Fluffy:

@allonym

I think kissing with your eyes open happens when u are not fully enjoying the experience.
If a kiss is realy good u won't be able to keep your eyes open even if you wanted to.
Closing your eyes should not even be something to think about, it is suppose to just happen.

I think u and I have to meet up so I can demonstrate to u what exactly I'm talking about

Just tell me the time and place and I'll be there

can't you talk or you are too happy

Dont mind them jare Allonym, kissing has nofing to do with openning or closing ur eyes, these ppl are just falling into the cliches of their time, why do i have to close my eyes when i dont feel like. during my first expereience as a 15 year-old lad i also closed my eyes cos the gal did the same and i knew that she was more experienced than me bu after that i decided to wisen-up and respect ma feeling by not closing my eyes and i realised that i enjoyed it more when i opened ma eyes.Infact kissing has nothing to do with opening or closing yor eyes ,its just a matter of you being in love with someone and showing it.
Be youself open your eyes or close it.

When I kiss, my eyes close naturally. I don't control it. It adds to the sensation because now all your energy goes to your sense of feeling and touching as opposed to sight.

Lets just conclude that there are 2 sets of people in this forum. 1.Romantic. 2.Non Romantic set 1 close their eyes while set 2 dont.I belong to set 1.

Kave:

Lets just conclude that there are 2 sets of people in this forum. 1.Romantic. 2.Non Romantic set 1 close their eyes while set 2 don't.I belong to set 1.

that is crap - i've been told i'm romantic so you are obviously wrong

Kissing with eyes wide open is not romantic!
It's WEIRD and CREEPY!

The question now sould be who started kissing and how did they kiss? Then we will know whypeopleclose thier eyes while kissing.

Fluffy:

Kissing with eyes wide open is not romantic!
It's WEIRD and CREEPY!

this is still an opinion. . . not a fact. . .

@ allonym

Oh u again, I know u're just dying to try it out
I'm still waiting for my answer

hmm, meet me at Green Park, in three hours then.

@ kave,lets just conclude that there are 2 sets of people in this forum. 1.Romantic. 2.Non Romantic set 1 close their eyes while set 2 don't.I belong to set 1. hahahahahaha

True talk

There are obviously two sets of people posting in this topic. Reading the replies brought to mind the fight betwen the Lilliputians and the Blefescuans on the right way to crack an egg. Based on that, I think we have the "open-eyed-kissers" and the "closed-eyed-kissers". I haven't kissed anyone before but I think I'd love to keep my eyes open while doing so,

When you look into the eyes of someone while kissing her [him], I think it heightens the passion. It's kind of, "here I am staring into the beautiful eyes of the [, ] I'm kissing." If you feel you have ugly eyes [red from ogogoro or something] then close them. Eye contact is important -- at least I think so.

_{Like my Dad says, "Love is blind but you can keep one eye open."}

@Zahymaka

You can't be that close to someone and still look into their eyes

@allonym

There is no Green Park in Swakopmund / Namibia

Sorry your loss

hey allonymn, i know its natural cause i dont tell myself to close my eyes, i jus do

I find it natural too. I don't think open eyes, I just do.

The only reason you couldn't look into someones eyes when you are extremely close to them is if they have shut their eyes. I have my eyes examined about once every two years, so, its definitely not a response from someone being close to you. Its an ingrained behavior which I have managed to escape.

@ allonym

Do your kissers normally shut his/her eyes? Or keep them open like you? If they're shut, what do you look at? Just wondering.

i didn't know the only place I was allowed to look was into their eyes. The ONE recipient usually has eyes closed,

however, i look at the entire face and more depending on what I can see.

Oh, no I wasn't saying a person can only look into the eyes. As a woman or as myself, I can't see much past the man's face. . .yes, I've snuck a peek. . .so that's why I asked.

lol . . as a woman or as yourself. . . identity crises?

allonym:

lol . . as a woman or as yourself. . . identity crises?

Ha! You get what I mean. Anyhow, maybe kissing w/ eyes open isn't so weird or rare. Look -----> She's doing it.

It is rude to stare while kissing

it just happens. if u know u are closing your eyes, then it is bad. it shld just happen, without u actually closing it.

come engineer omobolanle, , which kin engineer u be?

it just takes more passion.

kissing with open eyes that's just weird

why

Kissing with eyes closed is simply an expression of enjoyment with passion and not always love.

it's nice and that's when u enjoy it good

Huh how do u know it's nice?

eveseh:

it's nice and that's when u enjoy it good

exactly!

thanks,u enjoy it when u close ur eyes

and u feeel the person u are kissing in side you

U'll every word is sooooo right!

2 me, it's jst an automatic tin! i jst automatically close ma eyes!!