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Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 4:41pm On May 19, 2010

I heard about b.o.o.b.s and i came to investigate. where are they? shocked

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Sauron1: 4:43pm On May 19, 2010

davidylan:

I heard about b.o.o.b.s and i came to investigate. where are they?

The other thread. . . . .HOT OR NOT?

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 4:43pm On May 19, 2010

davidylan:

I heard about b.o.o.b.s and i came to investigate. where are they?

Ha see Davidi! Sauron, I'm not posting my pic again! Davidi will spoil it with his analysis machine tongue

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by martinosi: 4:45pm On May 19, 2010

shadrach77:

now here is my observation over a period of time - ladies who play hard-to-get to the extreme do so to cover up a deficiency in their character. Now here is the way it works, the lady who has a good character does not feel she has to play the hard-to-get game excessively because she knows her character is good enough to convince a man - she tries to be herself, afterall she has nothing to prove to anybody anyway - the morally bankrupt lady knows she lacks something therefore she tries to over-compensate for this deficiency by being excessively rude while playing the so called hard-to-get - this is a psychological ploy to give an impression that she is reserved and decent - nuff said

CO-SIGN !!! TRUE TALK!!! WORD, NUFF SAID AND SOME!!!

YOU CAN SAY IT ANOTHER WAY

"THE CHEAPER THE MATERIAL (WEAK CHARACTER) THE HIGHER THE GLOSS (HARD TO GET COVER UP)"

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Sauron1: 4:46pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

Ha see Davidi! Sauron, I'm not posting my pic again! Davidi will spoil it with his analysis machine

Nah. . . . .David is looking for the other booobs.
Obianuju, post the pic before i vex o.

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 4:47pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

Ha see Davidi! Sauron, I'm not posting my pic again! Davidi will spoil it with his analysis machine

my boys are on strike. Post the photos. No analysis . . .

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 4:49pm On May 19, 2010

davidylan:

my boys are on strike. Post the photos. No analysis . . .

I don't trust you! undecided

~Sauron~:

Nah. . . . .David is looking for the other booobs.
Obianuju, post the pic before i vex o.

Don't worry, we'll find anoda thread without Davidi in it! tongue

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 4:50pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

I don't trust you!

Don't worry, we'll find anoda thread without Davidi in it!

If you are confident in urself then your analysis will be generally positive. What is there to be afraid of?

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 4:52pm On May 19, 2010

davidylan:

If you are confident in urself then your analysis will be generally positive. What is there to be afraid of?

Trust me, I've got no problem with my confidence. It's your machine I've got beaf with! angry

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Sauron1: 4:54pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

Don't worry, we'll find anoda thread without Davidi in it!

Stop using David's arrival as your excuse jare.
Post what you gotta post and remove in 5 mins.

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 4:56pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

Trust me, I've got no problem with my confidence. It's your machine I've got beaf with!

The machine is on strike. Post ya foto.

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 5:00pm On May 19, 2010

But seriously, do you guy think I'l post my pishur on NL? As in this crazy place? lol! grin

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Sauron1: 5:01pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

But seriously, do you guy think I'l post my pishur on NL? As in this crazy place? lol!

What can anyone do to your picture?
How's NL different to facebook where you have about 400 pics of yours.
Uju, your excuses are running thin. . . . .

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 5:01pm On May 19, 2010

more excuses . . . nothing crazy about this place. Mine is up and no one has killed me yet. grin

The cute confident chics put there's up and they get compliments all the time . . .

still waiting . . . one sec has been up for the last few mins. grin

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 5:05pm On May 19, 2010

~Sauron~:

What can anyone do to your picture?
How's NL different to facebook where you have about 400 pics of yours.
Uju, your excuses are running thin. . . . .

I dont have pictures on FB, Daividi knows na, he's my friend! wink

davidylan:

more excuses . . . nothing crazy about this place. Mine is up and no one has killed me yet. The cute confident chics put there's up and they get compliments all the time . . .

still waiting . . . one sec has been up for the last few mins.

Well, I'm paranoid . . cheesy

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Sauron1: 5:08pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

I dont have pictures on FB, Daividi knows na, he's my friend!

Well, I'm paranoid . .

I give up. . . . . .Oya, move along!!!

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 5:08pm On May 19, 2010

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 5:15pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

I dont have pictures on FB, Daividi knows na, he's my friend!

nah you deleted me. Thanks . . .

You have no confidence in your own looks. Such a shame. grin

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 5:18pm On May 19, 2010

davidylan:

nah you deleted me. Thanks . . .

You have no confidence in your own looks. Such a shame.

Awwww, did I? And here I was thinking it was the other way round! undecided

Confidence in my looks? Of cos I do! I just dont like that Sauron's too interested in it . . _{I heard he's broke, he shops on ebay!} shocked

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Nobody: 5:28pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

Awwww, did I? And here I was thinking it was the other way round!

yeah you did, not me.

Ujujoan:

Confidence in my looks? Of cos I do! I just dont like that Sauron's too interested in it . . _{I heard he's broke, he shops on ebay!}

There's nothing to Sauron's insistence on seeing your photos . . . grin

Just post them. 10 mins only

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Sauron1: 6:07pm On May 19, 2010

Ujujoan:

Confidence in my looks? Of cos I do! I just dont like that Sauron's too interested in it . . _{I heard he's broke, he shops on ebay!}

Ujujoan, post your pics or waka far jare. . . . Shiorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Centkaycee(f): 6:28pm On May 19, 2010

An ugly lady with a bad xter is, A DOUBLE DISADVANTAGE,

A beautiful lady with with ugly xter is, A PAINTED DEVIL now,

An ugly lady with a good xter is , A ONE SIDED ADVANTAGE,

But A beautiful lady with a beautiful xter is, A BLESSING.

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by ikamefa(f): 6:32pm On May 19, 2010

^^^^^ and? undecided

what has that got to do with playing hard to get?

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by oyinda3(f): 7:22pm On May 19, 2010

haha

but sometimes i think serious girls will play hard to get to weed out unserious guys. the believe is that if he's really into you, he'll hang around. but if he is not and just wants to mess with u, he'll get tired and leave.
so yea i agree that there is a psychology there. it justs means that the girl prefers serious relationships over flings. if she wants flings, she will go with every guy that tries to bed her and will definitely not play hard to get. wink

so it depends on what the girl wants from u or how she perceives your sincerity tongue

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by Princek12(m): 8:02pm On May 19, 2010

oyinda.:

haha

but sometimes i think serious girls will play hard to get to weed out unserious guys. the believe is that if he's really into you, he'll hang around. but if he is not and just wants to mess with u, he'll get tired and leave.
so yea i agree that there is a psychology there. it justs means that the girl prefers serious relationships over flings. if she wants flings, she will go with every guy that tries to bed her and will definitely not play hard to get.

so it depends on what the girl wants from u or how she perceives your sincerity

Because a girl is not playing hard to get does not necessarily mean that she accepts going to bed with every guy who offers to bed her. It just means she does not play yanga and childish games when she is genuinely interested in the guy, and she does not fail to show interest in the guy just because she feels that playing hard to get is the right thing to do. I get a feeling you are one of those chicks who play hard to get.

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by oyinda3(f): 9:11pm On May 19, 2010

Princek12:

Because a girl is not playing hard to get does not necessarily mean that she accepts going to bed with every guy who offers to bed her. It just means she does not play yanga and childish games when she is genuinely interested in the guy, and she does not fail to show interest in the guy just because she feels that playing hard to get is the right thing to do. I get a feeling you are one of those chicks who play hard to get.

lol. what if she is genuinely interested in the guy but her 6th sense tells her that the guy is just messing with her? cheesy

like the op says the girls who play hard to get are the "ugly ones" which means the guy is not genuinely interested in the first place and is just messing around with the poor girl.

trust me if a girl is genuinely interested in a guy and she senses that he is also genuinely interested, she won't play hard to get or she will stop playing hard to get at that point when she notices that. it means she is protecting herself from the playaz out there tongue

n not interested in their games.

and besides what's the difference between playing hard to get and saying "no"? it's the same thing. just that "no" can turn to "yes" if the guy prove himself to be a serious guy.
but usually "no" mean that the girl is not interested in you at all!!! lollol cheesy

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by indie22(f): 9:21pm On May 19, 2010

Playing hard to get helps me wiv the whole "getting to know each other process", if we stay friends long enough, we get to know things about each other, if I find being friends wiv d guy comfortable and liking him comes easy, then being a couple becomes easier.

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by oyinda3(f): 9:24pm On May 19, 2010

^ exactly. u get to know them to see if they are lipsrsealed

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by dayokanu(m): 9:46pm On May 19, 2010

Playing hard to get is for teens. Why play hard to get when you know in the process of dating you can know the guy and end it with him if he doesnt fit in.

Its not like you are gettng married to him the day after agreeing to date

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by indie22(f): 9:48pm On May 19, 2010

Getting to know him in the process of dating, will mean you'll prolly end up dating and maybe sleeping wiv every "chyker" that comes your way

And then wat?

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by dayokanu(m): 9:54pm On May 19, 2010

So you sleep with one the first date of dating?

Re: The Psychology In Playing Hard-to-get by indie22(f): 10:00pm On May 19, 2010

Did u even read my post?

Since u reckon playing hard to get is juvenile, chicks shuld just go on saying yes to every chyker that comes their way, abi?

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