Can just ask ourselves this question.

What is LOVE?

For me, I would prefer learning to love rather than falling in love, that way my emotions wouldn't control me, I will be in control.

Donzman:

Crap. . .Love is far from innate, attachment to a person is.

Another huge fallacy is the idea that you can only "Love" one person at a time, bullcrap.

I think you need to be more enlightened about the term "love"
For your information, erotic love is just one of the 4 kinds of love.
Who says you can only love one person at a time?

Chukky_1:

For me, I would prefer learning to love rather than falling in love, that way my emotions wouldn't control me, I will be in control.

falling in luv dosent mean ur emotions is controling u, there are some ppl who are deeply in luv, but cant go out, now thare are controlling their emotions

fall in love o grow in love.i think what everyone needs is true friendship.if anything developes from there,fine but if not life suer has to go on.it sucks when the feelings are one sided u know.

Nothing bad in falling in love, and we really don't have to be in love all d time, for example myself, I like beign single for now, Falling in love is not all that matters, being with the right person is what really matters, and if u're in love with someone and the person loves u back, u should feel lucky, it's like a gift!

is good to love and be loved in return, for those that dont love , i dont expect you to fall in love what i want is for you to grow in love and in return love will grow in


love u, all nairalanders.

for real, but we dont have to fall so deeply, cause sooner or later we will have to pay the price for falling in love so deeply.

if you like fall in love, if you dont like, then dont fall in love - stupid ingressis.

ferlie, se na fight

hmmmmmmmmmmm, a three letter word with a thousand interpretations.

three or four which one?

sorry na slip of mind and hand, na four

Firstly, u don't fall in LOVE, u walk, learn and understand in LOVE. Love could be sweet if it happens between the 2 right individuals. Love is reciprocal, it is not one-sided. What happens nowadays is dat alot of pple meet the wrong persons. That one person's own did not work out does not mean it doesn't exist. All u need is meet the right person and u will know it does exist. Don't be deceived by films!

hmmmmmmmmm,films , mills n bones novels

@betantee i know you read alot of these, if not u wont know

CAN SOMEONE DEFINE LOVE FOR ME?. . .If you define it, then people will know what they're falling into and if it's necessary or not.

love is operation open your eyes well well

how u go take open eye wel well,? wen oyibo talk say love is blind, haba!

@lola baloo, i no read mills n bones oh,i only remember say girls wey dey form aje butter dey like hold am for hand most times those olden days wen boys be boys.

Falling in love or not depends on how you view love.You can choose to stand or fall in love;which is better? Maybe standing in love should be one of the options.

yea kindda.!!!!!

As for me o, even if i must fall in love, the love must grow first. Think growing in love will be better but both falling and growing are still the same, na love end am and love can really be a dangerous word in the life of man. I dont know jare! I just want to be in friendship cos that's much easier and interesting, abi?

Uhm. . . .Uhm. . .

loneliness dose not means that you are not to be loved or you living with a soul-mate.you are alone because you wants to be or you are not expose or a novice to the call.
about love,you do not have to love someone before falling inlove especially to the right genders.the opposite sex might be looking for personality,celebrity,e.t.c.,but the fist mentioned above will take anyone available once she is neat,acceptable,and grown up.in their world,there is no ugliness but in ours there is alot including who bagged the highest degree,who have the hummer or maintain.

Sure we do!  It is a fulfilling feeling--and one of the needs that must be met to ensure that we are emotionally healthy.  It starts with falling in love with yourself first.  If you do not love yourself, you can never love another including your own children.

Yes oh we do have to fall in love before loving the person because you can't make love to him/her without been in love.

Fall in love with the inner beauties first before their outside beauty, since we all know that as we grow the outer beauty fades away but the inside one stays forever.

E-baby:

Yes oh we do have to fall in love before loving the person because you can't make love to him/her without been in love.

Fall in love with the inner beauties first before their outside beauty, since we all know that as we grow the outer beauty fades away but the inside one stays forever.

hehehe, who say's u nid to fall in love b4 having sex?

I do have a believe that it is not good to fall in love. falling is something you do unconsciously, so falling in love must be something done without your consent. However, it is very good to dive into love. When we dive in love we have no fear of being held responsible for our actions, inactions and reactions.
Do the world a favour people, DIVE into Love never fall in it.

i wonder too,cos love is pain

Dear.,
I am glad that there is still pple lyke you here, I really wanna know you ok, ur posting is quite a good and interesting 1. I really like it

Cheers

mmirimaraugo,
and i want you to intimate me more about this topic " do we really need to fall in LOVE " and If LOVE is PAIN

Dear.,
I am glad that there is still people lyke you here, I really want to know you ok, your posting is quite a good and interesting 1. I really like it

Cheers

mmirimaraugo,
and i want you to intimate me more about this topic " do we really need to fall in LOVE " and If LOVE is PAIN