Sea~Goddes:

yes, she really need help cause depression is such a hard thing for one to go through alone, here is three that i know

St. Dympna parton of mental illness
St. Jude parton of the helpless and hopeless people or cases
and of course our mother mary parton of all who love and care

here is a prayer of St. jude for relationship problem if that is what is her some hard time

"Saint Jude, we have problems in our relationship. Beg Almighty God to give us the light to see ourselves and each other as we really are. Help us to grow daily in self-knowledge and mutual love, while at the same time developing our potential to love and be loved. Help us, Saint Jude, to see and root out every manifestation of selfishness, vanity, and childish self-seeking -- those hidden enemies of love and maturity. Show us that by learning to love and being filled with love, we may complement and nurture each other as we share our lives together." Amen

Ebony-Silk:

He's not doing it on purpose.
It's the phone. . . .he's not the first one to do it.
I think he clicked sth on the phone, as he was replying to the threads, that made a new thread

Just hope Deshannel can work on that

SeanT21:

No woman should ask her man for his hands into marriage.Its the man Job.Some things are better left to man!!

Plus if he says NO,That will scar us for life.We woman are Way too emotional!!

Timmmy:


Pele o mr English master. what kind of thing is this for Christ sake? so because you want to mock someone you open another thread. i can see that you are not mature enough to be on Nairaland. Wait o! are you up to 18? so many people are here benefiting something good, you are busy making English. Is english our papa language? c'mon you dey make me vese. go and seat down and think. please behave yoursef next time.

T_bag:

@ Dashannel.

Why would you hae to create a new thread?

Deshannel:

@chika
R u trying 2 contradict yourself because thats ma point
I simply stated using d word 'think' because kids wit single parents tend 2 grow up smarter n well exposed. Only d stupid ones follow peer presure.
@25
U post like a kid. Grow up. There r other polite way 2 post. Av'nt u had bout d word cheeky.

OgidiBoy:

If a girl loves a guy and wants to marry him, what's wrong with her proposing to him. Although I thinks it's going to far if she gets on her knees to propose. I've been asked by so many Nigerian girls to marry them, but I always turn them turn

who are we going to ask to confirm this ur fairytale story? OR could it be a typo ? maybe u meant to say the opposite

cooldud62*:

every one knows my stance on this,

for those gurls who "have done alot"
they will be the first to preach adoption,
thats why you should know your patner so well before marriage.

~Sauron~:

I would let u make all the decisions if u propose to me. . . . .It's no rocket science.

Deshannel:

@25
How old r u by d way?

sistawoman:

I don't think we really want to debate whether single parenthood or double parenthood is better because we all know that having two is better than one.  

But the truth of the matter is most responsible single parents throw their lives into their children and work doubly hard to make up for the missing parent.  

Like in our house my boys cook, clean, wash clothes, take out the trash, cut the grass, etc.  They did not learn these things on their own but by doing them side by side with me.  All of this quality time is used to teach.  

I never let an opportunity slip by w/o teaching them something, even if we are sitting down and watching TV or riding in the car, there is a life lesson to be learned.  Because as single parents we know the chips and statics are stacked against us the responsible ones make every effort not to have our kids repeat our mistakes and make sure they have all the knowledge that we were not afforded.

~Sauron~:

Why not??
In this day and age of sex equality. . . . .I wouldn't mind if u are on one knee at Trafalgar square proposing to me on a sunny afternoon.
Make sure the ring is frostbitten though.

Deshannel:

@25
Nope.i should av stated this earlier. Single parents might not hav d time. BUT d bond wit his/her child is stronger than that of a two parent.
So he/she more chances to teach kid bout sex because d parent-child relationship is stronger

T_bag:

In as much as your submission is true, I think environment of should be considered and it could sure "up" the reasons for these negative behaviors. . . .[b]moreover, are these responsible for rape and the consequenses of rape as the Initial topic wants to discuss?[/b]To be honestthe law enforcement in Nigeria is quite sad and the judicial system is pathetic too. But it must be made clear that most Nigerians even don't know how to present their cases. The Police guys could be annoyingbut trust me, when you make it clear to them that you are serious about your case , they tend to sit tight.

Moreover, they would want to prosecute the criminal to the latter knowing fully well they will milk "him" too

There is still justice in Nigeria. . . .it's just that it's quite expensive in Nigeria to do than rest of the world.

Deshannel:

I think kids brotup in a single parent family tends 2 know more bout d good n bad about sex than dose brougt up by 2 parents.

Janeesa:

ABSTINENCE IS THE KEY NOT CONDOMS!!!! CONDOMS don't DO SHIT, THEY ARENT EVEN 60 PERCENT SAFE TALK LESS OF 80!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

big father:

You don't need to be harsh naa !

190:

i can only wait 4 8mins
anyway 25%more--how u dey
i love u ok
i really do

aze: