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Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:11am On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: In history of the Jewish people where Christianity originated from child marriage is a practise, Mary was a child bride to Joseph. Need I remind you This is 2014 6 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 7:11am On Aug 14, 2014 |
babyosisi:both Federal and state government should build schools to the villages in the north. if schools is built in does villages child marriage will reduce, not all part of the north give out their daughters at the age of 14, it is only in the village where this practice is still a norm, mostly the poor people. and child marriage is not only a practice in Muslim countries it is also a practice in the western world. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_marriage 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 7:13am On Aug 14, 2014 |
babyosisi:yes? didn't they practice it? |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by 9ja4Change(m): 7:13am On Aug 14, 2014 |
tomsniel: poor Girl. I dont support child marriage but the way she handled it was too extreme.. Btw so GEJ's fresh air of education never reach those places..Diaris Goduooo Which GEJ's fresh air of education? Is the the numerous strikes by ASUU or the more than 10 months strike by polytechnics and CoE (the highest in the history of 9ja) 3 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:14am On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: both Federal and state government should build schools to the villages in the north. As much as 76% of girls in many areas of northern Nigeria are married by age 14 according to some stats Keep comparing yourself to people light years away from you The girls are prevented from going to school Stop telling these silly lies Muslim senators were arguing for child marriage and here you are talking about schools When a sitting senator married a 14 year old whose mates were in JSS where were you? I can assure you 99.99%i of girls in the west are not married and in middle or high school Definitely not so at your end 8 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by UnimkeAk(m): 7:18am On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: Yeah Africans calling the western countries like mumus. Government! Government!! Government!!! So they cant go 2 private school. I was joking o! So if the state/LGA forgets 2 provide schs, cant d organize a community development organization and start meeting dia needs. Dia own is to look 4 young purna to bleep U dont hv money still u marry plenty wife born plenty children. Child marriage etc Dis peeps have a messed up way of living. Whats my business sef. 3 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:19am On Aug 14, 2014 |
UnimkeAk: Sme of these people live in Enugu and Aba and Lagos They are not attending schools there either 3 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by hazyfm: 7:22am On Aug 14, 2014 |
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Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by excellencyabia1: 7:27am On Aug 14, 2014 |
Omexonomy: it is the duty of lg chairman and governos to provide primary and secondary education in nigeria with the heavy monthly allocation been recived from gej.if GEJ build school in rural areas, what is the work of LGA's and state education board doing. let us speak to educate others 3 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:29am On Aug 14, 2014 |
Read this story That is the mentality there MARRIED at 13, divorced just a year later, this is the tragic face of one teenager sold for just a couple of hundred dollars. Abused and badly beaten when she tried to escape her marriage, her humiliated husband then divorced her, leaving her homeless and shunned by her own family. But Maimuna Abdullahi’s story isn’t unique and she is far from alone but one of hundreds of thousands of child brides across Nigeria. Her ex-husband, said his disobedient wife was too educated and that next time he would marry a much younger bride who would do exactly what she was told. “This time I will marry a girl of 12, so that she will do what I want to do,” he says. “Because if you marry a girl who is older, then she will not listen to you.” Apparently not listening and wanting an education was a crime and this 14-year-old was horrifically punished on both counts. When she escaped, Maimuna was beaten so badly her battered face swelled so much that doctors feared her husband had dislocated her jaw. http://www.news.com.au/world/africa/divorced-at-14-maimuna-abdullahi-is-the-face-of-nigerias-child-bride-shame/story-fnh81gzi-1226972573996 9 Likes
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Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:34am On Aug 14, 2014 |
There was only one primary school in my village and my mother's village My father and mother walked more than 3 miles barefooted to go to primary school everyday ,they told me Some people walked more It is all about what is important to one You don't wait for the govt to take you to school or build one in your compound Some kids actually went to live with the headmaster to serve him or lived with relatives and family friends to go to school That is what people who value education did to get it 10 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by UnimkeAk(m): 7:34am On Aug 14, 2014 |
babyosisi: Yeah, thats true. They should stop blaming the govt. For dia girls not going 2 sch. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 7:40am On Aug 14, 2014 |
babyosisi:how do you know they are prevented from going to school? are you living with them, do you know their financial condition in those areas in the north? again those people that give their daughters at minor age are mostly poor people so they keep to the tradition of their land(child marriage) |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:42am On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: how do you know they are prevented from going to school? are you living with them, do you know their financial condition in those areas in the north? Primary school is free today my dear Read the story I posted above Poverty of the mind is more like it 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:46am On Aug 14, 2014 |
HappyJoe: place of the fearful....indeed what a place/name... |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:46am On Aug 14, 2014 |
She consented? Ok, maybe. Let us assume it so. Now, what does a 14 yr girl know about life, love and marriage? She forced? More likely! the North is ripping the fruits of Islam! Islam is the a big problem to Nigeria and the entire humanity! It is just that we are too scared to tell Moslems the truth! 9 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 7:48am On Aug 14, 2014 |
UnimkeAk:it will still fall back to the government, will you give the people money to start a school? or what's the duty of government? .most of this people in those village are ignorant, they need to be enlightened. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:51am On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: it will still fall back to the government, will you give the people money to start a school? The only difference between them and villagers in the south is Islam is that the reason for their ignorance What else? This place we are talking about is only 35 miles away from Kano When it came time to build some schools,they demanded almajiri schools Imagine that How many are attending it today Your priorities are twisted Then it backfires and you blame others People had been crying about the menace of almajirism for years and Muslims label them anti Muslim Today they have grown into big time terrorists called boko and you are still blaming others for it The day you tell yourselves the truth,you may start solving the problems you created 12 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 8:03am On Aug 14, 2014 |
Read this The reason for the ignorance and barrier to common sense
So why is sharia law retrogressive That is the question Why can't they help themselves by changing these outdated laws into something that will favor those girls and develop the mind of that population Why should a man long to marry an under aged girl Why does the religion permit pedophilia? The uneducated child bride gives birth almajiri kids and others who will in turn be uneducated The cycle continues Human beings are supposed to make laws and when it doesn't make sense they change it to suit common sense 11 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by chuksmarvin(m): 8:06am On Aug 14, 2014 |
Do Yhu know the impression this gives me?....It means these filthy men from up there get hard-ons when they see my 13 yr old sister and her friends... It's animate!... I don't know what to do with these guys,...Charles Darwin and co would give up eternity to come and study and characterise these men!! 5 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by sweetgala(m): 8:11am On Aug 14, 2014 |
I don't understand their society, however the last paragraph explains it all "Our girls don't go to modern school because we don't have one, not even a primary school," the 44-year-old said. "Once our girls reach the age of 14 we marry them off... What do we keep them at home for?" OBJ messed up when he let sharia take hold in Nigeria,The girl has to be charged as a minor, murder is murder irrespective and it was obviously premeditated. And why isn't the state government investing in the lives of its citizenry's education and quality of life. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 8:13am On Aug 14, 2014 |
sweetgala: I don't understand their society, however the last paragraph explains it all They are investing in bombing their way to aso rock and islamizing Nigeria 8 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by UnimkeAk(m): 8:14am On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: it will still fall back to the government, will you give the people money to start a school? So they cant do levy? Dont they have wealthy men/women in their village. I agree with on the ignorance bit of your post. They need enlightenment which i beleive is the reason for getting educated. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by toluene12: 8:25am On Aug 14, 2014 |
PassingShot: u people have started again. which western country allows marriage at 14? only on very rare occasions are two minors allowed to marry, not a full grown adult taken advantage of a naive girl. try and present ur child bride in front of a judge in new york requesting for marriage certificate. he will view u with suspicion n scrutinize ur case thoroughly. the child will be snatched away from u and she'll be compelled to say u wanted to force her into marriage. u will he arrested, chained, thrown into jail and forced to admit being q child rapi.st for the rest of ur life. even in muslim countries like egypt, the legal age of marriage is 18. pls, enough is enough. stop looking for ways to validate a nonsense practise. 6 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by ItsAaliyah: 8:30am On Aug 14, 2014 |
PassingShot: Going by the account of the bride's father, she was not forced into marriage because she chose the man to marry and thus needs to face justice. End of story. WTF? Do you think if her father actually forced her into the marriage, he'll confess it to the public?! Her parents should be jailed and flogged for the rest of their pathetic lives. Who the fu..ck marries off a 14 year old baby to a 35 year old good for nothing loser? 4 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by ItsAaliyah: 8:35am On Aug 14, 2014 |
chuksmarvin: Do Yhu know the impression this gives me?...It means these filthy men from up there get hard-ons when they see my 13 yr old sister and her friends... Thank you for this comment. I just can't get over the fact that a full blooded male man will look at babies of 13 and 14 and actually get boners?! The stuppid fuc..ker deserved to die. If the police really need to arrest anyone, arrest the girl's parents. They deserve life imprisonment. 7 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by anonimi: 8:57am On Aug 14, 2014 |
And this is all happening right under the nose of the highly educated, former CBN governor now installed Emir of Kano 2 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Janetozi(f): 9:07am On Aug 14, 2014 |
I wonder how the northerner reason. When will they put an end to this nonsense culture of forcing their daughter into early marriage. Will they hold on to that culture 4ever? Well, if if they don't abolish the cultur, they culture will abolish them through poison and other means possible. I don't blame them, as their name goes "northerner" nothingness people. That man should rot in hell, he deserve to die, he die a necessary death. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 10:13am On Aug 14, 2014 |
What a waste of human life, what a tragic transition from child to womanhood! So sad.
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Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by DukeNija(m): 10:15am On Aug 14, 2014 |
iiichidodo: This should be counted as self defence as taking custody of a minor without its consent for whatever purposes is tantamount to kidnapping....Child kidnapping. There's nothing like without her consent because she consented. She murdered the Man. Period!! She's a murderer and might murder and murder in future. I'm not in support of child marriage but its their culture. Barbaric, yes, but its the way they do things there and she knows this. Her sisters all got married at 14, so why she decided to kill 4people is unimaginable. Other girls are now poisoning their husbands with the hope of being set free. They should go to the root of the matter by providing education for these people. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tuffgongjo(m): 10:17am On Aug 14, 2014 |
She will be jailed when she clocks 18,it is just sad that she will spend most of her youth in prison,which means her life may end up a waste which is a really really sad news. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by iiichidodo: 10:20am On Aug 14, 2014 |
DukeNija:There wasn't any consent whatsoever she was carted off against her will...Child kidnapping.If she kills my kidnapper then it is called self defence....Else the paedophile might go out there to kidnap and molest plenty more little girls or hoodwink guardians to sell him their little girls... 1 Like |
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