chic2pimp:

Thats a harsher and less diplomatic way of rephrasing my posts.

~You Think!!

mohawkchic:


~You Think!!

tpia.:

can leilah explain the blood in the anus part.

Hemorrhoids?

TOPE2000!:

There was blood in her ass?

chic2pimp:

Of All the posts wey dey hia na dis wan u pick. Na wa for u and your blom blom oooo .

TOPE2000!:

Lmao . . . why did u quote me too
FYI i have already posted on this thread b4 but i just saw that new info

chic2pimp:

My bad. I no see your previous post. Okay then wot should my punishment be ? Wouldn't mind sucking bloom bloom ooo. 

davidylan:

Leilah house of commotion part 189760.

TOPE2000!:



They have a lord u know

bridget007:

@ touchmeder, yes it was sad, all true, I tried so hard but when someone cannot see any flaws or wrongdoings in their own behaviour and expectations it is doomed. i have never tried so hard to make it work, but inevitably I was only hurting my children and me, because he didn't care.

I am heartbroken but over it because he doesn't deserve me. I do know though that not all nigerian men are like that because I have met some very honourable and kind nigerian men. It is very easy when you are with someone that is so different to you to generalise and stigmatise all nigerians, I know though that it isn't the case.

Leila, I am sorry, your husband makes you do things you don't want to do, calls you names for losing your job and ultimately has no respect for you. A man who loves you, supports you in good and bad times and would never do or say anything that makes you feel bad or is not encouraging. Your husband has the best of both worlds, you when he wants you and anything he wants outside whenever he feels like it. I've seen this, he starts an argument, blames it on you and then he feels justified doing whatever or whoever outside-in is head its your fault and therefore does not trouble his conscience. That's how it works so any bad he does is your fault-you caused it, you will never ever win with a man like that, I know, don't put up with him, you can do better. No one deserves to be treated so shabbilly.

Wish you well, and in all honesty he does sound gay, with his anal fetish and the bleeding anus. I know what my ex thought of gays, he even said if our son ever turned gay he would immediatley disown him. I bet your husband is a closet homosexual because of attitudes like this. He married you as a cover to prove he is a 'real' man. Leila, it took me a long time to wake up and smell th coffee, WAKE UP GIRL.

I still love my ex, but I'm happy now, I can do what I want, don't have to be knocked down and put down all the time, can see who I want, go where I want, spend my money on whatever I like and don't have to put up with his farting, stinking arm pits, terrible mouth odor due to smoking sh*t, nagging, and having a man around that only talks to criticise and call me, never is romantic or intimate and never takes me anywhere. Ultimately life with him was a boring, uninteresting, unexciting pile of crap. I now have goals and dreams of my own for me and my children and I will meet them. I have many more friends, a better social life, more hobbies, travel more, a better job and look forward to pampering myself without feeling guilty. I have a beautiful home, excellent career prospects that may even take me to move to a part of the country I have always wanted to live in and I am being a little bit selfish for once as I am saving up for Mercedes SLK, which I hope to get next year. I care and support financially for the children (5 children) all myself as their fathers do everything they can not to pay(first husband actually gave up his job rather than pay!!!!). Am I bothered? NO, I am capable and if i have to I will do it alone.

Do it, 

bridget007:

@ touchmeder, yes it was sad, all true, I tried so hard but when someone cannot see any flaws or wrongdoings in their own behaviour and expectations it is doomed. i have never tried so hard to make it work, but inevitably I was only hurting my children and me, because he didn't care.

I am heartbroken but over it because he doesn't deserve me. I do know though that not all nigerian men are like that because I have met some very honourable and kind nigerian men. It is very easy when you are with someone that is so different to you to generalise and stigmatise all nigerians, I know though that it isn't the case.

Leila, I am sorry, your husband makes you do things you don't want to do, calls you names for losing your job and ultimately has no respect for you. A man who loves you, supports you in good and bad times and would never do or say anything that makes you feel bad or is not encouraging. Your husband has the best of both worlds, you when he wants you and anything he wants outside whenever he feels like it. I've seen this, he starts an argument, blames it on you and then he feels justified doing whatever or whoever outside-in is head its your fault and therefore does not trouble his conscience. That's how it works so any bad he does is your fault-you caused it, you will never ever win with a man like that, I know, don't put up with him, you can do better. No one deserves to be treated so shabbilly.

Wish you well, and in all honesty he does sound gay, with his anal fetish and the bleeding anus. I know what my ex thought of gays, he even said if our son ever turned gay he would immediatley disown him. I bet your husband is a closet homosexual because of attitudes like this. He married you as a cover to prove he is a 'real' man. Leila, it took me a long time to wake up and smell th coffee, WAKE UP GIRL.

I still love my ex, but I'm happy now, I can do what I want, don't have to be knocked down and put down all the time, can see who I want, go where I want, spend my money on whatever I like and don't have to put up with his farting, stinking arm pits, terrible mouth odor due to smoking sh*t, nagging, and having a man around that only talks to criticise and call me, never is romantic or intimate and never takes me anywhere. Ultimately life with him was a boring, uninteresting, unexciting pile of crap. I now have goals and dreams of my own for me and my children and I will meet them. I have many more friends, a better social life, more hobbies, travel more, a better job and look forward to pampering myself without feeling guilty. I have a beautiful home, excellent career prospects that may even take me to move to a part of the country I have always wanted to live in and I am being a little bit selfish for once as I am saving up for Mercedes SLK, which I hope to get next year. I care and support financially for the children (5 children) all myself as their fathers do everything they can not to pay(first husband actually gave up his job rather than pay!!!!). Am I bothered? NO, I am capable and if i have to I will do it alone.

Do it, 

GEW:

so every marriage should go wrong so they can get their fare share of SLK's?

you are so funny.

What sort of retarded POV is this? Is that what Bridget was implying? Jeebus.

frecklesnz:

From living with my husbands family in Nigeria.  I was able to see that my darling husband treated me much better than his brothers treated their wives.   Ha ha ha ha what a naive fool I was.  His father had three wives.  His senior brother cheated on his wife and didn't pay for the children's schooling spending all his money in clubs. But was taken back to the house and the family.  His junior brother had a local wife who lived at the house but wasn't allowed to bring her belongings so it was said they were not married.  But my darling was kind and sweet and helped me to cope with the unusual foods and the excessive heat.   

Now he has his visa he is visiting a Nigerian woman in Auckland who thinks she may be pregnant for him and has more than 20 other girls around the world and in Nigeria all thinking they are the only one. 

I was in Nigerian for 6 months all up and have not seen one marriage where the husband and wife were equals.  Shouting and fists were always flying.   The only peace came when a man was telling and the wife was obeying.  Yet all the woman are hiding money in their wraps and in pots cupboard and squirrelling away money as men are so greedy.

Men are handing out money 100 naira at a time and yelling at children to run and buy tomatoes and peppers.  Buy me drinks do this do that .  My nephew his first words were "Ill beat you."

Well

To all you Naija men out there.  We are all equal before God and if you want a marriage to work learn to SHOW true love as the bible says and its not with words but in deeds.  If you want a woman to obey then show love if she feels safes he will obey.

[size=14pt]Niaija Girls.  Look at the fathers.  Before you marry look very carefully at the father of the man.  If he is kind and gentle to his family then you may have a chance. But if he is shouting at the kids and the wife the son will do likewise in a few years.  [/size]

Leilah I was so relieved to see you had sent him packing.  I wish you luck because you are really going to need it. 

He has bad behaviour deep in his bones.  It will come back again and now you are tied to him financially. 

My heart goes out to you.