alfchye:

I think this is the same rubi with the story my sistet's boyfriend touch my breast and wants to sleep with me. The one with the case with this 190 guy and now you are married.Sum people here can lie.

You don't know me. responding to your post is immaturity to me
I am done with this thread Good bye

rubi:

You don't know me. responding to your post is immaturity to me
I am done with this thread Good bye

Good Bye to u too

That man was giving you the help you need.

@poster

Don't listen to to inciting and ignorant comments here. There is no need to take the law into your own hands or act rashly as  that will not solve anything. After all any hasty action on your part would have further adverse consequences for you and your family.
In a situation like this it is best to seek the face of God for wisdom in how to handle the situation.

You need to divorce her asap.

What a useless woman she is.

Brother no qualms she is still your wife and I know it will take a long time for the wound to heal.

But you need to know why she did that to you.
But please let me ask is she a nympho?

It is a pity , u must have taken ur actions by now but if i were to be you and i return frommy trip, i mean my words, i wont say anything, serious, i wont, i will continue life like i never knew.

Akinagirl:

You need to divorce her asap.

whtz up. u still on this site

Its a difficult one to take in, simple answer divorce her or else she will just feel you up with a load of liars.

serious help my broda

There was this story i read of such happening to a woman, i tot it was fiction but i liked her reaction, ignore her completely, pretend that nothing happened.
Your next action would be based on her reaction, so take ur time.

I am so sorry

are you sure you too dont have extramarital affairs? if you too are unfaithful try and manage with your wife afterall it is tit for tat and what is good for the gander is also good for the goose. ok.
seriously try to forgive her, afterall it is possible that you are the one who might have pushed her out, most especially if you are a lousy partner in bed and you are not at home to perform your duty well, and now somebody is helping you to do it. why should you be angry? just go home and settle it between yourself. ask her questions as to why she did what she did. i pray God will heal your marriage.
to the guys out there please LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP.

I must confess you hardly have time for your woman,you hardly satisfy her sexually . Though its no excuse for her infidelity. But note this- if she can do it right in your bedroom ! men you have a choice ! Every challenges have
alternatives. For those who is saying its like a fairy tales,uhmmmm wait until you experience what you have never imagine in your life. Things happen, believe me , its a world of laughter and a world of joy.

@ candylips,
yeah I am, why are you still on? Im on and off, left for awhile,got boring.

me too

Candylips, how you doing anyways? Long ass time.

am doing good babe.

TOPIC: I Found A Man On Top Of My Wife: I Need Help

He definitely isn't lost

look, women are devided into 3 catagories,

1, the stupid one if you leave her for one month some one will come and fool her and incourage her for sex and that will stop after one or 2 times from there she will be a good wife.

2, the money lover who pretends that she is not having good sex from husband and dosnt love him and any one falls in her net will spend , this type cannot stop even if husband catch her.

3, the Hot one who looks for only sex cannot reach 1% of ladies on earch,

so look where your lady falls,

@ candylips
thats good. Nice to hear from you again,

Watever she might have done does not call for public disgrace. whaver u have in mind of doing should be done in private she will either continue to be your wife or your ex wife and the mother of your child. So there will always be an attachment to you for life. Handle it maturely and in private .Dont disgrace her publicly, it doesnt worth it. There are other marriages with worst things and no one heard about it. Be wise.

Am sure u will not be happy if your son comes back from school one day and tells u that someone called him son of a prostitute, for sure the boy will face all this in future since u have made it a public thing. BE WISE

U have acted wisely by not letting it on your work.
Decision-d bible tells us that d only condition we can divorce our wife is adultery.
if she is remorse,love forgives but if not ,
she can act same other times  
Please do not hesitate

Thank God you are weighing your options very well. For you putting a cctv in your house mean u did trust ur wife. I think u have to sit down i think where both of u have gone wrong and amend it if possible

This story is 2 years old.

@iderichair, would u just shut your wordhole for a while, If u dont geddit,y dont u start the thread from the start of the page, words so annoying! Acting like a dumbass, smh

@OP did you go all googly eyed at the sight of his manhood?

The reason I ask is because any other heterosexual male would have commenced "operation woop-azz" on both of them. I'll be damn if I walk in on some other nigga dikin down my wife and I do absolutely nothing about it right then & there.

^^ To those who have no control over their rage, engaging in operation whoop ass can easily lead to someone dying in that sort of situation.

I think OP gave the right response. If you have the emotional discipline to catch yourself BEFORE going psycho, make sure the 2 idiots see you, then leave otherwise when you start bludgeoning someone in the face with your fist, you might find that ol' rage demon can't be stopped until you go all the way on everyone.
Nobody needs to go to hell for some dumb ish . . .

Then the issue can be addressed. . . which would most likely involve kicking her stank Ho azz out your house.

damn!

firstly I will make sure I treat that guy fuckup!

so there's no law for someone violating another man's wife? if there are none: then I will make sure that guy is arraigned to the barrack! he gonna be screwed, I will make sure he's well maltreated even when his folks see him, dem go dey follow am CRy! next time when he sees a married woman, he will pick race

Sometimes I used to think some things do happen in movies are just mere fictions/imagination. Life is real

As for the wife, the best thing is to forgive her, with time it will heal and it will become past tense cos marrying another wife totally suck - polygamous: who knows what the next one will do?

Relocate! Shikena! Kapish!

I Found A Man On Top of My Wife

LOL. The title of this thread is classic. Sounds like an Eureka! moment. . .always a delight to make a great discovery.

as a product of a divoced fsmily, i praay you ve not finally divorced, it is your kid that will suffer more, you really tried in controlling your temper, you for share us small money from the 20 mill you get nah, no amount 2 small,