sleeping with were my friends. i said in my GROUP of friends. this typically means that they know someone that i hang out with, so they are amongst d circle, but we are not close. (hence the reason for them being shady) I considered them scandalous women anyway- because they have a reputation so i wasnt surprised.

#2. i can never be envious of this man, nor this girl-his fiance. Everything he owns now is because of my guidance! and he knows this for sure. In fact, d car she drives- he bought for ME- with d cash from d job that I got for him when he was a JJC from naija. This is why he can never face me or confront me for telling his chik these details. I can drop a man quickly if he doesnt have respect for me, no shakin. So y hesitate to call him out? I was a happy girl when i left him oo- it was me who ended it due to his lack of appreciation and his cheating. AND i wasnt single when i did that- i had my own thing.

#3. If you saw what i mean by her "attitude" and u know how some Nigerian chiks in usa can be, even when they are still small girls with no income-cocky as hell. u will understand y i wasnt shy to open my mouth. The straw that broke the camels back was when he got bold n said something so low to my girl. His fiance got in the argument (even though she didnt know anyone as a visitor) and she tested me by getting smart when i told them to calm down. thats how it started~~~~

#4 (ahem, KARMAMOD) this is the thread i meant to post on. 'stupid things u have done for love' is for you my dear. better yet for all d insane men that DARED to put up with your smart mouth.

#5 whats up with all this analyzing/dissecting of peoples comments or stories here, just to say something rude- instead of posting your own experiences or responses? I guess d arguing or fighting is more fun eh? lol. Its like black naija vultures that pic on a juicy comment when someone is being real or honest about something they did in d past. GOOD OR BAD! HE DESERVED IT SHA, no lie. Thats even just a small small thing karma brought his way.

#4 (ahem, KARMAMOD) this is the thread i meant to post on. 'stupid things u have done for love'