doyin13:

so wetin short persin like me go do

muchbabe:

Go chop beans so u go tall small. U must reach 6ft at least.

JohnKester:

The responses here so far are a proof of the sorry state of affairs with women and men today. Everything is calculated and then a marriage occurs. Yet most people are appalled at the high level of divorce today, resulting from the unharmonious relationships called marriage. After all these intellectual calculations and preferences, clinically arranged in your mind, your heart is forced to sway positively if the preferences are met but only for a time!

Only a few have talked of the most important considerations and the fact that LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT does happen is not noticed.

Get a man who conforms 100% to this list of preferences, if there is no [b]harmony [/b]due to the absence of compatibility with you; does not complement your qualities; does not share your sense of responsibility; and has not come to terms with the fact that mutual respect is of paramount importance in any relationship, then your days of happy co-existence in any form of union are numbered because you will never enjoy the relationship.

Love emanates from the spirit and this does not depend on intellectual calculations, but on the vibrations one intuitively perceives from the personality of the other party. So I urge all of you to wake up from your dreams and open your hearts to true love. I can assure you that when real love hits you, not one of the preferences listed here will be remembered.

Peace!

0hsisi:

Height
Not too big an issue,a good and sexy man can be tall or short,handsome or not so handsome.Always preferred they were taller than my height though
e.g Sauron

You're so correct on dis 1 ahaha [size=3pt] but he is tall [/size]

chamotex:

^^^Are you saying Sauron is short and not so handsome?

0hsisi:

Height
Not too big an issue,a good and sexy man can be tall or short,handsome or not so handsome.Always preferred they were taller than my height though
e.g Sauron

JohnKester:

The responses here so far are a proof of the sorry state of affairs with women and men today. Everything is calculated and then a marriage occurs. Yet most people are appalled at the high level of divorce today, resulting from the unharmonious relationships called marriage. After all these intellectual calculations and preferences, clinically arranged in your mind, your heart is forced to sway positively if the preferences are met but only for a time!

Only a few have talked of the most important considerations and the fact that LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT does happen is not noticed.

Get a man who conforms 100% to this list of preferences, if there is no [b]harmony [/b]due to the absence of compatibility with you; does not complement your qualities; does not share your sense of responsibility; and has not come to terms with the fact that mutual respect is of paramount importance in any relationship, then your days of happy co-existence in any form of union are numbered because you will never enjoy the relationship.

Love emanates from the spirit and this does not depend on intellectual calculations, but on the vibrations one intuitively perceives from the personality of the other party. So I urge all of you to wake up from your dreams and open your hearts to true love. I can assure you that when real love hits you, not one of the preferences listed here will be remembered.

Peace!

JohnKester:

Intro was read and understood.

The entire activity is intellectual, calculating and myopic whereas LOVE which should form the basis of any relationship is definitely NOT INTELLECTUAL!
Love should be directed at the personality behind the different facades presented by outward appearance.  Ask yourself what will sustain the relationship if, through a stroke of fate, the individual lost all those attributes listed as preferences!

Peace!

Good Girl:

- Height _{(he doesn't need to be a basketballer, but at least taller than my 5'6" self)}
- Confidence/Swagga
- Intelligence
- Good Looks
- Wealth/Affluence
- Power/Influence
- Fashion/Dress sense

kistehsia:

1. Compassionate
2. Soft Spoken
3. Understanding
4. Intelligent
5. Hygenic

Sagamite:

Follow the rules kistehsia.