doyin13:

Umbrage ke. . . Far from it.

I think your penchant for bombast though is a symptom of
the peripatetic state the Nigerian phenomenon has transformed
our teeming youths into. (Me sef I try na)

Now back to matters of a virginal nature

H2O2:

I think the widely held perspective and belief()  has always been that men MUST sow their oats before marriage.

I don't know if encouraging indulgence in these practices is expected to liberate, prevent and restrain them from cheating afterwards.

H2O2:

I was watching Judge Mathis or Judge Joe or whichever on channel 2 earlier and was amazed to hear a pastor, who was suing his wife for their honeymoon expenses, proclaim himself an avid supporter of pre-marital intimacy.  In his words, he belives in "test driving" and would never marry a woman he has not slept with.

Tatase:

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I don't think abstinence is easy (for guys and girls); in fact, I know it's hard, and I know for guys the peer pressure to have lots of notches in the bed post is more than it is for girls, so that's why f[b]or a guy to abstain till marriage, it speaks of a strong character and a lot of self-control. Both of which, I think are admirable. [/b]

doyin13:

Kai. . .All these praise addressed to me. My head will explode o
Ori mi wu o. . . E lagimo


Men, I am about to start my own movement.

I shall call it VIRGIN-CHIC. putting the abs in abstinence. hehehehehehe

Tatase:

I know!! And it's so unfortunate. It's almost like guys are expected to be sexually active and incapable of controlling themselves sexually and society makes excuses for them (that it doesn't make for girls): "oh you can't expect a man to abstain" and "guys will be guys." And to me, it's like why? It's not that it's easy to abstain but at the same time, if you're not an animal, you are to an extent supposed to be in control your impulses.

I don't think abstinence is easy (for guys and girls); in fact, I know it's hard, and I know for guys the peer pressure to have lots of notches in the bed post is more than it is for girls, so that's why for a guy to abstain till marriage, it speaks of a strong character and a lot of self-control. Both of which, I think are admirable.

I guess his bible is different. Ok so if he test-drives and the "car" is not to his satisfaction, what then? And I know I'm nobody to judge, everyone lives their lives in the way they can reconcile themselves with God or their beliefs. But it's not good when someone who's supposed to be providing spiritual guidance openly flouts what the word he's supposed to be preaching from.

Tatase:

I don't think abstinence is easy (for guys and girls); in fact, I know it's hard, and I know for guys the peer pressure to have lots of notches in the bed post is more than it is for girls, so that's why for a guy to abstain till marriage, it speaks of a strong character and a lot of self-control. Both of which, I think are admirable.

SA Goddess:

No virgin man for me, first couple of years we would have to deal with premature expulsion because dude just gets too excited at the thought/sight of pus-sy, I am just too impatient to teach anyone about intimacy!

agabaI23:

Someone taught you and was not impatient!

Enockia:

nobody taught her she learnt from the street

LEYE01:

all the ladies that has spoken are not god fearing wat does the bible says concern marriage b4 intimacy.or disvirgin

mama-gee:

Marrying a Virgin man?
That would be ridiculous.

madlady:

@Poster it would be wonderful, at least he would not expect me to swing from a chandelier like a performing monkey

agabaI23:

You are breaking your restriction.

madlady:


No I didn't go into details. That's the type of guy I want, do you think I will find one, say about 35 ish?

agabaI23:

A 35ish person who have never scored in between the posts?

madlady:

, Well I can dream, or are you saying I may go to the grave looking for my dream guy

agabaI23:

May be a monk who ran away from the monastery could do.

madlady:

Nah, he may have more issues than I.

Ok I will settle for a guy who never watches indecency, does not look at other girls and only ever had 3 past s-x partners.

That should give me millions of choices in the over 35ish section.