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Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 7:59pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
with the level of civilization this days,why would such reek law exist in the first place,am not against islam but such sharia law is too crude and foul |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
@ anonimi read this and educate yourself The high amount of mentally retarded and handicapped royalties throughout European history shows the unhealthy consequences of this practice. Luckily, the royal families have now allowed themselves to marry for love and not just for status. http://europenews.dk/en/node/34368 Within Islamic beliefs are practices that are destructive to the human race Without addressing those,change will never come These lower intelligence kids are the almajiris turned boko haram They are the same parents that would give their baby girls out in marriage It is the reason northerners perform poorly in standardized testings These things are all interwoven My theory is spot on 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by mcfarlin(m): 8:08pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
bukatyne: The fucktards will spend their lives defending the rights of men to be polygamous...yet they keep on trampling on the rights of women The only day I would start supporting these ABOKI's is when they start agitating for womens rights . Approving polyandry will be a starting point bukatyne: The fucktards will spend their lives defending the rights of men to be polygamous...yet they keep on trampling on the rights of women The only day I would start supporting these ABOKI's is when they start agitating for womens rights . Approving polyandry will be a starting point Am sure the phuctards will rather die than approve such. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by anonimi: 8:09pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
babyosisi: @ anonimi read this and educate yourself Thanks for sharing the article and the free education My concern is tagging the problem with Islam ONLY. Christianity had the same problem in Europe centuries/decades ago. The reality is that many of the reviled practices of Islam today were ALL practiced by Christian Europe centuries ago. Christians have evolved but Islam will also evolve in due course. We need to be conscious of that in our comments. Salam! Shalom!! Peace!!! 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Lightening: 8:22pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
PassingShot: Myopia at work. You are at a great pain defending an abominable practice that has started backfiring. Okay go ahead and take your own infant wife and get poisoned too. Mchewwee 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 8:25pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
how many right thinking humans would marry of a 14yr old daugther. 3 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by PassingShot(m): 8:35pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
Lightening: You're bereft of intellectual ability to understand and make any meaningful contribution to the discourse. If not, you will be able to comprehend the fact that this happens all the time even in our so called advance southern part of Nigeria. When people who are blessed uptairs are talking, nincompos like you should remain muted. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 10:38pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Lol really? child marriages are not practiced in the west? Wiki says... The laws in many countries allow child marriages, that is the marriage of girls and boys less than 18 years of age. The minimum legally approved age of marriage is less than 15 in some countries. Such laws are neither limited to developing countries, nor to state religion. In Europe, for example, Catholic canon law sets 14 as the minimum age for the marriage of girls, [52] as does Spain with a legal guardian's permission. [53] In North America, girls can be legally married at age 15 in Mexico. Canada and many states in the USA permit child marriages, with court's permission . http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_marriage and the last time I checked a girl of 11 years old gave birth to a child in the west, kids are now having sexx? 2 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 10:42pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
PassingShot:Your posts are making sense. nice. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by PassingShot(m): 10:49pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: Your posts are making sense. Thanks. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by pickabeau1: 10:51pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: Your posts are making sense. What Is your opinion on child marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 10:51pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
babyosisi: @ anonimi read this and educate yourselfcan you start stating the practices? @ bold |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 11:04pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Force marriage - I'm not in support, my religion doesn't allow that. about child marriage I'm only in support if a girl is "matured" and marry the man of her choice. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 11:07pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
PassingShot:You're welcome. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by pickabeau1: 11:09pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: That much is clear..as Islam is clear on this In this case do you think it is cultural or religious? Meanwhile where have u been all the while |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 11:11pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
It is time to gas all those Northerners practicing pedophile in Nigeria. Please, good people of Nigeria help to support and save the life of this enslaved underage girl! SAY NO TO CHILD MOLESTATION IN NORTHERN NIGERIA. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by light574(m): 11:35pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
eldoradoxx: My views on this issue may be offensive to some persons but the brutal truth. If a 14yr year old girl everywhere can be mature enough to give consent and have sex and enjoy the show, why not allow them marry than continue raising baby factories everywhere ? You see, even in advanced world 13 is the right age for consent by a girl. So why is our law just as it is in UK and America recognise that a girl can give consent to sex at age 13 (and perhaps free to become a prostitute or baby factory worker from then) but not free to legally marry ? Islam and Christainity have same provisions for marriage, which is age of puberty which is almost the same as the age of consent, so I don't see why this fuse ? But for the instant case, if indeed the girl was forced into the marriage, then we could say that from onset there was no consent and thus, every intercourse should be viewed as rape and the poisoning an act of provocation which should mitigate the offence. provocation wont hold here, she had tym enough to plan n execute d poisoning...i had pick self defence, viewing poisoning as d only way she (thought) could reasonably escape d repeated unconsented molestations(if proven) |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 11:37pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I don't think it is cultural nor religion, it is purely ignorance. Tradition changes from generation to generation, people bring new tradition and people abandon some traditional practices. e.g car driving, watching tv is not part of our tradition but now it is part of us. Meanwhile where have u been all the whileI'm kinda busy this days, thanks for the concern. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by Nobody: 11:41pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: I don't think it is cultural nor religion, it is purely ignorance. Prophet Mohammed married a 6 year old who was playing with dolls ,are you calling him ignorant? 2 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by pickabeau1: 11:54pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
tintingz: I don't think it is cultural nor religion, it is purely ignorance. OK..so what do we think we can do...this acts are still ancient Islam is clear that d girl must be mature and can make her choice Do you think that was followed in this case Good to have u around Please ignore the bigot.. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by delishpot: 1:45am On Aug 15, 2014 |
If this religion so cherish their girl children, why not open a vocational center or school where they can be educated for a token? Or free? Why are they pushing them to be beded by men as a way out of poverty? I dont get it at all. All these wahala will end if the girls were educated in vocation or career and then when she turns 18 she can decide if she wants to marry or move on with her education. Na wa. I understand if its 18 year old young man marrying a 14 year old ( not that its better o but at least he is young like here and they will both have same mentality )but a man of 35?, him greedy sha. Na virginity all of them dey pursue. Islam and va gay gay goes hand in hand. Eh if una plan to attack me for my comment**********#IWearBulletProofVestHideUnderBed**************Cant touch this one! |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 5:51am On Aug 15, 2014 |
pickabeau1:All what they need is enlightenment and education. Islam is clear that d girl must be mature and can make her choiceLike have said, people forcing their daughters to marry are ignorant, poor and this is not Islamic. “And test the orphans [in your charge] until they reach a marriageable age; then, if you find them to be mature of mind/sound in judgment, hand over to them their possessions…” (Quran, 4:6) O You who have chosen to be graced with belief! It is not lawful for you to force women into marrying or holding on to them in marriage against their will. (Quran, 4:19) ^^ this Quran verses said it all. Good to have u aroundLol, I asked her to state the destructive Islam practice have caused to human race like she claimed, she ignored my question. let me ask her another question, it is good to educate some people on what they don't have knowledge of. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by tintingz(m): 6:21am On Aug 15, 2014 |
babyosisi:God in the bible impregnated little Mary can we call that ignorant? and you should know that Joseph is very much older than Mary. 1. Aisha(ra) was betrothed at the age of 6, girls at that age above are matured in those ancient days. in Western countries marriageable age for girls start from 12 in the past, now we see them celebrating sweet 16 and we see them shifting it to 18. ...but we still hear of 11 year old girl that gave birth in the west. 2. Aisha never show any sign of sadness, she's happy on the day of her marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by pickabeau1: 6:39am On Aug 15, 2014 |
tintingz: All what they need is enlightenment and education. Good.... So we agree this practice seems to be contrary to the dictates of the religion More evidence can be seen in that it is disproportionately foisted on the poor as the rich let their daughters marry when of age. That is why I asked initially is it religious or cultural The defenders of these acts plead religion...that's where I get confused 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by vedaxcool(m): 9:20am On Aug 15, 2014 |
tintingz: God in the bible impregnated little Mary can we call that ignorant? and you should know that Joseph is very much older than Mary. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by dealslip(f): 10:44am On Aug 15, 2014 |
PassingShot: This is not a matter of some western law but the fact that whether the girls in that part of Nigeria like it or not, by 14 years they must be married. In the West you are talking about, they allow them to marry if they want to be married at 14 and, plus, including with parental consent. In this case, she had no choice or say on the age for her to marry. Her choice was equally limited to three men chosen by her Father. If she had chosen any of the other two men , they will be in the dead man's shoes. come to think of a full grown man's peni.s tearing through her at his first sexual impulse. It is enough to be bitter. I don't support murder though. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by dealslip(f): 10:52am On Aug 15, 2014 |
tintingz: God in the bible impregnated little Mary can we call that ignorant? and you should know that Joseph is very much older than Mary.Kindly point out the particular verse in the bible where it was recorded that Mary was a little girl when she conceived by the miracle of the Holy Ghost. See God didn't impregnate her like the blasphemy you wrote above. The same God that instituted multiplication of man, in all His great wisdom can by pass the normal process of multiplication because he was the one that invented the natural process in the first place. Don't be blinded by religious sentiment. Read I Cor 7 then you will understand God's marriage timing. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by dealslip(f): 10:56am On Aug 15, 2014 |
delishpot: If this religion so cherish their girl children, why not open a vocational center or school where they can be educated for a token? Or free? Why are they pushing them to be beded by men as a way out of poverty? Don't mind them, the girls eventually get VVF, they then abandon them and still blame Jonathan for the backwardness in their state. Dangote's daughter got married at the age of 18 years, he is a northerner and a muslim. Same goes for IBB's daughter at almost 30 years. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by PassingShot(m): 11:10am On Aug 15, 2014 |
dealslip: You're right but what do you think is the way out? Surely the problem is not only with the parents. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by PassingShot(m): 11:19am On Aug 15, 2014 |
pickabeau1: It will be ignorance to associate this to religion only. I saw this live and direct in Agagbe, a remote village in Benue where they're predominantly Christians. Islam hasn't specified a particular age for marriage and clearly states that the consent of the girl in question is a must before she can be married. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by iswallker(m): 11:28am On Aug 15, 2014 |
gerrardomendes: What is my business? in your dream bah...yimu.. |
Re: Deep Divisions Over Nigerian Child Bride On Murder Charge by pickabeau1: 11:35am On Aug 15, 2014 |
PassingShot: I agreed with this. I am saying proponents of child mariage claim it is allowed religiously Thats why my first question was this: Is this a cultural or religious issue |
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