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| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by bootas(m): 12:13pm On Jan 21, 2009 |
hey,guess wat i am in the same situation right nw,if not worse,my girlfriend got a word in church dat i am truely her future husband,she belives so much dat we cant give birth to SS.but sincerely,i dont think i ve dat kind of faith,i am still confussed on wat 2 do,my mum has told me to leave her,but believe me,its not easy.but in situation like dis,i believe God sees the begining from the end.if we are mearnt for each other God word ll surely come to pass.if not,well, but as at nw,i am planning to use my head not my heart, |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by sampeter(m): 12:38pm On Jan 21, 2009 |
My fellow house member, it is an axiom that A STITCH IN TIME SAVES NINE. The bitter truth is that, reconcile with the reality by doing the needful. Dont let pple deceive you by telling u to carry-on in the name of 'there is nothing God cannot do' God does not wellcome stupidity. Prevention is Better than cure,the aftermat might be too grave that you will regret ever entering the relationship,make hay while the sunshine. If you truely love the girl and urself LET GO OF HER.  |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by Taken(m): 12:47pm On Jan 21, 2009 |
@--- hey,guess wat i am in the same situation right nw,if not worse,my girlfriend got a word in church dat i am truely her future husband,she belives so much dat we cant give birth to SS --- She got the word from someone in church or from God himself? What about you, where do you get your word from? Well if both got the word from God with all sincerity without any self deceptions, well go for it. But you should remember that Moses did not take it easy when it comes to going back to Egypt - God magnificently assured him. To be or not to be, that is the question! |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by touchmeder: 2:20pm On Jan 21, 2009 |
alternatively,your madam can always go for screening abroad during pregnancy to determine the genotype and an option of abortion is offered.but what about the stress and the guilt. i dont mean to be cynical but please lets do a reality check.until we find ourselves in certain positions we cant really say the extent we can react. This to me is one of the best answers i have read so far. Do u have the money and resources to send her abroad for screening and determine the genotype of the baby and make that painful decision to abort the child? i heard of a family that did this and now have AA and AS children only? Do you have money for the bone marrow thing they do? i have a relation with an SS child, she had the best care and love ,her parents fortunately are wealthy she had check ups done outside Nigeria on a regular basis. she died. leaving her parents devastated in old age. she was all they had luckily they had an adopted son. Can you adopt will you agree to do this and live happily? i have heard SS children who got cured claiming to be healed (i know of one or two) i also know of SS who God so kind do not suffer as much as the majority but these cases are so so few. i am more familiar with the ones that suffer greatly SS class mates and even recently a family friend i happned to stay with. the experiences are not good i tell you. when this girl starts with her crises the house is on fire.i saw this with my own eyes i lived with them. i still wonder y people will want to thread this path. Enough has bin said |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by kokoye(m): 9:52pm On Jan 21, 2009 |
I hear Pastor T.B Joshua @ Synagogue is recruiting AS epople for his medical research and breakthrough - u might wanna try him out. If dat one no work - check out Sat Guru Maharaji on Lagos Ibadan expressway and you will never remain the same  , Why risk 95% pain, anxiety and suffering for your children (not you) if you can avoid it? Are we trying to tempt God here?? It's a different thing if you guys did not know, but you do. Like the others have mentioned, adoption is a good option. Here in the states, once the medical teams knows ur carrying an SS baby, they 'take care' of it. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by MrCrackles(m): 9:55pm On Jan 21, 2009 |
chika98: Na so we see am oo! Longtime!  |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by Tawak: 12:16am On Jan 22, 2009 |
THEN THERE IS NO POINT HANGIN ON, U GUYS SHOULD EX EACHODA |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by allboyz(m): 1:57am On Jan 22, 2009 |
@ Topic - what do you think? I think for love marry,give birth to tw0 kids and maybe adopt. Pray o0o the first two might be AS AS / AS AA And worst - SS AA/AS SS |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by dean2725: 5:42am On Jan 22, 2009 |
i think there is a way you can know the genotypic status of a child during pregnancy. i have a brother, his wife and himself are both AS and they are doing great. They have 4 healthy children without any SS. They used to go for the test for every pregnant and once they know the status of the baby to be AS, they opt for abortion. May be you do more reseach on it. I advise the poster to do the test many time with different doctor and ensure they are competent doctor with good equipments. A sister of mine did the test when she was in the University (Unijos) and she was tested to be AA. She did another one during her youth service, and also tested AA. But the story changed when she married and, after a while, relocated to Saudi Arabia. She had a cause to do the test again in Saudi and she was tested AS. Subsequent tests (here in US) showed she is AS. i know this is what some people will define as miracle, but not every case like this is miracle. Good equipment and experinced not quack doctors can do the miracle too. Though her husband is AA, but what if the husband happen to be AS? i will advise you to go on with the girl if you have the BELIEF.Talk to your God. He is the one who looks after the AAs, the ASs, the SS and even the DDs, the WWs and APs if they exist. However, the first two might not be SS if you are lucky and if you are the type who love to be counting his children in dozen, i think you have a rethink now! |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by DrTony1(m): 9:24am On Jan 22, 2009 |
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| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by DrTony1(m): 9:24am On Jan 22, 2009 |
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| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by DrTony1(m): 9:25am On Jan 22, 2009 |
A S Partners should NOT!!! Break Up.The only fear is that When A S partners reproduce,In genetics,they tend to produce an offspring which is a Sickler(S S) which is at a probability of 0.25 or 1/4.That is d chances are quite slim to reproduce a sickler,Reason is because there is a probability of havin a 1 sickler out of every 4 Children d partners reproduce. So my advice 2 U is go ahead n MARRY but never produce multiple offspring to reduce d chances of an S S being born.Dont be a part of abortion,also go 4 genetic counselling by a Specialist Doctor and always have faith n trust God.Thanks n God Bless U |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by smeet: 3:06pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
Seek advice from those people that have SS child, after which you can decide for yourself the best option. In case you still go ahead with it, be warned and be prepared in case the inevitable comes knocking at your door, |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by kokoye(m): 3:39pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
Dr.Tony: So what if the very first one turns out to be SS?? Easy for y'all to say. I have an auntie who had 4 kids and two of them were SS - and they both died after turning 9yrs?? so 1 in 4 is NOT always the case cos I know. Even the parents said it out loud that they regret putting themselves and those kids (including the ones still alive) through such pain and misery. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by ogre(m): 10:36pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
Long thing, long thing. You can say love will triump and loads of other bollocks but seriously, it's close to being a very long thing. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by gozzilla(m): 10:39pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
Love wont conquer this. Only your faith. but why tempt God and give birth to a child that will curse your love everyday the pain sets in. I understand, we all dread this moment. I lost a good girl on same ground. Move on the earlier the better before one of you go do something stupid. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by MrCrackles(m): 10:41pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
gozzilla: Buffoon, what is tempting God there? Why did God bring the two of them together? Sleep over it!  |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by gozzilla(m): 10:50pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
I guess everything is a joke for you. So i will try to ignore you. But for real why do something you can tell the consequence of. Why let a child suffer for your love. I thought love is selfless thinking of others. Mr Crackles i can assume you are dumb to this issues or better off, just plain heartless |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by MrCrackles(m): 10:53pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
gozzilla: I asked you a bloody question, you should answer it or fucking shut up! You dont have a bloody clue, yet you come around here to run your mouth and talk rubbish! Muppet!!!! If you answer my two questions in my first post to you, then i will slap myself 20times, dingbat! |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by gozzilla(m): 11:05pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
I like your kind, ignorant folks with no regard for life. Certainly he didn't tell us who is doing the tempting but they both are. And why did God allow them come together? seriously do you deserve an answer. You decide to run your mouth on me did God also make you do that. Dumb ass, this stuff are called choices, they choose to fall in love. Nothing stops them from falling out of it. Man i cann't get you most time, you just too funny and it seems it is dulling you in and out. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by MrCrackles(m): 11:08pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
gozzilla: Absolute mumbo-jumbo dat dont even deserve the trash can is all i can describe your comment as! 2 questions became a mammoth task for you to achieve? u failed miserably and woefully because you were going back and forth like a recliner Shiorr on you, i cant be bothered with you no more! Waste of bloody time on a useless sacrificial fowl like you |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by gozzilla(m): 11:13pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
Fair enough! Wish i could just say may you be As may your wife be AS and may all your kids be SS. But i really cann't say it. It is not my style. Fair enough sha |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by MrCrackles(m): 11:16pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
gozzilla: Fuckhead, i am SS, so eat a dic.k because i am fucking hale, hearty and fresh to death!! Living proof to put oxymorons like you to shame Goodnite kid |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by gozzilla(m): 11:23pm On Jan 22, 2009 |
You are SS? o dear should i be feeling sorry or apologising to you. Is that the reason for your approach to life? Man i wish you well. So they should go ahead and get married, Mr crackles has spoken!!!!!! |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by coffri(f): 1:13pm On Jan 23, 2009 |
So they should go ahead and get married, Mr crackles has spoken!!!!!! @ gozzilla lol , Abi oooooooooo@ Mr. Brash  |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by DeusNoir: 7:14pm On Jan 23, 2009 |
@ Original Poster: There is a 1 in 4 chance of your potential child having the sickle cell disease and a 1 in 2 chance of him/her just carrying the recessive gene (like you and your GF) If abortion isn't an option for you, I recommend counseling and educating yourself as much as you can on the disease and how to cope with disease etc. @ Taken: Can God create a stone so heavy that even he can't lift? |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by Taken(m): 9:48pm On Jan 23, 2009 |
@ Deus_Noir man mi or woman mi, I no understand wetin you talk. But generally, God can create anything He desires and give power to lift it. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jan 23, 2009 |
Sickle cell Don't pray your worst enemy has it. Too much pain, to much ill health. You can get married as long as u find a way of preventing your unborn from having it. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by DeusNoir: 9:56pm On Jan 23, 2009 |
Taken: Taken, If God can do anything. Can God create a stone that is too heavy for God himself to lift? |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by Taken(m): 9:58pm On Jan 23, 2009 |
Now that is a different issue. If God say make them marry and they are sure about that, God go transform them into healthy pple b4 them born picins - I think. But it is now up to them to verify that - that is why I mentioned Moses, the man no wan go back to Egypt, but God assured him with undeniable signs and wonders. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by madskillz: 11:58pm On Jan 23, 2009 |
abeg marry o jare, who knows u may just have twins a boy and girl the very first time and both may be AA or AS!! just marry if u want to. |
| Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Both As. We've Just Found Out by madskillz: 12:01am On Jan 24, 2009 |
abeg marry o jare, who knows u may just have twins a boy and girl the very first time and both may be AA or AS!! just marry if u want to. |
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