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Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Hauwa1: 2:46am On Mar 28, 2009
true Ebony grin imagine guys like david grin na pleasure throughout for our live. lovey lovey, honey this darling that. will cook you ogufe, and rub your preg belly. hold plate for you to vomit sef and stroke your back. that's a man.
for those like em em you know him and them eh, grin na 911 we go dey call for them fiam fiam. before the slap land sef, we don dial 911 finish. na easy life be that my sister. i no go waste time to sent his stinking/unbath body to jail. there like osisi said, some jail bird go dey shook HB pencil for him nyansh grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:46am On Mar 28, 2009
Ebony-Silk:

Bring whaton?
You were prattling, have you stopped?
You no dey feel funky anymore?

Now that we got that over with, sit on one corner and watch. wink


I have said what i had to say . . . . . .but if u think u have mouth pls dont hestitate to use it
i dont need to go on yim and do family meeting abt u . . . . i have all the info i need  shocked
i have already said if u have something to say it directly to me not indirectly
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by onyinye2(f): 2:46am On Mar 28, 2009
~Sauron~:

What is ekwensu?? Don't lemme invoke the wrath of Amadioha on you o.
Psssssh. . . . . . whatever. tongue It means a person who is kind and loving. smiley


Phoenix,

Where am I in this group hug? cry
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Sauron1: 2:47am On Mar 28, 2009
onyinye2:


That is why I'm running STRAIGHT -------> for the Nigerians raised abroad.

Nigerians raised abroad?? Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!
We are single n ready to mingle
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Cristalz(f): 2:48am On Mar 28, 2009
onyinye2:

There isn't much anyone can say now but wait and listen for a news report on the vicious death of a woman and her unborn baby found in the back seat of a pick-up truck.

Till then, her days are numbered.


  You girls really should quit being so dramatic grin

  If she really did nothing wrong and he beat her up, different story. But evidence has shown that this is a very less than satisfactory model of a wife, hence the husband should be given a chance.

  At least he didn't beat her up.  .  .shows he actually cares about his baby grin Still not excusing the slaps. Just saying y'all should reason and realize that this woman is the one provoking her man.
  If you don't take care of the root cause of a problem, it will keep recurring. Might be the next man she marries and opens her mouth to insult that will actually take a butcher knife and cut her open.

  Help this woman, ladies, and tell her her faults is all I'm asking.

@David
I agree. Those raised abroad are the ones that will simply take a gun, blow her brains out and bury her in the backyard. Dude'll be married again in 2 months.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by onyinye2(f): 2:49am On Mar 28, 2009
davidylan:

Are they any different? Experience tells me some are even worse.
From my stand point there is a bridge from here to China of a difference.

~Sauron~:

Nigerians raised abroad?? Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!
We are single n ready to mingle
Let me clarify, BORN and RAISED.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:49am On Mar 28, 2009
~Sauron~:

Tope, some things ain't worth it, abeg.
Quit this shiznit.

How can i?? Sillyboy would not cater for this woman for 3 months.
Not even Lucifer coulda been that mean.

Oh i have said my piece but if she wants to carry on i wont back down for her
i have overlooked her rubbish enuff wink
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by DaPhoenix(f): 2:49am On Mar 28, 2009
onyinye2:

Phoenix,

Where am I in this group hug? cry

We exed you from the group lol

~Sauron~:

Nigerians raised abroad?? Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!
We are single n ready to mingle

We want marriage and not for you guys to come mingle and run away as soon we bring up talks about meeting parents.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:49am On Mar 28, 2009
What must she stop?
What did she start before?

You better let her tap water mouth keep running.
It's good to feel funky abi? tongue

tope2000:

I have said what i had to say . . . . . .but if u think u have mouth pls dont hestitate to use it
i dont need to go on yim and do family meeting abt u . . . . i have all the information i need shocked
i have already said if u have something to say it directly to me not indirectly

You have not said anything. You have not started.
YIM and family meeting abt me? na today? cheesy cheesy
As them all, they've talked abt me and eventually shut the Bleep up.
You'd soon shut your trap soon.

But dem don warn me that you're not worth it.
I'm done.

My last post to you. ROTFL.
was fun while it last wink
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:51am On Mar 28, 2009
LOL, Back to topic.
Romance sec must be closed today.

David, see what you dey make some ppl feel?
hmmm, na ur baby mamas dey worry me so shocked shocked
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tpia: 2:51am On Mar 28, 2009
sillyboy:

1. . . . . .my husband slapped me twice when i was lying on bed because i asked him why he is sleeping without taking his bath,

I find that difficult to believe. He couldnt have slapped you because of that. Twice for that matter.

2. . . . . . .[/b] i got so angry and insulted him,  
You must have really struck a bad chord. What exactly did you say to him, what are the unpleasant stuffs you said?. . . .Am curious. . .lol. Women and their "tolotolo" mouth sha!

3. . . . . .what annoys me most is that  im pregnant
Eyahh. . . .kpele sogbo.  sad

4. . . . . . .Now he will not give me food money,


Dont you work? It's really stupid and archaic for a woman to depend on a man even if he's the hubby to eat in this century. If i were him, I wouldnt give you for 3 months, maybe that will make u look for a job.

@ the last bolded part:

I'm sure you know some naija men require their wives to submit their paychecks to them (the husbands) as soon as it comes in.

From the supposedly combined paychecks, the man now "graciously" gives the wife money to feed the ousehold.

That's some guys' idea of a happy marriage!!! Some women's ideal marriage too, who knows!!

Different strokes for different folks. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

In any case, what kind of nasty miserly Scroogelike babyish character refuses to let his pregnant wife eat? Was this man tortured while growing up and now he's taking it out on his wife?

ITS TERRIBLY UNMANLY TO HIT A WOMAN. angry angry angry angry

A real man works on his temper if he knows he has a problem with it.  If he cant control his temper, then he should take a walk!!

Let him try hitting a western woman- either AA or white- the same way and see how fast they'll deal with him. The one wey never hit sef them dey deal with am how much more  an unrepentant batterer.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by DaPhoenix(f): 2:52am On Mar 28, 2009
Cristalz:

  You girls really should quit being so dramatic grin

  If she really did nothing wrong and he beat her up, different story. But evidence has shown that this is a very less than satisfactory model of a wife, hence the husband should be given a chance.

  At least he didn't beat her up.  .  .shows he actually cares about his baby grin Still not excusing the slaps. Just saying y'all should reason and realize that this woman is the one provoking her man.
  If you don't take care of the root cause of a problem, it will keep recurring. Might be the next man she marries and opens her mouth to insult that will actually take a butcher knife and cut her open.

  Help this woman, ladies, and tell her her faults is all I'm asking.

@David
I agree. Those raised abroad are the ones that will simply take a gun, blow her brains out and bury her in the backyard. Dude'll be married again in 2 months.

Again I ask, how did she provoke him by telling him to talk a shower?
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by DeReloaded: 2:52am On Mar 28, 2009
This is why they shouldnt have mods that live on the other side of the world

Romance and such need Americans since we are still up arolund this time and we can shut down idiotic threads like this.

Eyesore.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Sauron1: 2:53am On Mar 28, 2009
onyinye2:

Let me clarify, BORN and RAISED.

I still qualify!!!

DaPhoenix:

We want marriage and not for you guys to come mingle and run away as soon we bring up talks about meeting parents.

Get rid of those tattoos, the piercings, the blonde wig and maybe you can meet ma parents.
P.S. Are u ready to kneel down FULLY?? cheesy grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Hauwa1: 2:54am On Mar 28, 2009
abi o. bringing his dorty body come lay on a clean bed. and you know how smelly (musky eh) it could be after rushing molue
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by spoilt(f): 2:54am On Mar 28, 2009
DeReloaded:

This is why they shouldnt have mods that live on the other side of the world

Romance and such need Americans since we are still up arolund this time and we can shut down idiotic threads like this.

Eyesore.

Do all the moderators live in naija?  grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Hauwa1: 2:55am On Mar 28, 2009
@ Dereloaded

grin grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:56am On Mar 28, 2009
onyinye2:

From my stand point there is a bridge from here to China of a difference.
Let me clarify, BORN and RAISED.

Look you were born and raised in the US, you're no better than girls that have never been outside Lagos all their lives. FACT - most of them will make far better wives than you. no pun intended, just the cold hard facts.

A man is not the product of where he is born but how he is raised.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by sillyboy(m): 2:56am On Mar 28, 2009
@ David.

You dont have to be surprised. I am obliged to be responsible for my wife when I have one. . . .even for my gf. But if she relies on me to be fed all the days of her life, then UNICEF should put her name on her list. In the era where women claims to be equal to a man, why should a woman be relying on a man to be fed in the name of marriage.

I have always said, A woman who doesnt make at least 70% of my income is not gonna be considered. Talkless of 1 that will depend on me to buy "iru" and "maggie" for her.

@ Sauron and Tope.

Dont you know that Lucifer is sensible and smart. Women should work.
"No food for lazy Woman". . . . . .especially one with a loud mouth that can insult and deserve not to be spoken to for days.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Hauwa1: 2:56am On Mar 28, 2009
spoilt, they do  grin asking sistahwoman for a one way trip to  uncle sam land  grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Sauron1: 2:56am On Mar 28, 2009
spoilt:

Do all the moderators live in naija?  grin

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!
We all live in Naija and we have never been to the airport before.
What has the location of mods gotta do with their IQs??
There are many retards on Nairaland.

People like y'all should be called Nairetards. cheesy cheesy
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 2:57am On Mar 28, 2009
Ebony-Silk:

You better let her tap water mouth keep running.
It's good to feel funky abi? tongue

U descibed urself very well  . . . . . i owe u a candy wink

You have not said anything. You have not started.
[/quote

Honey i have said what i had to say directly to u . . . .which is more than u ever did.


YIM and family meeting abt me? na today? cheesy cheesy
YIM meeting on you . . . . . what a laff grin
U think i dont have a life like you . . . . .  . . u r the only medical student that spends lots of time on the net instead of reading
Tssssskkkk i pity ur  patients


As them all, they've talked abt me and eventually shut the Bleep up.
You'd soon shut your trap soon.

Oh they didnt  . . . they just accepted u for who u are cool


But dem don warn me that you're not worth it.

Funny some1 said that to u . . . i was told the same
Oh well cheesy
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by DaPhoenix(f): 2:58am On Mar 28, 2009
~Sauron~:

Get rid of those tattoos, the piercings, the blonde wig and maybe you can meet ma parents.
P.S. Are u ready to kneel down FULLY?? cheesy grin

I have no tattoos or blatantly visible piercings and my blond wig will remain.

Who am I kneeling FULLY to?
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by spoilt(f): 2:58am On Mar 28, 2009
~Sauron~:

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!
We all live in Naija and we have never been to the airport before.
What has the location of mods gotta do with their IQs??
There are many retards on Nairaland.

People like y'all should be called Nairetards. cheesy cheesy

Someone's taking it personal. Almost like living in naija is a bad thing?  
Dude where's your humor?  
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 2:58am On Mar 28, 2009
grin cheesy grin Thread was meaningful before.

Knew if the village bicycle comes, it'd either turn to sex thread or. . . .or God knows what.

We have one moderator here. Why can't he lock the thread?


You dont have to be surprised. I am obliged to be responsible for my wife when I have one. . . .even for my gf. But if she relies on me to be fed all the days of her life, then UNICEF should put her name on her list. In the era where women claims to be equal to a man, why should a woman be relying on a man to be fed in the name of marriage.

I have always said, A woman who doesnt make at least 70% of my income is not gonna be considered. Talkless of 1 that will depend on me to buy "iru" and "maggie" for her.
I thought UNICEF only provided for black college students.

Children and family would help her. There's no reason why any woman should continue to live with a brutal man out of fear of not being able to take care of herself or her children.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Hauwa1: 2:59am On Mar 28, 2009
Ebony aha! grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by spoilt(f): 3:00am On Mar 28, 2009
All these talks of locking the thread , i dont understand. Cant people differ any more? This is nairaland.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Sauron1: 3:00am On Mar 28, 2009
spoilt:

Someone's taking it personal. Almost like living in naija is a bad thing?  
Dude where's your humor?  

U were not thinking with that frame of mind when you were spewing without your brain cells.
What has the location of mods gotta do with a topic.
There are village people better than you in mind and spirit(pun intended). . . . .FACT!!!
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 3:01am On Mar 28, 2009
When they told you I was a medical student, you should have come and asked me wink
A college sophomore baby.
And if you want to know more, ask me my school hours, when I start and when I get out.

And if you do indeed have a life, you'd stop the YIM rumor kiss kiss
It's becoming a vogue on NL.
But yet, we continue to preach the "only the shutdown button". What a hot mess embarassed
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by Nobody: 3:01am On Mar 28, 2009
*Hauwa*:

Ebony aha! grin
Hauwa aha! grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by DeReloaded: 3:02am On Mar 28, 2009
what does iQ have to do with time of sleeping. People too dey like yarn dust for attention

spoilt:

Do all the moderators live in naija?  grin

one lives in the UK
one lives in Gambia
the other lives in the bloody Bermuda triangle  tongueiice

Point is they are not around to shut down such daft threads esp now that they are getting way too personal.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me Twice And Now He's Not Talking To Me by tope2000(f): 3:02am On Mar 28, 2009
sillyboy:

@ Sauron and Tope.

Dont you know that Lucifer is sensible and smart. Women should work.
"No food for lazy Woman". . . . . .especially one with a loud mouth that can insult and deserve not to be spoken to for days.

I agree jare  . . . every woman must work
I was just distracted by miss i get bfs thru net . . . . . . but comes here to chat nonsense
Some girls just give advice on what they cant do if it happens to them . . . . . . . hypocrites

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