Hello. I am the American, WHITE, girlfriend of one of these boys brothers. I have questions. Are u on?

who are you seeking to question

EdororAppl:

Hello. I am the American, WHITE, girlfriend of one of these boys brothers. I have questions. Are u on?

Who are you referring to?

Anyone that will listen, i guess. Please forgive my delayed response, I am at work

I am deeply disturbed by these allegations. Is this any reflect, in your opinion, on the brother of an accused? I am ebarrassed for his family and he won't talk about it. I don't know how to treat this situation

how about mind your own business,  u're a girlfriend and not a wife. you shouldn't get involved.

The best advice is to tell them to get a GOOD LAWYER,  they have the money, let them spend it.

of course he doesn't want to talk about it, who would ?

How do you feel about a young Nigerian man dating a white ( beautiful ) American woman?  Is this something that is discourraged?  It has been 3 years now but am I foolish for believing that one day we will be married?!!!   Do you have any question about the case  that you would like to ask me?!

@EdororAppl, Don't mean to be rude, yea, But why shud we believe U

EdororAppl:

How do you feel about a young Nigerian man dating a white ( beautiful ) American woman?  Is this something that is discourraged?  It has been 3 years now but am I foolish for believing that one day we will be married?!!!   Do you have any question about the case  that you would like to ask me?!

why would any like to ask you questions about the case ? you could be an imposter for all we know, and whats soo special about a white gal dating a nigerian man, urm, there are lots of white, chinese, and lebanese people in naija, nothing special homey,   tell your boo u want to visit his homeland, that will certainly change your perspective.

made.n.9ja:

@EdororAppl, Don't mean to be rude, yea, But why shud we believe U

I was about to say that,

posakosa:

how about mind your own business, u're a girlfriend and not a wife. you shouldn't get involved.

The best advice is to tell them to get a GOOD LAWYER, they have the money, let them spend it.

of course he doesn't want to talk about it, who would ?

You don't think it her business that her boyfriends brother is arrested for rape?

Sagamite:

You don't think it her business that her boyfriends brother is arrested for rape?

what proof do we have that he is her boyfriend's brother ?

These kids are very good boys, they have jobs and are going to college.   Very nice fellas.   I think there is more to the story.  They are smarter than this.  Why shouldn't you believe me?  Why would I make something like this up?  I was just looking for some advice.

posakosa:


what proof do we have that he is her boyfriend's brother ?

That is the question you should be asking not saying "mind your business".

EdororAppl:

These kids are very good boys, they have jobs and are going to college.   Very nice fellas.   I think there is more to the story.  They are smarter than this.  Why shouldn't you believe me?  Why would I make something like this up?  I was just looking for some advice.  

Come up with something more convincing regarding your relationship with the family so people can be comfortable to take interest.

Sagamite:

That is the question you should be asking not saying "mind your business".

Is he her husband ?

are any of the guys on nairaland?

if they are, they learned nothing from the daily dramas and stories that go on here?

Or maybe they felt people are exaggerating or it doesnt concern them.


lord help us.

Hindsight is always 100% sha. _{And yes, there could be some family/personal dynamics involved.}

posakosa:


BITCH ? WHAT HAS WARRANTED THE NAME CALLING ?

You were being rude to someone (if true) who is seeking support from Nigerians during a painful time.

Secondly, you are coming across as some white-hater. I hate any form of prejudice.

I personaly think that they picked up hookers and didn't want to pay and they got mad  an hollered rape.  This is rubbish.  And again, how does it reflect on the families?  Should  I be worried or supportive?

I don't know how to prove it to you. The family name is Edoror. They are from Lagos.

posakosa:


Is he her husband ?

Does someone have to be your husband before you care about a serious issue happening to their sibling?

So if you watch on national news that your girlfriend of 3 years ' sister was violently raped by some guys, you will say it is not your business and just advise her to go to the police?

Sagamite:

You were being rude to someone (if true) who is seeking support from Nigerians during a painful time.

Secondly, you are coming across as some white-hater. I hate any form of prejudice.

Rude: I never abused her or have I ? She does not come across to me as someone seeking support, she seems to me as one who wants to show that she has insider information,

My mom is half caste,   you should read my post again and see what I typed, I never called her a "cracker" or used any insulting words so stop instigating,

So please just give me the benefit of the doubt and try to give some  advise.  I can't talk to any of my American friends, they won't understand.

EdororAppl:

I personaly think that they picked up hookers and didn't want to pay and they got mad  an hollered rape.  This is rubbish.  And again, how does it reflect on the families?  Should  I be worried or supportive?

Then they should not worry too much if it can be proven that the girls worked the streets previously.

EdororAppl:

I don't know how to prove it to you. The family name is Edoror. They are from Lagos.

More . . . . .

Name of school, how many kids in the family, when did they arrive in the US, what is the dad and mum's profession etc?

I don't have any special insider information.  I just am dating a brother, not one of the boys.

posakosa:

Rude: I never abused her or have I ? She does not come across to me as someone seeking support, she seems to me as one who wants to show that she has insider information,

My mom is half caste,   you should read my post again and see what I typed, I never called her a "cracker" or used any insulting words so stop instigating,

Mate, you don't regard this as rude?

posakosa:

how about mind your own business,  u're a girlfriend and not a wife. you shouldn't get involved.

Or this as bordering as racist just because she said she was white?

posakosa:

and whats soo special about a white gal dating a nigerian man, urm, there are lots of white, chinese, and lebanese people in naija, nothing special homey,   tell your boo u want to visit his homeland, that will certainly change your perspective.

Margret Edoror, in school for nursing
Anthony Edoror Sr, " realtor " ( although he does some other jobs of which I am not sure, but he travels )
The oldest child came first
They rest of the family came in 2005

The fact that she first identifies as white, as if its suppose to be something special, There are whites, chinese, and lebanese people living in Nigeria, sooo nothing special there,


There is nothing you can do except to tell them to get a GOOD LAWYER, which they can definitely afford. If he gets a good lawyer, they may be able to fight the charges,


You need to understand that are only a girlfriend and thats why he wouldn't talk to you. Anyways!

I know my mom doesn't go about saying she's white/half caste, its not really a big deal, at least to me,

How can a girlfriend want to know insider family information, I don't know about that one ooh, regardless of race, girlfriend is girlfriend, its embarrassing situation, at this time, the only person they should be talking to is a LAWYER and not a girlfriend, just IMO.