babyosisi:

I agree
Ladies don't keep side bobos when they are fully into a relationship
If there are doubts about the main guy, Don't chase away other serious admirers with potentials
Don't sleep around but keep some assistant boyfriends that you can always upgrade to a higher status when the main one fails

onstelly: I use to be of the opnion that is not right but after what I went through, I so support this side guy of a thing

WackyJ1:

See this one

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Another female parading as a man on Nl
Smh

xynerise:
Friendzone is like the substitution seat in a football pitch. He might get lucky to play in the pitch

lalasticlala: My cousin sister called me sometime ago, that she would wanna see me. I asked her where she was, she told me to meet her at a fast food joint. About an hour later, I was there. I met her in company of a her very pretty friend and one guy.

I fixed my eyes more on her friend and took few glances at the guy. I noticed that the guy actually took them out because of my cousin. But I was worried.
My worry stemmed from the fact that I knew my cousin's man, as in her fiance or something and the guy I saw with her was definitely not the guy I knew.
I said to myself, may be it's just a harmless date.

Later, I asked my cousin About her main guy, she said he's OK. Then she made me understand that the guy I met with her was just a new friend that likes her and wants a date. I asked her what her answer was since she already has a guy.
She bluntly and confidently told me that she can't put her eggs in one basket.
" Hey!! bros, I can't put my eggs in one basket, what if Chucks disappoints me tomorrow and decides to marry another girl? I will just keep this guy as a 'side guy' in case of disappointments ooo!!"
These were her exact words.

I burst out in laughter. Shuooooo!!! I thought that it's only some few guys that have "side chicks".

Well, I tried to encourage her to maintain just one guy at a time since Chucks, her main guy has shown sign of seriousness in their relationship. But she wouldn't hear of that.

So babes, what's your take on having a "side guy" in case of disappointment? Does it worth it?
What of in the course of having the so called "side guy" and the main guy discovers and she loses the main guy or even loses both guys?

If a babe must have a side guy in case of 'disappointment', how would she go about it? Would there be sex with the side guy?

bustyhelen: whats dis 1 saying?

MrsChima: If she is not married. .she shouldn't have to settle for one guy.

I didn't say go Bleep many guys...I said don't settle until it's exclusive.

Danhumprey: Reminds me of Mikel Obi a la Chelsea. It's obvious coach Mourinho has 'bench-zoned' him,making Mikel the 'side guy' while prefering Matic as the 'main guy'.

RuudNisterooy: Wahhhh! Are you kidding me? . 10yrs ban?! Is that even possible? . Whose nest did you rustle that fetched you such a sentence?
Can't believe it...
Lemme go and peep @ Orabelle tho .

henryobinna: OP abeg tell me, which jazz you dey use make frontpage na. or you fit write ebook on 'how to make frontpage on NL' I'll gladly buy

Tallesty1: Most girls have sides guys, it is not new. Infact Girls have more side guys, than guys but what they don't know is that it complicates things for them. If you don't trust guys then stop investing emotionaly in your relationship. Her reason is no excuse at all. A girl's heart, like her body, is not designed to handle side guys. It kills their ability to bond. Side guys/girls is the reason most people do not work on their relationship because there is an alternative. If you don't like/trust your partner then BREAKUP.

Cmanforall:
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FIXED.
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No need thanking me. What are friends for?

Dygeasy: Having a side guy isn't even as DANGEROUS and TERRIFYING as this;

2sExy1:

FrankySnow: I only asked a question o

Margy:

And it is a yes yes for me

cirmuell: I don't at all, so you support her decision her?

xynerise: Having a ''Side guy'' is absolutely necessary these days. Guys are getting irresponsible by the day and girls shouldn't take that chance and ''miss the train going to heaven''. One thing that I totally disagree with having a side guy is the involvement of sex in the affair.

GatJokez:

Naaa, one man is more than enough for me .... How I see it: one man = one headache, two men or more = too many headaches for me hahaha

I do understand why some women feel it's only fair to have a backup boo cuz many men seem not to have a problem with having second, third, etc babes. I'm good with whom I have and wouldn't want him to have a backup babe ... so, I'll play nice

So, cirmuell, you don't believe in having backup babes?