I think you and your boyfriend are both stingy people and you guys are made for eachother.
He is stingy cuz much is the transport,if i were him i'll wait till i have the money to send to you.
You are stingy cuz you see it as a big deal to handle your TP to the extent of posting it on NAIRALAND.
God bless you both

I thought it is the man's duty to make out time to visit you first. Or are you the one prodding him?

the way i see it, this lady (poster) wld be over 30yrs b4 ur aunty wld consider linking u and u accepting, if u let this oppurtunity pass u, u might not get anoda, person wey don rent house cos of u, ordinary t-fare u no wan spend, well, na u sabi ,

1. The guy is stingy. How's someone that can pay huge amount for a rent dont have paltry sum like N2000 Tfare to east.
2. U as a lady, i wouldnt buy the idea u going to c him. It shows desperation. He should come to Lagos. Abi who doesnt know Lagos?

2old4that:

1. [size=14pt]The guy is stingy. How's someone that can pay huge amount for a rent dont have paltry sum like N2000 Tfare to east[/size].
2. U as a lady, i wouldnt buy the idea u going to c him. It shows desperation. He should come to Lagos. Abi u doesnt know Lagos?

Abi O!

@ post
Look @ what desperation to get married can cause His excuse is way too lame. The poster didn't intimate us if he had given her anything in form of gifts or ca$h prior to this intended visit. Even if you decide to pay for your visit be careful you are not going over to just satisfy his sexual cravings only to end up on his sexual conquest list. A word is enough for the wise but that's if they ever will heed.

that kanye west poster just makes every thread nauseating with his posts, i wonder when he will be banned.
@topic. you seem like you want to go, then just go. i know how the excitement of new infactuation/like works on the mind, but be carefullllll.

I dated the most stingy guy in the world, this guy was so stingy that when we broke up he gave me a comprehensive list of every item he had spent on me, down to the last sweet. This guy once sent me credit and when i told him the credit was finished he told me that 1500 has 30 minutes, i called him with 17 mins what happened to the remaining 13 minutes. However, wehnever i traveld to see him he always payed my fare to and fro and even refunded me when i traveld on my own. A guy should take these responsibilties, you are not a wife yet, you re a girlfriend, never forget that. The time to be understanding and manage will come, not now

aisha2:

I dated the most stingy guy in the world, this guy was so stingy that when we broke up he gave me a comprehensive list of every item he had spent on me, down to the last sweet. This guy once sent me credit and when i told him the credit was finished he told me that 1500 has 30 minutes, i called him with 17 mins what happened to the remaining 13 minutes. However, wehnever i traveld to see him he always payed my fare to and fro and even refunded me when i traveld on my own. A guy should take these responsibilties, you are not a wife yet, you re a girlfriend, never forget that. The time to be understanding and manage will come, not now

what responsibilties when they are clearly not married?
i'm sure you are glad to have dumped his stingy ass. lol
counting minutes. na wa for some dudes ol

jay bee:

what responsibilties when they are clearly not married?
i'm sure you are glad to have dumped his stingy ass. lol
counting minutes. na wa for some dudes ol

What am saying is that even the most stingy man knows what he should do when dating a girl. I could afford to do stuff for myself but a man has to be able to provide some basic needs.
LOl i didnt dump him because he was stingy, inspite of his stinginess he was still a sweetheart and a very responsible man.

aisha2:

What am saying is that even the most stingy man knows what he should do when dating a girl. I could afford to do stuff for myself but a man has to be able to provide some basic needs.
LOl i didnt dump him because he was stingy, inspite of his stinginess he was still a sweetheart and a very responsible man.

hmmmmmmm
where is the rule written cos it certainly needs to be ripped off?

person wey pay almost 450 for a flat no fit send t fare 4 u 2 come over, my advice is that make he come see u first if he is serious.

POSAKOSA1:

Let aisha keep yarning dust---- no wonder she's still single.

And my stalker is back, I was afriad that i had become unpopular, Yep am back to my celeb status

^^^^^ [list]
[li]sorry but I don't stalk UGLY girls [/li]
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POSAKOSA1:

Let aisha keep yarning dust---- no wonder she's still single.

This dude ehn lol  . Wont you just ask Aisha2 for her email so you can hook up, cos this one youre stalking her, looks to me liek youre looking for attention.
What on earth does her "yarning dust" (in your opinion) have to do with her still being single biko kwanu this nigerian man eh? lol
This place is like. . . . I dont know

aisha2:

And my stalker is back, I was afriad that i had become unpopular, Yep am back to my celeb status

can i join your growing list of stalkers babes

Rosabelle:

This dude ehn lol  . Wont you just ask Aisha2 for her email so you can hook up, cos this one youre stalking her, looks to me liek youre looking for attention.
What on earth does her "yarning dust" (in your opinion) have to do with her still being single biko kwanu this nigerian man eh? lol
This place is like. . . . I dont know

jay bee:

can i join your growing list of stalkers babes

the babe is UGRY, there's nothing to stalk 

if I throw money at her now, na so so yansh she go bulala

POSAKOSA1:

the babe is UGRY, there's nothing to stalk

if I throw money at her now, na so so yansh she go bulala

Tell her you like her and stop hatin man!

Uju, no bring ur waka come here abeg.

POSAKOSA1:

Uju, no bring your waka come here abeg.

POSAKOSA1:

Uju, no bring your waka come here abeg.

looolll
market place this NL lol

Why must u be the first to visit?

hehe gurl u must be outta ur mind, dnt even try to visit him, hw cn u reside in lag nd u wanna date a guy in d east, gosh am , u had better b wise oooooo dis na modern world,

what if i reside in yanks and ask her to come over _{(paying for her ticket)}? would you still advice her to say NO?

jay bee:

what if i reside in yanks and ask her to come over _{(paying for her ticket)}? would you still advice her to say NO?

Yes. As long as you can fly out and not trapped in some arrange game

Radiant:

Yes. As long as you can fly out and not trapped in some arrange game

Cut me some slack woman. which naija girl do you know dat will pass a chance of a life time?
point is if they can say yes to that why can they bloody say yes this time around.
Key thing y'all keep forgetting is the date was sealed by the poster's relative so she must have screened the day hella outta him before introducing his/her sis.
What's the worst that could happen? she gets duped sexually? who are we to say they have not even been having phone e-sex all d while.

Rosabelle:

looolll
market place this NL lol

I don't want to toast u, now can you leave me alone,

jay bee:

what if i reside in yanks and ask her to come over _{(paying for her ticket)}? would you still advice her to say NO?

Even if he's in jand. He should be the one to come for the first meeting!

You guys are missing the point here. There are risks involved. What if the guy's ritualist, a drug dealer, or a rapist! going to his territory puts you at risk! But if you've at least met him for the first time, you can decide if the risk is worth it!

jay bee:

Cut me some slack woman. which naija girl do you know dat will pass a chance of a life time?[/b]point is if they can say yes to that why can they bloody say yes this time around.
Key thing y'all keep forgetting is the date was sealed by the poster's relative so she must have screened the day hella outta him before introducing his/her sis.
[b]What's the worst that could happen? she gets duped sexually? who are we to say they have not even been having phone e-sex all d while.

I will!

The worst that can happen is that she could get entangled with a psycho and put herself in bondage for life! Me I no go do am, even if the guy's in the White House!! He has to come FIRST!

Except of course he's Kwame Jackson

The poster is a prostitute full stop. Only a prostitute will demand for a man to pay for service that she herself will benefit from. What is she traveling all the way from the east for? Isnt it to come and collect and suck the guys d**ck at the end of the day? So whats all the fuss about that she cant shell out N2,000 from her accumulated family inheritance and take a bus? Gosh, some Girls can be so stingily idiotic and daft!

So if i was to wire her N2,000 in her account now, she will come all the way down to see me right? Jeez what a Dimwit!

^^^^ get lost you jerk!