U knew they are Sisters why did you go for the younger one?
Is that the only family that has women?
U re just being myopic if not you should have known better.
U ave bi-littled ursef and it is very clear that you took advantage of the younger cos you couldnt see far enuff to know there other girls out there.
The elder sister know you very well and she is trying to put a stop to the relationship cos u gat a problem.
Be it as it may tell the younger sister and if it was meant to be let it be if not WAKE UP! man.

tell us d outcome now!!!
Abi alarm don blow?

Update pls

abi the two sisters don show u say blood is thicker than water (love)!!

@Mypeace, why u wan know the full details?
Abi the same don happen to u too?
Talk true cos we fit give u advice.

Men, u slept with 2 sisters? Damn!!! Thats the shit!, thats what i'm talking about!
Now move up the ladder, Sleep with tripplets

whitelexi:

Men, u slept with 2 sisters? Damn!!! Thats the shit!, thats what i'm talking about!
Now move up the ladder, Sleep with tripplets

word.

Good day 2 u all,
I must first of all apologize for keeping you guys in suspense all these while, I had to get over some stress but i believe I'm better now.

As i earlier said, people do make mistakes in life but one should never make one that he/she would regret all the days of your life. People are never actually how they look as looks atimes are deceptive, never assume as the probability of it being wrong is there. As a friend once told me, "It is better for one to experience downfall/failure while he/she is young as you would still have an opportunity to make amend, because if you experience downfall/failure in your old age you wouldn't have another opportunity". I made a huge mistake by sleeping with the younger sister, but don't regret it due to the fact that she was just my type girl (she was worth the stress). Stuffs do happen every now and then and one should never joke with his/her emotions.

I had it very rough initially as i found it difficult telling anyone about my predicament but once i posted on the site and got genuine advices/response from you all. I felt a bit of relief, you guys @ nairaland are GREAT as its like we look out for each other. I just want want to say "THANK U ALL" for being beside me all these while.

So what next,

[color=#990000]JUDGMENT[/color]
It wasn't easy to say as the words were heavy, I had conditioned my mind for the worse b4 i told her. Such things could throw one off balance for awhile. I told her the whole truth about I and the elder sis, that i was really sorry 4 what I'm making her go through emotionally. Although i told her that what i felt for her was real, just that i met the elder sis b4 her. After this, there was silence between us for like 10 minutes. She didn't say a word and just left in tears. She switched off her phone and refused to talk to me for over a week, I had to travel this weekend to try and see her.

Finally, I got her to talk and was really pissed, but we made out and decided we stop seeing each other. I'm sure that was the best for both of us, although its kinda difficult for me. Someone you talk 2 everyday, to all of a sudden stop calling her (at least for a while) but I'm trying not to call or sms her.

So thats it, once again i say Thank u all!!!!!

1love

Umu Nwoke!!! Unu di egwu


Da Junta, I think you did the best thing. Shit happens!

look, i feel for u bro, but if she is the one for u dont give up her so quickly, trust me i know good women just like good men in nigeria are hard to find. Yes what u did was extremely useless, but like u said u are still young and a good lesson u have made. if i was u i wouldnt give u p so easily, she will admire u for that. she is just doing shakara but thigns can be worked out nad tell her sister to go and screw herself and leave u alone. there is nothign the sister can do unless she wants to be embarassed publicly for chasing after her younger sister's man. look bro be a man, accept the blame, and go after ur babe. plus if u took my advice it would make a great nigerian movie

Right behind ya angelzzz
This guys just irritate me with his "Help me"!!!
It's plain,u are out to hurt people but u sure will get urs soon.

lip sealed

sisisisi:

Right behind ya angelzzz
This guys just irritate me with his "Help me"!!!
It's plain,u are out to hurt people but u sure will get urs soon.

Sisi na wa 4 u. Do u wnt d guy 2 kill himself, he realised wat he did was wrong and wants to make amend. You can sit around and make silly comments, for him to bring this to the house means that he really wants to make amend of his past, so that his future will be better. I dont think he will get involved in such anymore.


Peace,

Dont seal ur lips, speak out. We are all here to assist each other, i learn from you and you from me. Thats the only way 4 a better and stronger world.

Im out,

dude oh dude ure baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad

Bros. bros .bros. U are wrong. How can u slp wit 2 biological sisters. Guy,try 2 dey try. U ar in Lust not Luv.

Bros. bros .bros. U are wrong. How can u slp wit 2 biological sisters. Guy,try 2 dey try. U ar in Lust not Luv.

Bros. bros .bros. U are wrong. How can u slp wit 2 biological sisters. Guy,try 2 dey try. U ar in Lust not Luv.

Zam, na wa 4 u. U might have done worse things, just dat u wont open up. It aint easy 4 one 2 own up to a wrong doing, although what is bad is bad.

Guy I hail u jo! Abeg dem get anoda sister, Hook a broda up

@ principle
Primo:I am not making silly comments!!
Secondo:I am entitled to my opinion.If u don't like it,there are nicer ways of saying so,instead of using uncalled for words.
Thirdly,he didn't ask anyone's opinion b4 doing what he did so why should he do so now?
Was he blind? nop
Was he mentally challenged? nop
Then why did he do it? Only God knows_{and himself}

The good news is,he realised his mistake and all i can say is good luck and learn to keep of from stuff like these.They only make people hate you,even if u are a nice guy_{whatever that means}
GOOD LUCK

sisisisi:

@ principle
Primo:I am not making silly comments!!
Secondo:I am entitled to my opinion.If u don't like it,there are nicer ways of saying so,instead of using uncalled for words.
Thirdly,he didn't ask anyone's opinion before doing what he did so why should he do so now?
Was he blind? nop
Was he mentally challenged? nop
Then why did he do it? Only God knows_{and himself}

The good news is,he realised his mistake and all i can say is good luck and learn to keep of from stuff like these.They only make people hate you,even if u are a nice guy_{whatever that means}
GOOD LUCK

You know sometimes answers come in very strange ways.

Da junta i feel you brother and i appreciate you bringing up this topic, as we all learn not only from our personal experiences but also form other people's experiences.

Right now i am about to fall into this same dilenma, and it has been an issue that has been eating me up, i have talked and prayed seeking an answer, and lo and behold i stumble on this topic.

I have read with keen interest all the post, and i now realise that as much as we want our personal feelings and cravings to come to past we have to look at the consequences of our actions, and the effect it will have on all involved.

The only difference btw you and I is the fact that i haven't slept with the sister, and after reading everything and asking advice and praying over the whole thing, as much as i feel i am with the right person, i know my relationship with the elder sister will always be an issue which will not/never disappear. So i have to put my feelings and desires aside, no matter how good my intentions for the younger sister might be. It will never be understood.

Love is a very funny thing, you never chose who you end up falling in love with, but you actually can control how the aftershocks of that love affects everyone, and sometimes LOVE means letting go of some things.

So Da Junta take heart Bro, at least you have the priviledge of knowing that others also find themselves in this same situation and worst, so you are not strange (as some folks are making you out to be on this thread). I personally have found answers from this thread and i will be grateful to you (no matter what happens) for putting it up.

Cheers Mate.

@loyika from _{sport to romance}

well do what you feel is right ,sometimes the heart plays dangerous games on us,
the ones we think we love are not really in our hearts ,our hearts knows when the one we love is closeby, . . .

What were u thinking
level up with younger sister. Let her find out from u or else,

@ Loyika,
Im happy that my post has touched someone positively, atleast u wont find yourself in such a dilenma. You said u had prayed and seeked 4 an answer, that it was eating u up. Huh, my brother if u had gone ahead it will not only eat you up, it will definately swallow you.

I believe this forum is where one can share his/her experiences so that everyone can benefit from. We are here 4 each other, so stick to your girl as if u do otherwise , ?

Im sure your wise, cos wise men learn from other people's experience.

Take care bro and be cool

abormination you must slaghter a goat and fowl

olusola200:

abormination you must slaghter a goat and fowl

Oh boy! Na wa 4 u, at this time of civilisation you are still talking of rituals
I am really shocked, i bet your still into idol stuff.

Have a rethink cos u need to be saved.

radiant where have you been?

Muki gal, I had exams men. . . couldn't risk coming to NL

I wasn't banned!!!

Sup with ya now?

yeah girl hope you flew over the exams with flyin colours

ok . .i missed you around . . .the house . .

Awwwwwwwww. . . I missed you too and the rest of the crew

My exams were indeed good. Sleepless nights but it was worth it. Have my last one on thursday.

wish you well girl . .you'll skate thru it all