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Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:21am On Mar 28, 2009
sillyboy:

4. . . . . . .Now he will not give me food money,
Dont you work? It's really stupid and archaic for a woman to depend on a man even if he's the hubby to eat in this century. If i were him, I wouldnt give you for 3 months, maybe that will make u look for a job.
For real!
Thanks you!

"I love you, I love you" does not mean "You can depend on me" wink
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by C2H5OH(f): 2:22am On Mar 28, 2009
sillyboy:

1. . . . . .my husband slapped me twice when i was lying on bed because i asked him why he is sleeping without taking his bath,

I find that difficult to believe. He couldnt have slapped you because of that. Twice for that matter.

2. . . . . . .[/b] i got so angry and insulted him,
You must have really struck a bad chord. What exactly did you say to him, what are the unpleasant stuffs you said?. . . .Am curious. . .lol. Women and their "tolotolo" mouth sha!

like this
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Cristalz(f): 2:23am On Mar 28, 2009
Ebony-Silk:

I don't get it, how could she have possibly said it?

She said he was gentle before.  . . .why would she all of a sudden disrespect him?


  Dearie, read her post again.  .  .she said he was gentle and stuff when they were dating. Same way I'm sure she never said anything resembling ''I will abort your baby'' when they were dating.
  See? Equation balanced. The lady hasn't been entirely honest here, plain and simple.

  It's not an ''all of a sudden thing''. I strongly believe a lot of events happened previously which is why her husband lost control and hit her. I mean, think about it.  .  .he slaps her, keeps malice and refuses her feeding money all because she told him to go shower? Does that make sense? Come on.
  Something else happened, and she is wrong to keep mum about her part in pushing him this much.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:25am On Mar 28, 2009
sillyboy:

1. . . . . .my husband slapped me twice when i was lying on bed because i asked him why he is sleeping without taking his bath,

I find that difficult to believe. He couldnt have slapped you because of that. Twice for that matter.

This is where i smell sh.it too undecided

Ebony-Silk:

If it bothers me, I'd let him know.
Awww, thanks for the consideration wink

Good . . . . . now get off my case wink


Oh BTW, I read your explanation on the "ROMANCE AWARD", so I can't fault you smiley

Oh im sure u did . . . . . . . . .im even impressed that u remember. wow!
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Sauron1: 2:25am On Mar 28, 2009
sillyboy:

1. . . . . .my husband slapped me twice when i was lying on bed because i asked him why he is sleeping without taking his bath,

I find that difficult to believe. He couldnt have slapped you because of that. Twice for that matter.

2. . . . . . .[/b] i got so angry and insulted him,  
You must have really struck a bad chord. What exactly did you say to him, what are the unpleasant stuffs you said?. . . .Am curious. . .lol. Women and their "tolotolo" mouth sha!

3. . . . . .what annoys me most is that  im pregnant
Eyahh. . . .kpele sogbo.  sad

4. . . . . . .Now he will not give me food money,
Dont you work? It's really stupid and archaic for a woman to depend on a man even if he's the hubby to eat in this century. If i were him, I wouldnt give you for 3 months, maybe that will make u look for a job.

ROFLMAOWPIMP grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:27am On Mar 28, 2009
~Sauron~:

ROFLMAOWPIMP grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Oga close ya mouth jo tongue
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by onyinye2(f): 2:27am On Mar 28, 2009
There isn't much anyone can say now but wait and listen for a news report on the vicious death of a woman and her unborn baby found in the back seat of a pick-up truck.

Till then, her days are numbered.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by DaPhoenix(f): 2:29am On Mar 28, 2009
sillyboy:

1. . . . . .my husband slapped me twice when i was lying on bed because i asked him why he is sleeping without taking his bath,

I find that difficult to believe. He couldnt have slapped you because of that. Twice for that matter.

Some men can be huge assholes. She probably innocently said it and he took offense to it.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:30am On Mar 28, 2009
Cristalz:

Dearie, read her post again. . .she said he was gentle and stuff when they were dating. Same way I'm sure she never said anything resembling ''I will abort your baby'' when they were dating.
See? Equation balanced. The lady hasn't been entirely honest here, plain and simple.

It's not an ''all of a sudden thing''. I strongly believe a lot of events happened previously which is why her husband lost control and hit her. I mean, think about it. . .he slaps her, keeps malice and refuses her feeding money all because she told him to go shower? Does that make sense? Come on.
Something else happened, and she is wrong to keep mum about her part in pushing him this much.
Hmmm, you're kinda right.

One thing I know about men(esp naija) is that they tend to hold things in and then explode. explosion might be caused by just a little incident mistaken for "disrespect" or insults.

But with that, his brutality is still not justified.

What if they were on a staircase and she fell from the slap?

His fate: Ten years lifting his ass and getting pump by his fellow cell mate.

@Tope
Who da hell was on ya case?

What the hell are you feeling like?

As much as I'd like to stick with the topic at hand, you're trying to deter it.

Abeg, case closed. Women and their uncontrollable hormone.

this shit is funny cheesy
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Hauwa1: 2:31am On Mar 28, 2009
true, they play mumu to their boss with yes sir yes ma attitude, only to come home and act up with smelling body
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Sauron1: 2:31am On Mar 28, 2009
DaPhoenix:

Some men can be huge assholes. She probably innocently said it and he took offense to it.

Were u there?? Probably innocently is a huge assumption.
Just like the way you assumed your baby is mine but the DNA proved otherwise.

tope2000:

Oga close ya mouth jo tongue

Lemme laugh na. . . . . . .
Sillyboy is amusingly silly. grin grin grin
He won't give the woman food for 3 months. . . . .Just when i thunk i am the meanest. . . .
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by onyinye2(f): 2:31am On Mar 28, 2009
DaPhoenix:

Some men can be huge assholes. She probably innocently said it and he took offense to it.
Ike and Tina Turner.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:32am On Mar 28, 2009
tope2000:

Oh im sure u did . . . . . . . . .im even impressed that u remember. wow!
Yea right?
rotfl wink
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:32am On Mar 28, 2009
Cristalz:

    It's not an ''all of a sudden thing''. I strongly believe a lot of events happened previously which is why her husband lost control and hit her. I mean, think about it.  .  .he slaps her, keeps malice and refuses her feeding money all because she told him to go shower? Does that make sense? Come on.
  Something else happened, and she is wrong to keep mum about her part in pushing him this much.

i strongly believe nothing happened. Havent you been observing other couples? After the dating stage both husband and wife change, the honeymoon where we pretend like butter wont melt in our mouths is over, any slight infraction can trigger a violent beating from a man who is naturally prone to anger. Look i've seen it so so many times before to know that a wife can walk around on egg shells all day, keep quiet and get a beating for not speaking.

You folks shld get married first before "strongly feeling" things.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:34am On Mar 28, 2009
DaPhoenix:

Some men can be huge assholes. She probably innocently said it and he took offense to it.

Unless this isnt the first time her husband will slap her . . . . i refuse to blv that
however whateva she might have said . . . . . her husband shudnt have slapped her. angry

Ebony-Silk:

@Tope
Who da hell was on ya case?

What the hell are you feeling like?

As much as I'd like to stick with the topic at hand, you're trying to deter it.

Abeg, case closed. Women and their uncontrollable hormone.

this shit is funny cheesy


You cud have ignored my post if u wanted soooooo nobody is tryin to deter u from the topic
u just cudnt help urself. . . . . .which is a good thing wink
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:36am On Mar 28, 2009
~Sauron~:

Lemme laugh na. . . . . . .
Sillyboy is amusingly silly. grin grin grin
He won't give the woman food for 3 months. . . . .Just when i thunk i am the meanest. . . .

Sillyboy is prolly joking . . . . .u r still the meanest sad tongue
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:37am On Mar 28, 2009
You must have really struck a bad chord. What exactly did you say to him, what are the unpleasant stuffs you said?. . . .Am curious. . .lol. Women and their "tolotolo" mouth sha!
Doesn't surprise me from a man who does not know the difference between cheating and courting shocked shocked

tope2000:

You cud have ignored my post if u wanted soooooo nobody is tryin to deter u from the topic
u just cudnt help urself. . . . . .which is a good thing wink
Are you done or do you still which to continue to prattle?

Romance section is always welcoming. I'm sure you'd find a topic to your knowledge.

Sometimes, you know, we musn't chew more than we can bite.

And I assure you, if you wish to go on, I'd be delighted enough to grant you your wish.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by onyinye2(f): 2:37am On Mar 28, 2009
Oya now, Tope na Ruby let us not deter from the topic at hand. wink Even though homegirl over her Ms. Tope  has my man GinuMINE as her profile pic. angry
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:37am On Mar 28, 2009
sillyboy, your number 4 is a bit surprising . . . when you married your wife did you expect not to provide for her? Even if she's not working she's still your responsibility no? Who is going to feed her? Her father?
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by DaPhoenix(f): 2:38am On Mar 28, 2009
~Sauron~:

Were u there?? Probably innocently is a huge assumption.
Just like the way you assumed your baby is mine but the DNA proved otherwise.



I know you doctored those papers  angry

grin

onyinye2:

Ike and Tina Turner.

YES!!!!

tope2000:

Unless this isnt the first time her husband will slap her . . . . i refuse to blv that
however whateva she might have said . . . . . her husband shudnt have slapped her. angry

True, it had to started from somewhere but I believe she is completely innocent.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Hauwa1: 2:38am On Mar 28, 2009
david you are right there, that's common in our society. i strongly believed her too. niaja men in nigeria sabi angry not be small. the stress sef pass them. it is the women in their life they pour the stress on.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:39am On Mar 28, 2009
Onyinye, stay out of this.

She's feeling like something. And I want to know what it is.

Another ID idea won't kill anybody
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:39am On Mar 28, 2009
Ebony-Silk:

Are you done or do you still which to continue to prattle?

Romance section is always welcoming. I'm sure you'd find a topic to your knowledge.

Sometimes, you know, we musn't chew more than we can bite.

And I assure you, if you wish to go on, I'd be delighted enough to grant you your wish.

Look at dis idiot grin grin grin grin
I beg in the name of God bring it on
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:40am On Mar 28, 2009
bring it on n lemme me yeye you on this forum grin grin grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:40am On Mar 28, 2009
tope2000:

Look at dis idiot grin grin grin grin
I beg in the name of God bring it on
Bring whaton?
You were prattling, have you stopped?
You no dey feel funky anymore?

Now that we got that over with, sit on one corner and watch. wink
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by onyinye2(f): 2:41am On Mar 28, 2009
Ebony-Silk:

Onyinye, stay out of this.
Okay cry


*Hauwa*:

david you are right there, that's common in our society. i strongly believed her too. niaja men in nigeria sabi angry not be small. the stress sef pass them. it is the women in their life they pour the stress on.
That is why I'm running STRAIGHT -------> for the Nigerians raised abroad.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:41am On Mar 28, 2009
As the elders of this thread were saying, before tope brought her drama on, the guy's brutality is not justifiable tongue grin cheesy
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Sauron1: 2:42am On Mar 28, 2009
tope2000:

bring it on n lemme me yeye you on this forum grin grin grin

Tope, some things ain't worth it, abeg.
Quit this shiznit.

tope2000:

Sillyboy is prolly joking . . . . .u r still the meanest sad tongue

How can i?? Sillyboy would not cater for this woman for 3 months.
Not even Lucifer coulda been that mean.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by onyinye2(f): 2:44am On Mar 28, 2009
~Sauron~:

Not even Lucifer coulda been that mean.
Of course you would know omo ekwensu. tongue
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Sauron1: 2:44am On Mar 28, 2009
onyinye2:

Of course you would know omo ekwensu. tongue

What is ekwensu?? Don't lemme invoke the wrath of Amadioha on you o.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by DaPhoenix(f): 2:45am On Mar 28, 2009
@tope2000 and EbonySilk, why can't we all be sisters? Come on now, group hug

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:45am On Mar 28, 2009
onyinye2:

That is why I'm running STRAIGHT -------> for the Nigerians raised abroad.

Are they any different? Experience tells me some are even worse.

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